Indlela inkundla inquma ngayo inkxaso yezingane zokulungiselela amanyathelo okugcina
Ukugcinwa kokubambisana kubhekisela ekugcinweni komzimba kunye / okanye ngokusemthethweni komntwana emva kokuba abazali bahlukane okanye baqhawule umtshato. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abazali bahlanganyela kwiimbopheleleko zemihla ngemihla zokukhulisa umntwana, kubandakanywa neembopheleleko zemali. Ngenxa yoko, abaninzi abazali bayazibuza malunga nokugcinwa kwamanyathelo, ukuxhasa abantwana kunye nendlela ilungiselelo elichaphazela ngayo imali yokuxhasa abantwana.
Imithwalo-mboleko yokuxhasa abantwana ilawulwa nguMthetho weMigangatho yeNkxaso yoMntwana (i-CSSA.) Nangona kunjalo, i-CSSA ayijongisi imiba yokuxhaswa kwabantwana ngokubambisana. Xa ugqiba uxanduva lokuxhasa abantwana, iinkundla zilawula amanyathelo okugcina ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukusetyenziswa kweNkcazo yeMigangatho yoLondolozo lweMntwana
Umthetho ufuna ukuba inkundla ilandele inkundla ukuba iqondise umzali ongekho uxanduva lomntu ngamnye ukuba ahlawule isabelo sombopheleleko wokuxhasa umntwana ngokubhekisele kwizinto ezithile, njengenzuzo, kwinani labanye abantwana, njl. ukucacisa uxanduva lokuxhasa. Ukuba ngabazali banomntwana ngokulinganayo, ama-50 ekhulwini kweso sithuba, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, inkundla inokuthi iwise umzali ukuba ahlawule inkxaso yezingane. Nangona kunjalo, amanye amazwe angathatha inyanikelo yokuxhasa umntwana, enqunywe yindlela efanelekileyo yokuxhasa abantwana kunye nokwahlula isibophelelo kwisigamu, ngaloo ndlela sifika kwisixa esifanelekileyo.
Kwamanye amazwe, inkxaso yabantwana ibalwa ngokusekelwe kwimihla emininzi umntwana achitha ngayo nomzali.
Kwamanye amazwe, emva kokuba uxanduva lwenkopheleleko lugunyaziwe, umzali onomvuzo omkhulu okanye isabelo sombopheleleko wokuncedisa abantwana angabonwa "njengomzali ongekho phantsi," ngoko ke kuya kufuneka ahlawule eso sabelo komnye umzali, ngaphandle kokuba i-formula iya kuvelisa umphumo ongenakulungile.
Ukuba kunjalo, ngokwengqiqo yayo, inkundla inokuyalela umrhumo omtsha wokuxhasa umntwana oya kubulungisa kubazali bobabini.
Izivumelwano zokuXhasana kweNkxaso yabantwana phakathi kwabazali
Abanye abazali banesivumelwano somlomo, esivumela ukuba bagweme ukuxhasa inkxaso yabantwana xa umntwana engabakhathaleli umzali. Ukongezelela, izivumelwano ezithile ezibhaliweyo ziza kubhekisela ngqo xa inkxaso ihlawulwa. Nangona kunjalo, amazwe amaninzi akavumeli ukuyeka ukuxhasa abantwana xa abantwana bevakatye okanye begcinwe ngumzali ohlawula inkxaso yenkxaso yomntwana; oko kungenjalo ngenxa yeemfuno eziqhubekayo zomntwana - njengemisebenzi yecandelo elongezelelweyo, iintlawulo zonyango, okanye amalungiselelo ezindlu - kuya kufuneka zihlawulwe nangona umntwana engenaye lowo mzali.
Izinto ezicatshangelwa ekunqumeni / ekutshintshelweni kweNkxaso yokuThengisa kwabantwana:
- Ikhono lomzali ngamnye ukugcina indlu ehlukeneyo yomntwana
- Iindleko zemali ezingezeleyo ezivela ngenxa yelungiselelo lokugcinwa ngokubambisana (okongeziweyo izindleko zokunakekela abantwana, iindleko zokugqoka, okanye iindleko zokuhamba)
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba umzali kufanele aqhubeke nokubonelela ngenkxaso yabantwana kwizilungiso zokugcinwa ngokubambisana. Okubaluleke kakhulu, iintlawulo zokuxhasa abantwana ngokubanzi zibonelela ngokulungelelanisa lula abantwana; iintlawulo zinefuthe elihle kwimpilo yabantwana, ukusebenza esikolweni kunye nokulungelelaniswa kweentlalo.
Abazali mabazame ukwenza isivumelwano malunga nokuxhasa abantwana ekulungiselelweni kokugcinwa kwamanyathelo. Abazali bangahlakulela isicwangciso sokuzali sokulandelela iindleko kwaye bahlale bexhulumana ngokuvulekileyo ukuba / xa imali efunekayo. Ukuba ngaba abazali abakwazi ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo, inkundla inokwenza isigqibo malunga neentlawulo ezifanelekileyo zokuxhasa abantwana kwiinkqubo zokugcinwa ngokubambisana.
Ulungiswe nguJennifer Wolf.