Ukukholelwa ukunyamezela kukunyamekela ukukholelwa kwiinkolelo nangona ubungqina bubonisa ukuba ezo nkolelo ziphosakeleyo. Oku akuyona imeko yesifo, kodwa kunokuba ngumntu wobuntu.
Abantu banokusebenzisa amandla amakhulu engqondo ukuze balondoloze iinkolelo zabo xa bechazwa ngeenyaniso ezibonisa ukuba ziphosakeleyo. Baya kugxila kumava axhasa imbono yabo kodwa bangazihoxisa naziphi na amava, nokuba zabo, ezibonelela ukuba ziphosakele.
Baya kwenza into efanayo naziphi na iintlobo zobungqina kunye.
Iintlobo Zokholo Lokunyamezela
Iintlobo ezintathu zeenkolelo zinyamezelo -1) ukuzimela, 2) ukubonakala kwezenhlalakahle, kunye no-3) iingcamango zentlalo. Uhlobo lo kuqala luquka iinkolelo malunga nokuzibandakanya, kubandakanya oko kukholwa ngamakhono akhe nezakhono, kubandakanywa nezakhono zentlalo, kunye nomzimba womzimba. Udidi lwesibini luqulethwe yinto ekholelwa ngabanye abantu, umzekelo, umhlobo omhle okanye umzali. Udidi lwesithathu lubandakanya oko umntu akholelwa malunga nendlela umhlaba usebenza ngayo, kubandakanywa nendlela abantu abacinga ngayo, bazive, benze izinto kunye nokusebenzisana.
Inkolelo yoluntu inkolelo inokuthi ingayibanga ngokuthe ngqo okanye ifunde ngokuthe ngqo. Oko kuthetha ukuba banokufunda ngamava njengelungu loluntu (uluntu) okanye bafundiswe. Kwimeko yokuqala, abantwana bathambekele ekufundeni oko kulindeleke kubo nakwabanye nje ngokuqwalaselwa nangokuba ilungu eluntwini.
Baza kufunda oko kuthetha ukuthini ukuba yindodana, intombi, indoda, ibhinqa kunye nokuziphatha okuhamba nale mi sebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Kwimeko yesibini, abantwana - kunye nabantu abadala - bafundiswa ukuba bakholwe. Basenokufundiswa ebandleni, esikolweni okanye ngabazali babo.
Ukukholelwa ukunyamezela kwenza kube nzima ukuba abantu batshintshe iinkolelo zabo.
Esi sizathu sokuba kunzima ukufumana abantu ukuba baqonde izipho kunye nabantwana abanesiphiwo .
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