Ngaba ukhathazeke ngokuzimela enkundleni? Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza indlela yokugcina umntwana ngaphandle kwegosa, mhlawumbi ngenxa yeendleko zokuqesha omnye okanye ezinye izizathu. Nangona kunjalo, iinkqubo zokugcinwa kwamagcisa akuzona nto ezilula kuqala-ukungeniswa kwenkqubo yomthetho. Ukuba uceba ukuya enkundleni yodwa, nantsi into okumele uyiqonde:
Pro Se Filing for Child Custody
Ngokwemigaqo yomthetho, ukufakela ukugcinwa kwabantwana "pro se" kuthetha ukufakela egameni lakho.
Ngamanye amazwi, ngaphandle koluncedo lommeli. Kubazali abaninzi abangabodwa abangathanda ukufaka ifowuni yokugcinwa komntwana, kodwa ngubani ongenakukwazi ukufumana igqwetha, ukufakela ukugcinwa kwengcinezelo yengane yindlela efanelekileyo. Ngaphezu koko, nokuba uthe wagqiba ukusebenza kunye negqwetha kamva, ukuzifundisa indlela yokuhamba kwinkqubo yepro ekwazi ukukuxhobisa ukuba ube ngummeli wakho.
Ukufumana I-Child Care ngaphandle kommeli
- Xhagamshelana nomabhalana wenkundla . Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze ukudibanisa inkundla yentsapho yasekuhlaleni kwaye ucele unobhala ukuba unokufumana njani amaphepha oya kuwufuna ukuze ufake ifowuni yokugcina umntwana ngaphandle kwegosa. Kwamanye amazwe, ezi fom zingashicilelwa ngqo kwikhompyutha yakho. Kwamanye amazwe, kuya kufuneka ufune ukuya emagcekeni ukuze ufumane iphepha oza kulufakela kwifayile yokugcina umntwana.
- Uphando lwemithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho . Qinisekisa ukuba unengqiqo ecacileyo yeenkcukacha, izikhonkwane zomthetho kunye nokushicilelwa okulungileyo okuchaphazela ityala lakho. Oku kunzima, umsebenzi ochitha ixesha, kodwa ukuqonda imithetho yokugcinwa kwabantwana kwimeko yakho iya kuba nefuthe elikhulu kumandla akho okuzimela kakuhle.
- Cinga zonke iinketho zokugcina umntwana . Musa nje ukufakela ngokuzenzekelayo ukugcinwa komzimba kuphela ngenxa yokuba ungafuni ukuhlala ngaphandle kwezingane zakho, okanye ngenxa yokuba ufumana nzima kunzima ukusebenza naye. Nika ingqalelo kuzo zonke iinketho zokugcina abantwana ezifumanekayo kuwe, kwaye uqaphele ngenyameko oko kuya kuba bhetele kubantwana bakho.
- Gcina iifayile ezigcinwe ngokucacileyo . Gcina irekhodi nganye ngetyelelo, umnxeba umnxeba, i-imeyile kunye noqhagamshelwano phakathi kwakho kunye ne-ex yakho, kunye nabantwana bakho kunye ne-ex yakho. Eyona ndlela ingcono ngayo, unamathele kwiinyaniso kwaye ungayeki ukusebenzisa ulwimi olungenanto okanye oluhlaselayo.
- Nika ingqwalasela ngokukhawuleza kuzo zonke iimali zokugqibela kunye nemihla ephathelele kwimeko yakho . Amanqaku amaninzi oya kuyidinga ukuyifakela aya kufuna imisebenzi yokulandelelana ngexesha elithile, njengeentsuku ezingama-30. Ungaphuthelwa ngumhla wokugqibela. Ukongeza, gcina onke amaphepha akho kunye nezinto ezilungiselelwe. Oku kuya kukunceda uhlale phezulu kwiinkcukacha zecala lakho.
- Cinga ukuba unesiqinisekiso sokuba unokufumana ilungelo ngaphandle kwegosa . Ngaphambi kokuba uye enkundleni, cinga ukuba uziva u-100% uthembele ekuzimele. Ukuba awunayo, qwa lasela i-Legal Aid ukufumanisa ukuba kukho na iiklinikhi zomthetho eziseduze apho umfundi wezomthetho okanye umfundi angahlalutya ityala lakho ngoku kwaye anike esinye isalathiso ngaphambi kokuya enkundleni.
- Enkundleni, hlonipha kwaye uhloniphe ngamaxesha onke . Musa ukuvumela ijaji ukuba ibone umsindo wakho kunye nentlungu. Kunoko, gxila ekubeni mnandi kunye nokunyamekela, kwaye unamathele kwiinkcukacha zecala lakho.
- Musa ukuyeka . Ukufumana imvume ngaphandle kwegqwetha kunzima, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kubhekana nezinto ezithintekayo endleleni. Hlalani nigxininise kwimishini yakho kwaye khumbula ukuba oko wenzayo ngu-100% yabantwana bakho. Oku kuya kuvela kuyo yonke into oyenzayo njengoko usebenzela ukugcina ukugcinwa kwabantwana bakho.