Ingqwalaselo yoSondlo
Ukunyamekela, njengokuba igama layo libonisa ngokucacileyo, kuyinkqubo yokunakekela abantwana evumela abazali ukuba bayeke abantwana babo ngosuku lokunyamekela, ukunyamekwa, nokufunda. Ukuba uhlola ulondolozo lwemini, mhlawumbi usuyazi oko. Into onokungaziyo, nokuba kunjalo, zingaphi iindidi zeentlobo zee-daycares ezikhoyo.
Amaziko okunakekelwa kwezilwanyana agxininisa ekunyamekelweni kweintsana ngokusebenzisa abaqalayo esikolweni. Amanye amaziko okunakekelwa kwamasango anikezela ngononophelo-nangemva kokufunda esikolweni abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni.
Ezinye ii-daycares zineeshedyuli ezisemthethweni, ezifana ne-school school, xa abantwana bebadala. Amaziko amaninzi okunakekelwa ngamanqanaba ngamaqela angamazwe okanye akwimimandla, kwaye amanye aphantsi kwamanye amazwe. I-Daycares ingaba nayo ekhaya , iqhutywa ngumntu omnye.
Emva kokuba wenze isigqibo sokuthumela umntwana wakho ekunakekeleni kwantoni, kubalulekile ukufumana isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwamasango (kuba yindabu okanye ekhaya) ehambelana neemfuno zentsapho yakho.
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Oko Umntwana Wakho Okufuna Ukuphumelela kwiGumbi lokuSondeza kweNtloko
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Into enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho ekhupha abanye abantwana kwi-Carecare
Ezi zinto zinokusebenza, ifilosofi, okanye nantoni na phakathi. Le mibuzo ilandelayo ingakuqalisa.
Ukuziphatha
Ngaba ikhona indawo efumanekayo kumntwana wam?
Nangona ungagqiba ekubeni unqumle ukuba ulondolozo lwezinsuku oluluncedo alufanelekanga ngokubanzi, lo mbuzo obalulekileyo wokuqala, njengoko ukuqhubela phambili kwinqanaba elongezelelweyo akuyi kuba luba luba lufunekayo ukuba lunamandla. Ukuba indawo ayitholakali, unokubuza malunga nohlu lokulinda, ukuba ukulibaziseka kusebenza kwiimfuno zakho.
Ziyiphi iiyure zokuSebenza?
Iiyure eziqhelekileyo kwimihla ngemihla yemveli zi malunga ne-8 ukuya ku-5: 30 ntambama, kodwa iiyure zihluka ngohlobo. Xa ukhetha ukunakekelwa kweso, jonga ukuba uza kudinga ixesha elide ukususela ngexesha uhamba emsebenzini ukuze ufike kwiziko.
Kwakhona ingcamango enhle ukubuza ukuba kwenzekani xa ufike emva kwexesha: Unokunyamekela njani umntwana wakho? Ngaba kukho iirhafu ezingaphezulu? Ukuba awusebenzi 9 ekuseni ukuya ku-5 ntambama ., Kubalulekile ukufumana imeko yokunakekela abantwana ifanelekileyo iiyure zakho. Oku kungabandakanya ukukhetha isikhungo esinokufumana ishedyuli yakho, okanye "ukuqokelela ndawonye"; umzekelo, mhlawumbi uqeshe umntanami ukukhetha umntwana wakho kwiziko emva kokuba evala kwaye anikezele ngononophelo uze ubuyele ekhaya.
Iyini Indleko? Ingaba kukho naziphi iiNkcitho ezongeziweyo?
Iindleko zonyango zihluka ngendawo , kwaye kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle oko uza kuhlawula ngaphambili. Amanye amaziko anika amaxabiso athathwe ngabathengi abathile, okanye ukuba ubhalisa umntwana ongaphezu komnye, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukubuza. Kwakhona, buza malunga nayiphi na imali eyongezelelweyo oyimfuneko yokuyihlawula, njengemali yokunikezwa kwempahla entsha.
Kuphelelwa nini Usuku lokuSondlo?
Ezinye izakhiwo zikufutshane nazo zonke iiholide eziphambili; abanye banikela ngamalungiselelo okunyamekela, kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwintlawulo eyongezelelweyo. Amagumbi ambalwa angavalwa ngexesha leenyanga zasehlotyeni okanye ixesha elide ngexesha lokuphuka kwebusika.
Qinisekisa ukuba ziya kuvuleka xa udinga ukunakekelwa, ngaphandle kokuba unamanye amanyathelo ngelo xesha.
Ngaba iZiko loLondolozo lweNtloko lilinikezela Ngethuba lexeshana okanye Inkathalo eFlexible?
Ukuba ungumzali onomsebenzi wesikhewu okanye olunye uncedo lokunakekelwa kwabantwana, unokufuna kuphela iiyure zeeyure (okanye iintsuku ezimbalwa ngeveki) kwinkonzo yosuku. Ukuba umntwana wakho sele ekhulile kwaye ufuna ukunakekelwa okongezelelweyo emva kwesikolo, amanye amaziko anesithuba emva kweeyure zesikolo kwaye anikezela ukuthutha ukuya esikolweni nasekuqaleni (okanye ubuncinci ukukhonza njengendawo yokukhangela / ukuyeka indawo yeenkonzo zebhasi ezinikezelwa esikolweni) .
Umgangatho kunye neNdlela
Ziziphi iziQukelo zeZiko loKhathalelo kunye nabasebenzi?
Qala uphando lwakho ngokujonga kwi-intanethi ukufumana i-daycares kwindawo yakho. Khangela ukuba ulondolozo lwezintlu lubonakaliso, ukuhlolwa okulungileyo, kunye neelayisenisi eziyimfuneko. Phantse zonke ii-daycares zasekhaya zifuneka ukuba zihlangabezane nemimiselo yeelayisense karhulumente kwimpilo nokhuseleko ukuqhuba. Iifenisi kufuneka zihambisane nemithetho yangoku ephathelele kwimpilo, inhlalakahle, kunye nokukhuselwa kwabantwana abanonophelo. Ngokufanelekileyo, isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwamasango siya kuvunyelwa nguMbutho kaZwelonke weMfundo yabantwana abaselula (NAEYC).
Buza malunga neziqinisekiso zabanikezeli benondlo kunye nootitshala. Uphando oluqhutywe kwiYunivesithi yaseRuthgers eNew Jersey lufumanisa ukuba abo bathathu abaneminyaka emithathu nantathu banyukile uphuhliso lwentlalo, lwengqondo, kunye nolwazi xa ootitshala babo banezigaba zeminyaka emine kwaye bekhethekileyo kwimfundo yobuntwaneni. Oko kwathiwa, abaninzi abazali banelisekile ngokunyamekela kwabo abantwana abakuthola kubasebenzi ngaphandle kwezi ziqinisekiso.
Ulwahlulo lwaBasebenzi ukuya koMntwana?
Qinisekisa ukuba ubuza ukuba umlinganiselo womsebenzi kubantwana kunye nokuba ngaba isilinganiselo sitshintshile ekunakekelwa kweso. Nangona iindibano ezizimeleyo zibeka ii-ratios zabasebenzi zokunakekelwa kwabantwana, i-American Academy ye-Pediatrics icetyisa ngokukodwa umlinganiselo womntu omdala ngamnye kwiintsana ezintathu ukuya kwiinyanga ezingama-24 ubudala. Ii-daycares eziqinisekisiweyo ze-NAEY zilandela iimfuno ezithile. Umlinganiselo olungelelweyo usekwe kumntu omdala ngamnye kubantwana abathathu ubudala ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-12; umntu omdala ukuya kwanezinyane ezine ezinyangeni ezili-12 ukuya kwezingama-23; omnye umntu oneminyaka emihlanu ukuya ku-29 ubudala; kwaye iya kunyuka kumntu omdala ukuya kwi-11 abantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ubudala.
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Okufunekayo Iveki nganye Xa uthatha umntwana wakho ekunakekeleni imihla
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Ziziphi ii-Daycares ezinokuyenza ukuze ugweme abazali ukuba bagxothwe ngabantwana abagulayo abagulayo
Ukhuselekile kangakanani kwiziko loKhathalelo?
Ukhuseleko lweziko lokunakekela ulondolozo kufuneka libe yinkxalabo ebalulekileyo kunoma yimuphi umzali. Cinga ukubuza ezinye ze mibuzo:
- Yintoni iqondo lokubanda?
- Ngaba igumbi lokufundela libonisa ietafile ezijikelezayo?
- Ngaba izixhobo abantwana abadlala ngazo ezingekho zityhefu?
- Ngaba banikezeli banikezela ukucoceka kunye nemigangatho yempilo ngokwabo, indawo kunye nemidlalo?
- Ngaba izinto zokucoca kunye namayeza agcinwe ngokuphepha ngaphandle kokufikelela kubantwana?
- Ngaba iikiti zokunceda zokuqala zibonakala kwaye zifikeleleke lula kumalungu abasebenzi?
- Ingaba ilungu labasebenzi abanomntwana oqeqeshiweyo wokuqeqesha uncedo oluqala rhoqo neqela ngalinye labantwana? Ngaba ngaba ootitshala beCPR-baqinisekisiweyo, kwaye bafumana uqeqesho oluqhelekileyo?
- Ingaba izikolo zasesikolweni zikhonza ukutya okunokutya okanye ukutya? Ngaba kukho imenyu yesampuli engibonayo?
- Ukuba umntwana wakho unokutya kokutya: Ziziphi izithintelo ezithatyathwa ukukhusela ukungcoliswa komgca?
- Ingaba ikhitshi ihlambulukile? Ngaba ootitshala nabantwana bahlamba izandla?
- Ziziphi izilungiselelo zokulala esikolweni? Ngaba iintsana zilala kwiindidi zabantu?
- Ingaba iintsana zilala ngecala elilodwa, okanye zifakwe kwi-cribs nabanye abantwana?
- Ngaba ababoneleli bahlala bebeka iintsana zabo emhlane ukuze balale?
- Ngaba indawo zokulala zicocekile kwaye zicacile zeziphazamiso kunye neengozi?
- Abasebenzi baqinisekisa njani ukuba ngumzali womntwana kuphela, umgcini, okanye omnye umntu omdala ovunyelweyo othabathe abantwana?
- Bazigcina njani umkhondo wabantwana xa betshintshela kwindawo yokudlala okanye kwelinye iklasi?
- Iyintoni isicwangciso sokukhutshwa kweso losondlo kwimeko yexakeka kwimeko yengxamiseko? Utitshala kaninzi uqhuba njani le nkqubo nabantwana?
Iyintoni Inqubomgomo Egulayo?
Unamaziko amaninzi olondolozo lwemihla anezikhokelo ezithile ezibhekiselele xa ufanele ugcine umntwana wakho ekhaya ngenxa yokugula. Qinisekisa ukuba ufumana unonophelo lwempilo onomgaqo ogulayo osebenza kuwe kwaye ukhululekile kunye nomgaqo-nkqubo njengoko ubhekisela ekuziphatheni komntwana wakho kwisifo sobanye. Ukunakekelwa kwimihla ngemihla ukuba ihluke, kodwa ezininzi iintsuku kunye nomgaqo-nkqubo zifuna umntwana ukuba abe ne-symptom-free iiyure ezingama-24 ngaphambi kokubuya. Iimpawu eziqulathwe phantsi kwalo mthetho ziquka:
- Umkhuhlane phezu kweqondo lokushisa
- Ukukhwehlela okuqhubekayo
- Ukuvutha
- Uhudo
- Rash
- Izimo ezithintekayo, ezinjengentloko yentloko okanye iso lesinki
Sisiphi Isisombululo Sokubazali? Kuthiwani Ngetekisi Yokuqeqesha?
Unonophelo luya kuthatha indawo yakho njengomncedisi ngexesha leveki, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ufumane isikhungo esenza imigaqo yakho eyintloko malunga nendlela othanda ukuba umntwana wakho akhuliswe ngayo. Kuya kuba nenqanaba lomzali kunye neendlela zokuziphatha ezihambisana neyakho, kuba ukuhambelana phakathi kwababeleki kubalulekile ekuphuculeni abantwana.
Yintoni ishedyuli yokutya nokulala? Ngaba ababoneleli bavumela abantwana ukuba "bayikhale?" Benza njani umntwana? Buza indlela ababoneleli benkonzo yokuphatha ngayo ukuqeqeshwa. Ngaba abanonophelo basebenzise ixesha? Benza njani ukubetha nokubetha? Kwakhona ucinge ngemithetho onokuyenza ekhaya, njengokunciphisa umabonwakude okanye zeziphi iintlobo zokutya okunyanzelayo onika umntwana wakho. Ungakulibali ukubuza malunga neenkqubo zokuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kunye nendlela ootitshala abaphatha ngayo izingozi zangasese.
Yintoni iKharityhulam?
I-Daycares kufuneka inikeze amathuba okuhlola, kunye nokudlala okwakhiwe kunye nokulungiswa. Abantwana mabafanele bakwazi ukugcina imisebenzi emitsha eyenziwa ngendlela abanokuyifunda ngayo. Buza ukuba ulondolozo lwemini luhlobo luni lwemisebenzi kunye neenkqubo ezifunekayo ukuxhasa ukuphuhliswa kwentlalo, ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama. Ezinye imibuzo malunga nekharityhulam ziquka:
- Abantwana baphatha njani ixesha labo emini?
- Ngaba bahlanganyela kumdlalo wokudala?
- Ngaba ngaba ootitshala bezikolo zasesikolweni bahambisana neshedyuli okanye inkqubo equka ixesha lokuphumla eliphantsi?
- Ngaba kukho ibali, umculo, kunye / okanye ixesha lobugcisa ngelilanga okanye ngeveki?
- Ngaba abantwana bavumelekile ukuba bangcolile ngokwemvelo ngokudlala?
Xa ukhangela ukunakekelwa kweso, khangela iinkonzo zombini kunye nemisebenzi yokudala, kubandakanya iityule zamanzi / izixhobo zamanzi, iimpahla, iibhloko, iipuzzle, imidlalo kunye neempahla zokugqoka. Kwakhona ujonge imisebenzi efanelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana odlala ngokudlala ityana, kungabonakalisa ukuba indawo ayiyikuphucula okanye ukujikeleza amathoyizi.
Yintoni Abantwana Abayidlayo?
Ezinye iintsuku zifuna abazali ukuba bapakishe konke ukutya komntwana baze bazise ekunakekeleni imihla ngemihla. Amanye amaziko adla abantwana ukutya okulungiselelwe kwisayithi. Ngokutsho kwe-USDA, i-daycares ilayisenisi kufuneka ukuba ilandele imigangatho yondlo kunye nokutya bonke abantwana abadlayo ngokusemgangathweni kwemini kunye nokutya. Kufuneka baxake onke amaphepha kwindawo kawonkewonke. Buza into eyenziwa ngokutya kwamasemini kunye ne-snack, kwaye ubuze apho ukutya kulungiselelwe khona kwaye kugcinwe khona. Ukuba umntwana wakho unesifo sokutya , qiniseka ukuba ubuza indlela yokunyamezela ngayo kwaye uxoxe ngesimo esithile somntwana wakho.
Ababoneleli baxubusha njani nabazali?
Qinisekisa ukuba unxibelelana kakuhle nomboneleli womntwana. Ukuze umntwana wakho akwazi ukuthetha, uya ku thembela kwinto umnakekeli akuxelela ngayo ngosuku lomntwana wakho. Xa uqala ukuyeka umntwana wakho ekuseni, ufanele uxelele umgcini ukuba umntwana wakho walala njani, xa ekugqibeleni wadla, kwaye ukuba kukho naziphi na izinto ezibalulekileyo zokunyamekela loo mini, njengento yokutya. Ekupheleni kosuku, uya kufuna ukutshintshisana nolwazi olufanayo, njengokuba walala, ukuba wayidla kwaye waya kwindlu yokuhlambela, kwaye ngokubanzi ukuba usuku luhamba njani ngokubanzi. Amanye amaziko athetha lo myalezo, ngelixa abanye bakhetha ukugcina amanqaku eencwadi okanye baze bathumele iingxelo ze-imeyile.
Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, kusebaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukuba kwenzekani kwinkonzo yamanqanaba. Amanye amaziko angaqhubeka nokunxibelelana ngomlomo okanye kubhaliweyo, ngelixa abanye bengenako. Kule minyaka, abantwana bafunda ukwabelana, ukwenza abahlobo, nokuqikelela indlela yokujongana neemvakalelo ezinkulu. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukwazi oko umntwana wakho akufundayo ekunakekeleni kweso sikolo ukwenzela ukuba uqhubeke nezi zifundo ekhaya. Buza malunga nendlela ababonelela ngayo inkqubela phambili kunye nemingeni yomntwana ngamnye. Uninzi lwamaxesha omhla luba neenkomfa ezinokwenziwa ngokusemthethweni kubazali apho unokuhlangana kunye notitshala, fumana iimbuyekezo kumntwana wakho, ubuze imibuzo.
Iingcebiso Kubazali
Yithemba i-Your Gut
Ukukhetha ukunakekelwa kweso sinqumo esibaluleke kakhulu, kwaye iimfuno zakho kunye nezifunayo zihlukile kwintsapho yakho. Yithembele emathunjini akho, ngakumbi xa kukho into engafanelekanga. Kukho unonophelo olwenzela iimfuno zakho. Ukuba awuzange unqunywe yiziko labanye abantu baxhaphaza, qhubeka ucinga.
Misa ngoNyaka
Ungabi namahloni ngokumisa ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba uhambo lwakho luhleli. Ngokwenza njalo, uya kufumana ingqiqo indlela abasebenzi abasebenzisana ngayo nabantwana kunye nokuba yeyiphi indlela. Ngamanye amaxesha ukutyelela kwakho kuya kuqinisekisa ukuba isikhungo sikulungele, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukutyelela kungabonakala kakhulu.
Vula Utshintsho
Awunatshatanga kwimeko ethile yokunakekela abantwana. Ukuba izinto azisebenzi, unako ukutshintsha. Ukubambisana kubalulekile kubantwana kunye nabantwana, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha amalungiselelo akho. Abantwana bayakwazi ukulungelelanisa kwaye bazivumelanise. Ukuba umntu ukusetha akusebenzi, ushintshe. Umntwana wakho uya kukhula kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yokukhusela, ekhuselekileyo.