Uthanda indawo kwaye uyavumelana nesilinganiso esilungisiweyo sokunakekelwa kwabantwana. Ukhululekile ngeeyure zokusebenza. Kwaye unolwazi malunga neemfuno zelayisense kunye naluphi na ukhetho lokugunyazwa . Ngoko, ngaba zikhona ezinye izinto onokuzibuza ngaphambi kokuba unqume ukubeka umntwana wakho ngumboneleli othile wokunakekela umntwana? Uyabheja. Nazi ezinye zeenjongo ezibalulekileyo zokuqwalasela ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo esibalulekileyo.
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Yintoni Umgaqo Wakho Ngokuphathelele Abantwana Abagulayo?Abazali basebenzayo banengcinezelo engakumbi yokugqiba ukuba benzani xa umntwana egula. Amaziko ahlukeneyo anemigaqo-nkqubo eyahlukeneyo, kwaye ufuna ukubuza indlela iziko elithile elijongene ngayo nengxaki yabantwana abagulayo. Ngaba bayathumela ekhaya abantwana kunye naluphi na uhlobo lokukhwaza okanye umkhuhlane mfuneko? Okanye, ngaba baxakeke kakhulu ekuvumela abantwana abagulayo ukuba bahlale bebeka umngcipheko wokungabikho kwanezingane ezinempilo ? Abazali bafanele bafumane nokuba zeziphi iindlela zokunyamekela ezikhoyo xa umnakekeli wengane egula.
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Ngaba Unayo Inokugula Ngokhetho?Kwabazali abathile, ukufumana umnyamekeli wokunakekela umntwana onomdla "ogonywa" kubantwana abagula kakuhle ngumsebenzi-mgcini. Umntwana onomgca we-throp yomlomo akayi kuvunyelwa kwiindawo ezininzi nakwizikolo. Nangona kunjalo, xa ama-antibiotikiti athe wangena, ukuphumla nokuphumla, ukudibaniswa nokuzihlukanisa kwezinye iingane kunokuba wonke umntwana uyayifuna. Amanye amaziko anenkcitho yokukhathalela abagulayo ngenye intlawulo yokuvumela abazali ukuba banakekele abantwana babo. Kungakufanelekile ukubuza malunga.
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Ngaba Ngaba Ndifanele Ndihlawule Ngeentsuku Xa Umntwana Wethu Akabi Ngenxa Yokugula okanye Ikhefu? Ukuba umntwana wakho uphuma iintsuku ezintathu ngenxa yokugula okanye ukuphela kweveki kwiholide, ngaba abazali kufuneka bahlawule ukunyamekela abantwana? Kwiimeko ezininzi, impendulo ngu "ewe." Emva kwakho konke, iindleko zesebe okanye unonophelo zonyango ziqhubeka. Ezinye izibonelelo zinika ikhefu xa umntwana enesifo esongezelelekileyo kwaye abanye banikela inani elithile leentsuku njengetyala lokusetyenziswa kwiholide, ukugula okanye olunye uhlobo lokungabikho. Le nkcazo kufuneka ibhalwe ngokubhaliweyo kubazali, ngoko qiniseka ukuyijonga.4 -
Yintoni Umgaqo Wakho Wokuqeqesha? Oku kungaba sisihloko esibuhlungu kakhulu kubazali, kwaye kubalulekile ukuba uqonde kakuhle ukuba yintoni indlela yokuziphatha esetyenzisiweyo kwaye ukhululekile ngayo. Amaziko amaninzi kunye nababoneleli babonelela izikhokelo zokuhlaziywa. Awufuni nje kuphela ukufumanisa oko bakwenzayo, kodwa ufuna ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba yeyiphi indlela yokuziphatha engavunyelwe. Ukuba unenkxalabo ethile, cela ukudibana nomlawuli weziko okanye ube nomntu omnye nomboneleli.5 -
Ziziphi iintlobo zokutya kunye nokutya okuya kukhonzayo?Abazali kunye nababoneleli bahlala benengcamango eyahlukileyo malunga noko kukutya okunokutya okunokutya okunokutya okunokutya okufanelekileyo. Abazali kufuneka bavelele ukuba ababoneleli ngabantwana abanako ukulungiselela ukutya ngabantwana ngabanye (ngaphandle kokuba abazali bezisa ukutya); nangona kunjalo, izicelo ezithile okanye izinto zokuphepha kuzo kufuneka ziphawulwe. Naluphi na ukukhathazeka kokutya kufuneka kuthethwe kwaye kuqondwe ngokucacileyo (njenge-allergies). Emva koko, buza ukuba isimo sinobuphi ubudlelwane ngezihlandlo, ukutya okungenamsoco kunye nokulungiselela ukutya.
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Ngaba Unokunyusa okungekho xa ufuna ukuba ndibe sele ndiyifumanisa umntwana wam? Abanye abanikezeli bamanyathelo abantwana banokuhlawula i-$ 1 nganye ngomzuzu umzali sele ekhawuleza emthatha umntwana emva kweeyure zokuvala. Abanye baninzi kakhulu kunye nabancinci banokuze banikeze abazali ithuba elithile ngenxa yeemeko ezicwangcisiweyo. Nangona kunjalo, imizuzu embalwa yinto enye; Imizuzu engama-30 ngokukhawuleza ayisoze yamkeleka. Emva kwakho konke, ukuyeka kwakho kukuvimbela abasebenzi ukuba baye ekhaya kunye nemisebenzi yabo ecwangcisiweyo. Ezinye izakhiwo zinokuthi zibe nemithetho eqinile yabazali abathandekayo apho banokukhetha ukuyeka ukunakekelwa.7 -
Yintoni abasebenzi bakho abayingeniso?Akufanele kumangalisi ukuba abasebenzi bezinga lokungena kwii-daycare centers ziphezulu. Nangona i-30 ukuya kwi-40 ekhulwini i-average income year, ayithethi ukuba isantya kwinkathalo yakho yosuku olukhethiweyo. Kubalulekile, nangona kunjalo, ukubuza. Unqwenela ukwazi ukuba uhlahlo lwabasebenzi luguquka kuba luyakuchukumisa induduzo yomntwana wakho kunye nesiseko senqabiseko ukuba utshintsho luya rhoqo. Kwaye, inzuzo ephezulu ingabonakalisa ingxaki ebalulekileyo kwindawo yokusebenza.
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Iyini Ingxelo Yakho Yokunakekelwa Kwezingane Kwaphela?Ingaba lo msebenzi wokunakekelwa kwimihla ekujoliswe ngakumbi ekukhuliseni nasekunikezeni unonophelo lwekhwalithi okanye ngaba unamacandelo okufunda? Abaqeqeshi baqeqeshwa njani kwaye bazimisela ntoni "ubudala obufanelekileyo?" Ziziphi iintlobo zemisebenzi yokucebisa eyenziweyo kwaye abazali baya kwaziswa njani ngalawa? Ngaba abantwana bonke benza yonke into okanye ngaba kukho indlela abatsha abangakhetha kuyo? Ngaba umboneleli unikezela iziteshi ezikhethiweyo? Ngaba kukho ishedyuli ehambelana nosuku ngalunye?
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Ziziphi iinjongo zakho zoKhuseleko / iinkqubo zoKhuseleko? Abazali bafanele bajonge ngeenxa zonke kwimeko engqongileyo kwaye batyelele izinga labo lokuthuthuzela ekuhlambulukeni kwayo kunye neenkqubo ezikhuselekileyo zokukhusela. Uphi umlinganiselo wolawulo? Ingaba kukho ukhuseleko lokungena kunye nokukhangela kwindawo kwaye kuyafuneka? Ngaba i-ventilated kahle, ilungile kakuhle kunye neqondo lokushisa elihle? Ngaba amathoyizi ahlambulukanga rhoqo? Ngaba zikhona iindwendwe zekhamera? Ngaba izixhobo zokudlala ngaphandle zifakwe ngokufanelekileyo?10 -
Ndiyakwazi Ukuyijonga / Ndwendwela Umntwana wam Xa Ndithanda?Abazali bafanele bazive bemkelekile kwaye bafune, kwaye bayazi ukuba uncedisi wabo unokubongezwa kwintsebenzo. Ingaba umboneleli wakho wokunakekela umntwana uyabuza ukuba unomdla wokuzithandela okanye ingaba ungathanda ukukunceda kwiqela leqela elizayo? Ngaba uziva uvumelekile ukuba uze kwaye uhambe naliphi na ixesha okanye ngaba kukho iirejista zokuvakashela kuphela? Ezinye iinkqubo zokulungiselela zifuna ukunciphisa ukufikeleleka kuba zingabangela ukuphazamiseka ekufundeni ixesha; abanye bamkela ukusebenzisana kwabazali nanini na.