Izinto Abazali Bamele Bayazi Ngokuzilala Ngabantwana Abantwana

Ukulala ebuntwaneni buntwaneni buqhelekileyo

Ukulala emntwaneni kuqala ngokuqala; nabancinci balala. Ngaphandle kwezo "zimbini ezibini," umntwana wakho uya kufunda igama elithi "hayi" linokuba luncedo ngaphezu kokugatya.

Usuku luya kufika xa umbuza ukuba wayidla enye yekhekhe yetshokolethi owawuyilondoloza isidlo sakusihlwa. Nangona egutyungelwe kwi-icing, uyomomotheka ngokukhululekile aze athi, "Hayi." Ngaba ulele? Mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi akunjalo. Kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka esondeleyo kunye nenqanaba lokuphuhlisa ulwimi. Funda xa ukuziphatha okungendawo kungabonakala, kutheni kwenzeka kwaye nento ongayenza ngayo.

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Musa ukukhathaza uMama noTata, Ukukhohlisa kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwi-Early Childhood

Nangona abanye abantwana bengaphumi kwisigaba sokulala, baninzi. Xa kwenzeka , abazali banokwemvelo bazivele uluhlu lweemvakalelo. Intukuthelo, ukukhungatheka, ukudabuka nezinye iimvakalelo ezinokuvela. Ezi, ziqhelekile. Ukuqaphela ukuba kutheni ukulala kunye nokuqhelekileyo kunokukunceda ukujamelana nayo ngempumelelo.

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Abantwana abasenokuthi bangaqapheli ukuba bayathetha

Ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-3, umntwana wakho usenokufumana inkulumo eyisiseko . Uyakwazi ukuqonda okungakumbi kunokuba akwazi ukuchaza ngokuchanekileyo. Uqala nje ukufunda indlela yokusebenzisa intetho yakhe ukwenza iziganeko kunye nokuchaza iingcamango zakhe nokuziphatha.

Ngenxa yoko, akanako ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba ulala ngokuphendula, "Hayi!" umbuzo wekhekhe. Esikhundleni sokuphendula umbuzo wakho, unokuphendula kwisithoni sezwi lakho nolwimi lomzimba othetha ukuba kukho into engalunganga.

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Abantwana Banokuthi Baxoki Njengasekuqaleni kweminyaka eyi-3

Xa uneminyaka engama-3 / 1/2, umntwana wakho angase aqale ukuqonda ukuba unokusebenzisa ngolwimi ngenjongo yokuxelela into engeyinyaniso. Abantwana abanentetho, ukunxibelelana kunye nokukhubazeka kokufunda bangaqalisa le miba kamva. Abantwana abaneziphene ezinzulu zokufunda banokubonisa ukuba lo mgaqo uninzi kwiminyaka emibili okanye ngaphezulu emva kwezingane ezingakhubazekanga.

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Kutheni Abantwana Bathetha?

Xa abantwana beqala ukulala ngenjongo , kunokukho izizathu ezininzi:

• Ukudlala nawe;
• Ngenxa yokuba ucinga ukuba lihlekisa;
• Ukufumana ulawulo okanye imeko;
• Ukuphepha ukugwetywa;
• Ukugxeka omnye umntu;
• Ngenxa yokwesaba okanye ukuxhalaba;
• Ukuphepha ukwenza into abafuni ukuyenza; okanye
• Ngenxa yomona.

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Ndingayichazela Njani Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Ukhohlisa?

Umntwana wam weza nomtshina wokuxoka kwamanga. Ukhahlela. Azikho zonke iimodeli eza nazo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, indlela engcono yokufumana ukuba umntwana wakho walala ukuphanda imeko. Khangela ubungqina bento eyenzekayo. Ngaba ibali lomntwana libonakala likholelwa? Ngaba oko akuxelela ukuba ube nengqiqo ngokusekelwe kolwazi lwakho ngaye, imeko kunye nabanye babandakanyeka?

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Yintoni Ndifanele Ndiyenze Xa Umntwana Wakho Uxoki?

Ukuba unomsindo, thabatha ukuphefumula kokuphelisa ngaphambi kokuphendula. Ukuthobeka, ngokufutshane, kwaye ngokulula, cacisa ukuba uyazi ukuba akaxeleli inyaniso kwaye kutheni. "Ndiyazi ukuba udle ikhekhe. Unayo ikhekhe ebusweni bakho."

Yithi ukuxoka kakubi kwaye kunika umphumo ofanelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, unokucela uxolo, uncede ukuhlambulula umonakalo owenzayo, uthathe ixesha elikhawulezayo okanye esinye isizathu esifanelekileyo seminyaka. Ngokuqamba amanga, kubalulekile ukuphendula ngokuziphatha ngokukhawuleza ngelixa imeko ingqondweni.

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Ukufundisa kuthatha ixesha

Njengaye nawuphi na umxholo, umntwana wakho akayi kufunda ukuba konke ukuxoka kakubi kwaye ukuyeka emva kokulungiswa okumbalwa nje. Yiba nomonde kuye njengoko efunda umahluko phakathi kweenyaniso ezikhulunywayo kunye nobuxoki.

Ufunda ulwimi, iingcamango kunye nokuphuhlisa iindlela zokucinga eziyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba ukulala malunga nekhekhe kufana nokuxoxela malunga nokuvula yonke iphepha le-toilet okanye ukufihla ifowuni yakho kwibhokisi lebhokisi.

Ukubambisana kubalulekile, kwaye kuya kuthatha ixesha lokuba athethe inyaniso. Ngeli-6 ubudala, uya kufumanisa ukuba ufunde ukuba isifundo sifunde kakuhle.