Abantwana kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka emibili baxakeke ngokwemvelo ngabantu, ngoko oku kungabonakali ngathi kufanele kube nzima, kunjalo? Ha! Abantwana abaxakekile bebonke bexakeke yonke into ephuma kwiikhabinethi zakho, bexakeke ukukhupha konke ukhuseleko lwakho. Ngamafutshane, baxakekile ukugcina uxakeke.
Ngoko into yokuqala ukuba umzali wasekhaya nomzali onomntwana okanye oneminyaka emibini ubudala kufuneka ayenze ukuqonda ukuba kunokwinkathalo ethile yomntwana inokufuneka .
Ingakanani kwaye yintoni enokwenene inokuxhomekeke kumsebenzi wakhe kunye nomgangatho womsebenzi wengane yakhe. Oko kwathiwa, nokuba abazali bezingane ezincinane kufuneka bakwazi ukufeza izinto ezithile ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwabantwana abangakumbi. Kuphela kufuneka uvume ukuba unokwenza nje ngokugqithisa okufutshane-njengento encinane.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali basekhaya basekhaya kufuneka balindele ukuba abantwana bafunde ukuzibhokoxa ngemisebenzi yokudlala ezizimeleyo kuba ukufunda ukufumana umdlalo wobomi bubakhonze ukuba babe ngabantu abadala. Kwiintsana ezindala, oku kuthetha ukuza kunye neengcinga zabo ngezinto zokwenza, ukulungiselela ukuzonwabisa kunye nokucoca emva koko.
Kwabancinci-kunye nakwinqanaba elithile lokufundela-elide kakhulu umyalelo. (Kwabantwana abakhulileyo, ukuba ngabazali abaninzi kufuneka baxhomeke kangakanani kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobudala.)
Nangona kunjalo, ukuhlala umntwana kukudala ixesha lokuhlwayela imbewu yokudlala ngokuzimela.
Yakha indawo ekhuselekileyo yokukhuthaza
Ukuthatha ixesha lokudala indawo ekhuselekileyo ye-encinci yakho okanye ezimbini ziyindlela yokuqala yokuhamba kwindlela yomntwana wakho kumdlalo ozimele.
Ukuba indawo ayikhuselekile, umzali kufuneka ahambe. Yaye ukuba ngaba umzali uhamba, umntwana uya kulindela ukunakwa.
Oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele umane usebenzise umntwana wakho kwindawo yokhuseleko yard play and go to work. Indawo ephephile kufuneka ivuselele kwakhona. Ukuba une laptop, unokusebenza apho indawo yomntwana wakho ukhuselekileyo.
Ukuba akunjalo, kuya kufuneka wenze indawo ekhuselekileyo kwiofisi yakho yasekhaya ngokukhusela abantwana kwiofisi yakho kwaye ujikeleze i-stash yeeysys kwiofisi yasekhaya.
Kwakhona, unayo yonke into oyifunayo kuyo i-diaper yokuguqulwa kwempahla, ukutya okutyiwayo , mhlawumbi isetyenti seempahla. Isixa esichithwa sibheke into oyifunayo, ixesha elide lokufeza iinjongo zakho.
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Iimbali ezibini ezibalulekileyo zilawula usuku ebomini komntwana omncinci: Abantwaba banomdla wokufutshane, kwaye abantwana abaselula banokukhathala lula.
Usuku oluqhelekileyo oluqhelekileyo lusetyenzisiwe ukusuka kumsebenzi omnye okanye ithoyiyi ukuya kwinqanaba elilandelayo, ukutya kunye nokulala. Emva kwexesha elimnandi, liqala kwakhona. Isibalulekileyo kukufunda indlela yomntwana wakho kwaye uceba ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona ubomi buhlala bushintsha nabantwana, ngokubanzi, uya kufuna ukucinga ngako:
- Kuze kube nini umsebenzi othile kumntwana wakho uya kumncedisa, ngoko unako ukulungele ukulandela
- Ingakanani umntanakho angadlala yedwa ngokuvuya ngaphambi kokuba afune ukuba uhla uze udlale kwakhona
- Yintoni eyenza umntanakho awe phantsi ngexesha lokulala kunye nento eyenza ukuthunyelwa kwexesha elide kwixesha lokuphupha
- Umntwana wakho ulambile nini kwaye usabela njani xa ekhona
Umsebenzi oceba ukuwenza xa umntwana wakho ephaphekile kufuneka ube yinto engaphazamiseka kalula.
Gcina iifom nkomfa okanye umsebenzi othabatha inkxalabo xa unakekelwa ngabantwana okanye xa umntwana wakho elele. Kodwa khumbula ukuba iishedyuli zebantwana kunye nexesha le-nap liza kutshintsha, ngoko ulungele.