I-"drop down and run" syndrome, xa abazali belahla ngokukhawuleza abantwana babo ekunakekeleni kwantoni ngaphambi kokuba nabani na ixesha lokubona ukuba bayagula. "Yehla kwaye ugijime" ibonakala ngexesha lexesha lokubanda kwamaqanda kunye neyezinye izihlandlo zonyaka apho abantwana banakho ukuphuhlisa iziganeko zokukhwaza, ukukhwehlela kunye nomkhuhlane. Kuye kwasetyenziswa kwakhona kwizifo ezininzi zobuntwana, njengezifo ezinzima ze-strep umlomo kunye nezifo ezinokuthethelela kakhulu ezifana ne-pinkeye.
Yintoni enokuyenza ngabanikezeli benonophelo babantwana ukuze baphephe "ukuhlahla nokugijima"?
Ukuseka iProgram yokugula
Kulula kakhulu ukuxoxa ngemigaqo-nkqubo yokugula kunye "akukho nxaxheba" ilawula nomzali ukuba umgaqo-nkqubo sele usekhona. Xa ukhangela i- daycares ezayo, cela malunga nemigaqo-nkqubo . Ukuba nomgaqo wokugula omiselwe kwaye ufuna ukuba abazali bavume ukuwamkela kwaye ukuqonda kubeka abalawuli beziko lokunakekelwa kweso sikhundla kwindawo yokuqina yokungathathi umntwana ogulayo. Ukuba isikolo esisekuqaleni asiyi kuvumela umntwana ukuba ahambe eklasini de emva kokuba engenasifo somkhuhlane kwaye engakhange aphonswe ngexesha elithile eliqhelekileyo (ngokuqhelekileyo liyiyure ezingama-24-48), ngoko-ke ukunakekelwa kweso sihlolisise imimiselo efanayo. Kwakhona, isiko kufuneka siqwalasele impilo yabo bonke abantwana.
Abaqeqeshi baQeqesho Yintoni enokuyenza xa Batshutshisa i-Kid isifo
Umphathi wecandelo lokunakekela ulondolozo kufuneka acinge ngokuphunyezwa kwemithetho echazwe ngokucacileyo kubazali ukuba abantwana abagulayo abayi kuvunyelwa de kubekho iimfuno ezithile ezilandelwayo.
Ngokuxhomekeka kokugula, kunengqiqo ukufuna ukuba ugqirha inqaku lokuba umntwana uyakwazi ukuza kweso sikhokelo kwaye abe kunye nabanye abantwana.
Ufuna abasebenzi ukuba babulise i-Kid nganye kwi-Door
Lo "u-hello" wokuqala unokukhawuleza uqaphele umkhathaleli oqeqeshiweyo ukuba umntwana akaphilisanga. Ukuba iimpawu ezithile zibonakalisiwe okanye umntwana ubonakala ngokugqithiseleyo okanye obala okanye ebonisa ukuziphatha okungafaniyo, ilungu lomsebenzi kufuneka libonise ingxoxo efunekayo.
Buza umzali ngokuthe ngqo malunga nomntwana kunye nempilo.
Thetha noMntwana Ogulayo ngqo
Iintsana ezincinci, kunye nabangenakuziva kakuhle, ziya kudla ngokukhawuleza zithetha malunga nendlela abaphosa ngayo ubusuku bonke okanye kufuneka zihlambe ukuze zenze zishushu. Ukuba ukhathazwa ngumkhuhlane, cela umzali ukuba alinde ngexesha lokushisa komntwana kuthathwa.
Xa Ababoneleli Bamele Baxelele uNozali Umzali Ukunakekelwa Kwemntwana
Ababoneleli kufuneka balungiselele ukuxelela umzali (nangona unxungupheko) ukuba umntwana wabo ogulayo akakwazi ukuwamkela xa ebonakalisa ukuba kukho izifo zokugula kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba abanye baya kugula. Abanakekeli kufuneka banokulungelelaniswa ukuba abazali babe nomsindo okanye basongela ukunqanda umntwana wabo. Abanomdla abanamhlanje bayazi ukuba abazali abayi kuzisa umntwana wabo xa benokugula ngaphandle kokuba bazive bengenayo enye into efanelekileyo. Amanye amaziko okunyamekela ngamanqanaba angabonelela nokunakekelwa kwabantwana abagulayo, ngokuqhelekileyo kwizinga eliphezulu lemihla ngemihla. Ukuba ngaba abazali banalo khetho, banokubulela ngale ndlela. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, umphathi akufanele azive ephoqelelwe ekunakekeleni umntwana ogulayo, oya kufuna abaqeshwa abakhethiweyo, iinkxalabo zezempilo kunye nesihlwele sabazali abanomsindo abangacacanga ukuba kutheni umntwana wabo evelele kwisifo esingenanto.
Oku kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu, kodwa ekugqibeleni, ukhuseleko lwabantwana luyinto into evumelekileyo.
Xa Umntwana Efunyanwe Ukugula Xa Enyamekela
Abanikezeli kufuneka babe nesivumelwano esiphezulu sokupakisha / amanye amalungiselelo xa umntwana egula. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bangabonakala bumnandi omnye ngomzuzu baze bagule ngokulandelayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaziko okunakekelwa kwamasango aqhelekile kwizigulana zezingane ezikwazi ukunyuka ngaphezu komhla, kwaye ukuzimisela kudla ukuba kwenziwe ukuba imvana ifuna enye i-R & R okanye umzali kufuneka abizwe. Kodwa nabanikezeli banikwa kwakhona ukuba babe nesicwangciso kwindawo xa befumanisa ukuba baxhoba "isigxina" kunye nesiganeko.
Oku kuya kwenzeka xa umntwana ebonakala elithule kodwa ngokukhululekileyo kwiimitha ezimbalwa zokuqala okanye ngeyure, kwaye uqala ukuba ngumkhuhlane kwakhona, okanye ngakumbi, ukuphosa okanye ukubonisa ezinye iimpawu zangaphandle zokugula. Umgaqo sele usavunyelwene ngawo kufuneka uzalisekiswe, kwaye uqhagamshelane nomzali okwenziwe kuqala. Amanye amaziko afuna ukuba abazali bahlawule ixesha labasebenzi abongezelelweyo kunye neendleko zokucoca ezinxulumene; abanye banomgangatho ophezulu "wokuhlawula" kwaye abanye bafumana nje iindleko zabasebenzi njengengxenye yeshishini lokunyamekela abantwana.
Yintoni Abazali Abayenzayo Ukuze Baphephe Umlinge Wokunyamekela "Ukunyuka Nokunyuka"?
Akukho mzali onothando ofuna ukubeka umntwana ogulayo kumntu. Kodwa ngelixa kulula ukuqonda ukuba abantwana abaninzi abagulayo bafuna ukulala embhedeni okanye mhlawumbi ebhedeni elisezantsi kunye nokubukela iibhotole, akusoloko kulula lula kumzali osebenzayo. Abazali kufuneka bahlale bejonga indlela abaya kuvakalelwa ngayo xa enye intsapho izisa isana kunye nesifo esithathelwanayo kunye nokutyhila umntwana, okanye ukuba ummelwane avumele ukuba abantwana badlale ndawonye emva kweeyure emva kokuba befumene ukuba banegciwane elichaphazelayo. Ukuba sele kuthethiwe, kukho izinto abazali abanokuzenza ngoku ukunciphisa umvakalelo "wokungazikhetheli" malunga noko kufuneka ukwenze xa umntwana egula.
Qinisekisa ukuba yiyiphi iMigaqo yoMsebenzi ekuHlalweni koMntwana ogulayo
Abantu abadala kufuneka bafumane le ngcaciso ngaphambi kokuba kuvele imfuneko. Amaqabane kufuneka athelekise amanqaku malunga nokuguquguquka kunye namalungiselelo. Ezinye iinkampani zize zinikeze iinketho zabasebenzi abakujikeleze ukunakekelwa kwabantwana abagulayo okanye banike ithuba lokusebenzela ekhaya okanye ezinye izilungiso ezinjalo.
Uphando Naluphi na uhlobo lweMpilo yokuKhathalela abantwana
Kwezinye iindawo ezininzi, izibhedlele zasekuhlaleni kunye namaziko athile okunakekelwa kweSuku azinakekelwa unyango. Noko ke, ukugxekwa kwaloo nto kukuba ngamaxesha amaninzi kuyadingeka isaziso, kwaye abazali bayakuthanda "bazi" kusengaphambili xa umntwana wabo egula. Cinga ukuba kukho ummelwane, isihlobo, okanye omnye umntu omdala onokuthanda ukuza aze ahlale nomntwana ogulayo ngesaziso esifutshane. Ingundoqo kukukwazi nokuba umntwana ogulayo ufuna kuphela ixesha lokubuyisela okanye ukuba ufuna uncedo lwezonyango okanye unentsholongwane kwaye unentsholongwane. Ngamanye amaxesha, zonke iimfuno zebhokhwe ezigulayo zininzi zokuphumla kunye nezixhobo zamanzi kwaye ziza kubuya zijikeleze ngaphandle kwexesha. Kwezinye iimeko, ukubuyiselwa kungase kude okanye kubandakanye unyango okanye ukutyelela ugqirha.
Gcinani i-Daycare Care Informated About Health's Child's Health
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, qhagamshelana nomncedi wakho ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuphuma aze abonise isizathu. Umniki-ke unako ukujonga kwabanye abakhubazekile ukuze bancede abanye abazali bazi. Ungathemba ukuba abanye abazali baxhamla imbeko efanayo. Emva kwakho konke, umntwana wakho unesivumelwano sokugula kwakhe komnye umntu okanye kwindawo ethile echaphazelekayo.
Ziqhelise ukuhlamba izandla kunye neCough Techniques ngamaxesha onke
Abazali kufuneka bathathe amanyathelo athile ukuze bahlale bengena kwisigulana, kwaye onke amalungu endlu kufuneka akhunjuzwe ngokubaluleka kokuhlamba izandla nokumboza umkhuhlane. Oku kuza kugcina ikhaya lakho lingagcini eligulayo kwiimeko ezininzi.
Yazi ukuba abantwana baya kugula
Ukuba ngaba abazali baya kulandela umgaqo "wokwenza kwabanye" ukusabalala kwamaqanda, i-strep, umkhuhlane, i-pinkeye, isifo sesihlanu, kunye nesifo sezinye izifo kunokungancinci. Kungekudala, wonk 'ubani uya kubuya evuyayo kunye nempilo.