Kukho uluhlu olubanzi lwesicwangciso sokuphuhlisa ulwimi kulutsha kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka emi-2 ubudala. Ukuthelekiswa komntwana omnye komnye akuyimfuneko okanye kuncedo kuba abantwana bebetha amaxesha amaninzi kumaxesha ahlukeneyo kwaye amaninzi amanqaku anokuchaphazela ukuba umntwana uthetha kangakanani okanye kangakanani. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abahlala kwikhaya elithile bangathatha ixesha elithile ukuba babe nolwazi olufanelekileyo kwiilwimi (kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha banokukwazi ukuthetha izakhono ezingcono kakhulu kunontanga yabo).
Abantwana abaselula kunye nabantakwabo abaninzi bathetha kamva kuba abazalwana noodade "bathetha nabo" ngenye indlela. Uphando lubonisa ukuba amantombazana athetha kwangaphambili kunamakhwenkwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona kunjalo, ukuthetha emva kwexesha okanye intetho engabonakaliyo ingaba iiflegi ezibomvu zokulibaziseka kokuphuhliswa okanye ingxaki yomzimba. Kuloo meko, umntwana wakho unokufumana inzuzo yonyango . Isinyathelo sokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo, sinquma ukuba intetho yengane yakho ibe yinto ekujoliswe kuyo.
Iintetho ezibalulekileyo
Ekubaleni lokuzalwa komntwana wakho wokuqala, umntwana ubble uqala ukutshintsha. Njengoko umncinane wakho uzama ukulinganisa izandi eziva ngaye, umtya weezwi uqala ukuthatha umongo wamagama angamazwi. Kwiinyanga ezalandelayo, amagama aqala ukuhlanganiswa kwisigwebo esincinci, kwaye emva kokuzalwa komntwana wesibini, ngokuqhelekileyo kukho ukuqhuma kwesigama kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezivakalisi ezinzima.
Unokusebenzisa olu luhlu lwezinto ezibalulekileyo kunye neempawu zokulibaziseka okunokwenzeka xa ucinga ukuba intetho yakho encinci iyaqhubeka ngokuqhelekileyo.
Iinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezi-18:
Ngomntwana wokuqala wokuzalwa komntwana wakho , abancinci banalo uluhlu olubanzi lwezandi zentetho. Uyakwazi ukuqonda okungenani elinye okanye amagama amabini aqhelekileyo afana no "baba" (ibhotile) okanye "mama." Iimpawu ezithi, ngokubheka kwakhe, kubalulekile kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla ngokuqhelekileyo ngamazwi okuqala ayenziwa ngumntwana.
Ngaphandle kwala magama asemqoka, intetho yengane yakho iya kuba yintlawulelo kwizandi ezi-12 kwiinyanga. Ngaphezulu kweenyanga ezintandathu ezilandelayo, kufuneka uqale ukubona umntwana wakho eqala ukukhulisa unxibelelwano oluphambili olufana ne:
- uzama ukukopisha amagama akho
- ukuxelisa umva kunye nencoko yangempela
- Ukutshintshisa intetho yakhe kubuza umbuzo (esithi "Jui?" xa ucela i juice) okanye wenze imfuno (umemeza esithi "Jui!" xa ukhalela ijusi.)
- ngokuzisebenzisa amagama ngaphandle kokuphendula kwisandi ozenzayo
- usebenzisa ukudibanisa kwemiqondiso kunye nezandi ezizenziweyo ukuthetha nento afuna ukuyithetha
Nangona ukuqwalasela amagama okanye izandi ezenzayo kubalulekile, kukuqwalasela nokuba ngaba umntwana okanye umntwana wakho unokulandela iindlela ezilula ezibandakanya isinyathelo esinye (Phakamisa ibhloko.).
Iinyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezi-24:
Kuqhubeka kukho uluhlu oluqhelekileyo lwezakhono zokuthetha ngeli xesha lokuphuhliswa . Ukongeza kwimiba yokuphuhliswa, ubuntu bomntwana bakho kunye neemeko zinokudlala indima kumazwi amaninzi ozivelayo kunye nokuba kaninzi kangakanani. Ngokomyinge, nangona ixesha lakho umntwana lifikelela kwiminyaka emi-2, unokulindela ukumbona efikelela ezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Ukongeza ngokwengeziwe amagama kwisigama sakhe
- ukudala amabinzana amagama-nangona abayi kulungiswa kwegrama ("hayi," "incwadi efundwayo")
- usebenzisa amagama ukuchonga imifanekiso kwincwadi okanye kwiindawo ezikufutshane
- ukubiza ngamalungu omzimba, izilwanyana kunye namaxesha athile izandi zesilwanyana ("apho" kwenkomo)
Kwakhona, kufuneka uqwalasele indlela umntwana wakho akwazi ngayo ukuqonda oko uthethayo. Ngaba uyayiphendula xa ubuza imibuzo? Ngaba unokulandela imigaqo emibini elula nge-2?
2 ukuya kwe-3:
Kuphakathi kweminyaka yobudala 2 no-3 kubakho xa abazali bebona ukuqhuma kwentetho yabantwana kunye nezakhono zomlomo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa isigama somntwana sikhula kumazwi angama-200 okanye ngaphezulu, kodwa into ebalulekileyo kukubona ukwanda okuqhubekayo kwinani lamagama umntwana wakho aqala ukusebenzisa ngeveki ngeveki.
Ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo ukujonga kulo nyaka ziquka:
- ukuthetha amanye amagama nokuthabatha amagama amatsha awaphulaphulayo rhoqo
- ukudibanisa amagama amathathu okanye ngaphezulu kwisigwebo (esingaba sisigama segrimatically)
- qalisa ukuchonga imibala, imilo, kunye neengcinga ezininzi okanye ngaphantsi kwaye zikhulu ngokuthe ngqo
- ukucula iingoma kunye neengoma okanye ukuphindaphinda amabali avela kwiincwadi ozifunde rhoqo
- uqala ukubonisa iimvakalelo ngamazwi ("Ndilambile," "Sam uhlungu")
Kule minyaka, kusasazeka ukuba abantu abangaphandle kwintsapho yakho okanye inkqubo yokukhathalela abanakho ukuqonda umntanakho kunye nokwazi. Ngonyaka ozayo, intetho yomntwana wakho kufuneka icacile kwaye icace.
Ukuba ukhathazekile ngentetho yomntwana wakho, khuluma nodokotela wakho wezilwanyana ngezizathu zokubambezeleka kokuthetha kunye nezindlela onokuxhasa ukuphuhlisa ulwimi ekhaya.
Umthombo:
Bowers, J. Michael, kunye. al. I-Foxp2 Idibanisa ukuhlukana koSondo ngo-Ultrasonic Vocalization nge-Rat Pups kunye noLawulo lweNkundla yokuThola iMaternal, I-Journal ye-Neuroscience, ngomhla we-20 kuFebhuwari 2013 (kufumaneka ngo-11 Matshi 2013)