Kwabazali abathile, iindaba zokuba umntwana wabo akayi kuphumelela ngexesha kuza ngokutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo. Kwabanye, ziindaba eziye zasoyika ixesha elide.
Xa umntwana esicinga ukuba uya kuzuza idiploma yakhe, ukufunda ukuba akayi kuphumelela ngexesha kunokuthetha ukuba akayi kulandela ukucwangcisa umkhosi, ukuya kwikholeji okanye ukufumana umsebenzi.
Kwaye ezo ndaba zinokuba nzima.
Ukuba umfana wakho akayi kuphumelela kulo nyaka, ungakhathazeki. Kodwa yenza inyathelo elikhawulezayo eliya kwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana wakho oza kufumana idiploma kungekudala.
Thetha Ngomntwana Wakho
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthi akayi kuphumelela, weqa idilesi kwaye ugweme ukulila. Kunoko, cela imibuzo ukuze ufunde oko kwenzeka .
Ingane yakho ingalingeka ukuba ityala abanye abantu ngokuthetha izinto ezinje, " Utitshala wam wesayensi akazange anditshilo ukuba le projekthi yayifanelekileyo," okanye "Ndenza umsebenzi kodwa uthisha wam math math akazange akhiphe." Ukugxeka abanye akuyi kunceda kweli nqaku.
Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba amkele uxanduva ngezenzo zakhe. Buza, "Yintoni ongayenza ngokuzayo ukuqinisekisa ukuba oku kwenzekayo?" kwaye "Yintoni esinokuyenza ngoku ukuqinisekisa ukuba ufumana idiploma yakho?"
Qhagamshelana nesikolo uze wenze idibaniselwano neofisi yekhokelo yesikolo ngokukhawuleza. Umntwana wakho kufuneka ahambe apho kuqeshwe nawe.
Yiya kwiNtlanganiso eneNgqondo Evulekile
Ukumangalela isikolo okanye ukukhalaza kumcebisi-mcebisi akuyi kuba luncedo.
Kwaye akunakukunceda wakho umntwana ukuba athole idiploma.
Ngoko ukuya kwintlanganiso ngenjongo yokudala isicwangciso. Thetha malunga nokwenza ntoni ngokulandelayo ukuze umntwana wakho athole idiploma, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga ukuba isikolo sifanele sithwale uxanduva lweengxaki.
Xoxa ngeZiko
Izikolo zixakeke kwindawo ezisebenza kwimigaqo nemimiselo.
Cela malunga neendlela ezifana nale:
- Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumelelanga ngenxa yokungabikho kwamakhredithi, ngaba kukho iklasi yesikolo ekhethiweyo engayenza loo nto iya kumvumela ukuba ahambe kunye neklasini? Ngokuqhelekileyo abatsha abahamba kunye neklasini bafumana idiploma zabo emva komhla ngenxa yokungabi nakwiikredit.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumelelanga ngenxa yamabanga amaninzi amaninzi, kuya kufuneka uzinikezele ekubeni akakwazi ukuphumelela kulo nyaka. Thetha malunga namanyathelo onokuthatha ukumnceda enze okungcono ngonyaka ozayo, njengokuqesha abaqeqeshi, ukufumana uncedo olongezelelweyo, okanye ukuthatha iiklasi zokulungisa.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana idiploma yakhe kodwa engazange ahambe kwimikhosi yokugqiba iziqu ngenxa yezenzo zokuziphatha, vumelana nemiphumo .
Musa Ukuphatha Ingane Yakho Njengokusilela
Ukudanazeka kulindeleke, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uqala umntwana wakho ngendlela efanelekileyo yokugqiba imfundo yakhe, mhlawumbi uya kuphumelela. Thetha malunga nendlela yokuguqula le nto ibe yinto yokuphila ebalulekileyo. Khangela oku njengephutha, kungekhona inhlekelele yonke.
Nceda umntwana wakho aphuhlise isicwangciso sokufumana idiploma yakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba ukufumana idiploma ngokukhawuleza kungcono kunokuba ungayitholi enye.
Ungaphinda ufune ukusebenza kunye nentombazana yakho ekufumaneni oko uya kuxelela abanye abantu.
Kungaba nzima ukuvuma kubahlobo okanye amalungu omndeni ukuba akadluli. Kodwa, awufuni ukuba axoke aze athi into enjengaleyo, "Ayiyi kundivumela ukuba ndiphumelele ngenxa yokuba ndinencwadi yeencwadi zamathala elandelelweyo."
Ngoko ncedisa wakho umntwana ukuba enze umyalezo onyanisekileyo kodwa ongehlazo. Ukuthetha into enje, "Ndisafuna ezinye iikhredithi," unokwanelisa abanye abantu abanomdla ngaphandle kokufuna ukuba umntwana wakho angene kwiinkcukacha ngamabanga akhe.