Amalungelo Abazali abangabikhoyo

Inkundla yomthetho ngokubanzi iya kunika amalungelo omntu ongenamalungelo okuvakasha xa umzali engagqithwanga ukugcinwa kwabantwana abasemgangathweni. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso ezisemthethweni zabantwana abangabikhoyo.

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Landela iShedyuli yoTyelelo

Kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali abangabikho-cala ukuba bahambelane neshedyuli yokutyelela evezwe yinkundla. Ukuba kukho naziphi na izizathu zokuba umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo akakwazi ukuhambelana neshedyuli yokutyelela, umzali kufuneka aqale ngokuzama ukuthetha ngesidingo sokutshintshwa ngumzali wokulinda umntwana.

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Landela iShedyuli yoTyelelo oluPhezulu xa kufuneka

Ukuhanjelwa okunyanyisiweyo kunokubhekwa njengongamela, ukuhanjelwa kwenkundla kunye nomntu wesithathu, oqhelekileyo owenzeka kwindawo kawonkewonke. Abazali abangabikhoyo kufuneka benze iindawo ezihambelekileyo zokuvakashelwa ngokutyelela umgaqo kunye nabantwana ngexesha lokutyelela. Kungaba luncedo ukuphuhlisa imidlalo ekhethekileyo kunye neengxoxo eziza kugutywa ngexesha lokutyelela.

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Beka Intshisekelo Eyona Ntle Yomntwana Okokuqala

Umzali ongekho phantsi kufuneka abeke umnqweno wokuqala kumntwana. Abazali baqinisekise ukuba abantwana banendawo ephephile yokuhlala kunye nokutya kokutya ngexesha lokutyelelwa kwabazali. Ukongezelela, abazali bafanele basebenze ngokubanzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuqinisekisa ukuguqulwa ngokukhawuleza kumakhaya omibini kubantwana.

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Ukuhlawula abantwana Inkxaso

Abazali abangabikho-cala abahlawulwa ngokuhlawula abantwana abanokuxhaswa bangafaka isivumelwano esingavumelekanga kunye nomzali osisigxina somntwana okuya kwenza ukuba umzali okhuselekileyo athole inkxaso yenkxaso ngezingane ngemali, khangela. Isivumelwano esingavumelekanga singavumela ukuba umzali ongekho phantsi ukuba ahlawule indawo yokunakekela abantwana ngokuthe ngqo okanye athenge izinto kumntwana ezifana nokutya okanye izambatho. Ukuba umzali ongekho-mgcini ubeka ilungiselelo elingasesikweni kunye nomzali okhuselekileyo, umzali ongekho phantsi kufuneka alondoloze ubungqina bazo zonke iintlawulo ezenziwe njenge-stubs okanye iirisithi zokuthenga izinto. Ukongezelela, umzali unokuhlawula inkxaso yenkxaso ngoomntwana ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza ukuhlawulwa komzali, obekwe yinkantolo.

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Ukulandelela Iintlawulo Zenkxaso Yakho Yomntwana

Abazali abangabikho phantsi kufuneka balandele ukuhlawulwa kwemali eyenziwa ngabantwana, ngokukodwa, ukuba umzali ongekho phantsi uyahlawula inkxaso yabantwana ngokukodwa kwi-pay. Umzali kufuneka agcine iikopi zee-paystubs. Ukuba umzali ongekho-mfuneko ufuna ukuguqulwa kweentlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana, umzali ongekho mfuneko kufuneka afune uncedo lommeli okanye afake ukuguqulwa kwengxaso yabantwana.

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Funa Uncedo Lwezomthetho Ukuba Awukwazi Ukuvuma

Ukuba umzali ongekho-myalelo unesivumelwano sokugcinwa kwengane engafanelekanga kunye nomzali osisigxina, kuya kuba ngcono ukubeka isivumelwano ngokubhaliweyo. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, umzali ongekho phantsi akanakukwazi ukwenza isivumelwano kunye nomzali osisigxina, umzali kufuneka afune uncedo lomthetho kwinkundla yomthetho okanye kunye negqwetha elifanelekileyo.

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Cwangcisa phambili kweetyelelo

Umzali ongekho phantsi kufuneka ahlele ukutyelelwa komntwana ngokuthenga izinto zokutya ezifunwa ngumntwana kunye nezinto zokunyusela kunye nokuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana unemisebenzi yokwenza kunye neendawo zokuhamba njengeemidlalo, ukuya kuma-movie kunye nokudlala imidlalo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana uzive njengasekhaya njengoko wayeya kuba umntwana wayesekhaya lomzali.

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Lungiselela ikhaya lakho kwiindawo zokuhamba

Umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo kufuneka alungiselele ikhaya labo ukuvakatyelela ebusuku. Ukuba umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo unendawo ekhethekileyo yomntwana, igumbi kufuneka liqule ezinye zeemidlalo zamathoyizi okanye imidlalo. Ukuba umzali ongeyena okhuselekileyo akanalo igumbi elilodwa lomntwana, kufuneka abone indawo (ie ie sofa yokulala) apho umntwana elala khona. Umzali ongekho phantsi kufuneka alungiselele indawo engcono kunokwenzeka ukuba avumele umntwana ukuba abucala kunye nokunethezeka kwekhaya (amathoyizi, imidlalo, ukutyiwa).

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Ukuhlawula iindleko ezongezelelweyo

Abazali abangabikho phantsi kwabo bafuna ukuhlawula iindleko ezongezelelekileyo ezigqithise iintlawulo zenkxaso yabantwana kufuneka baqale ngokuthetha nomzali okhuselekileyo ukuba iintlawulo ziba zikhulu kakhulu. Mhlawumbi, bobabini abazali bangahlula iintlawulo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umzali ongeyena umgcini-mboleko akanakufikelela kwisivumelwano nomzali osisigxina, umzali ongekho phantsi kufuneka aqikelele ukucela ukulungiswa komntwana inkxaso.

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Ifayile yokulungiswa kweMpahla yeNtwana xa kuyimfuneko

Ukuba isivumelwano somxhaso sabantwana asisisebenzisi umzali ongekho phantsi, umzali kufuneka afune ukuguqulwa kwengane kwinkundla. Umzali kufanele alungiselele ukuxoxa ngezizathu zokuxhasa ukuguqulwa. Nangona kunjalo, inkundla inokwenza isigqibo sokuba ungayitshintshisi isivumelwano, ukuba inkundla ibona isivumelwano esisebenza.