Amacandelo okufumana i-Youth Back Back Track
Ukufumana umntwana wakho onamaqabane angaphumeleliyo unokukhathazeka kwaye uyatshitshiswa. Emva koko, iiklasi ezingaphumeleli zithetha i-GPA ephantsi, ingxaki yokungena ekholejini, mhlawumbi neengxaki zokugqiba esikolweni esiphakamileyo ngexesha.
Xa abafundi bezikolweni eziphakamileyo behlelwa emva kweeklasi zabo, ukubamba ingxaki kunzima. Xa amabakala aqala ukuhlawulela, intsha eninzi iyayeka.
Ukuba wakho umntwana usehlula iklasi-okanye sele ehlulekile ukuphela kwe-semester-thabatha inyathelo. Kukho izinto ezininzi ongayenza ukulungisa umba.
Ukuchonga ingxaki
Ukuba wakho umntwana usemgangathweni okanye engengozini yokungadluli, hlala phantsi uze uxoxe ngxaki. Buza wakho umntwana ukuba ancede ekufumaneni izizathu ezingenakudlula. Ngamanye amaxesha abafundi abaqala ukuphuma bexakekile xa abanye abafundi bebangeke bakhuthazwe ukuba bahlale endleleni.
Thetha kwintsapho yakho kwaye uhlole nokuba ingaba nayiphi na le mibuzo igalelekile kwibakala elingaphumeleli.
- Ngaba iiklasi zinzima kakhulu? Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bayabhalisela iiklasi ezinzima kakhulu kwaye ziyaxhalabisa.
- Ngaba umntwana wakho akenzi umsebenzi wesikolo? Ukuba umntwana wakho akwenzi ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo, kuya kuba nzima kakhulu ukudlula iklasi. Fumana ukuba umsebenzi wesikolo awuyi kugqitywa, ungaphenduli ngexesha, okanye ukuba umntwana wakho akayiqondi indlela yokwenza.
- Ngaba uvavanyo oluphantsi luyingxaki? Abanye abafundi balwa noxinzelelo lweemvavanyo okanye abaqinisekanga ukuba bafunde njani iimvavanyo.
- Ingaba umntwana wakho wayenakho ukungabikho? Ukuba umntwana wakho uphelelwe isikolo ngenxa yokugula okanye nezinye izinto, kunokuphazamisa kakhulu amabakala.
- Ngaba umntwana wakho phantsi koxinzelelo oluninzi? Ukuba umntwana wakho okhulileyo uyagxininiswa, unokufumana ubunzima bokugxila nokugqiba umsebenzi wakhe.
- Ingaba ingxaki yempilo yengqondo ibe yinxalenye yengxaki? Iingxaki zempilo yengqondo , ezifana nokudandatheka okanye ukuxhalaba zidla ngokubangela ukuba kungabikho amanqaku. Imiba yokusetyenziswa kakubi kweziyobisi ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo ekunciphiseni amabakala
Thetha noTitshala
Nangona wakho umntwana usemncinci angafuni ukuba uthethe ootitshala, kubalulekile ukuthetha nabo ukukunceda ukucacisa ingxaki. Ingane yakho ingenakuqonda ukuba ayinakucalulela eklasini okanye ukuba ulahlekile umsebenzi omningi. Buza iingcamango zothisha malunga noko umntwana wakho kufuneka akwenze ngokungafaniyo ukudlula iklasi.
Cinga ukuba umntwana wakho unokuba nokukhubazeka ngokufunda. Ngamanye amaxesha ukukhubazeka kokufunda okanye i-ADHD ayifumanekanga kuze kube yilapho isikolo esiphakeme. Buza malunga nokuba uvavanyo okanye ukuhlolwa kweengqondo kunokunceda.
Ingxaki-Sombulula Ngomntwana Wakho
Emva kokuba unengcamango engcono yoko kutheni, uhlale phantsi kwaye usombulule ingxaki yakho nentombazana yakho . Xoxa ngeengcamango zakhe malunga nendlela anokuphucula ngayo ibakala lakhe. Ngamanye amaxesha, isisombululo esilula kodwa sinobuchule singenza umehluko omkhulu.
- Ingaba ufuna iimpawu ezingaphezulu kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo? Abanye abatsha abakwaziyo ukuphatha abanakho inkululeko enkulu malunga nokuba nini nawuphi umsebenzi wabo. Ukusekwa kwexesha elihlelekile lokusebenzela ekhaya kunokunceda.
- Ngaba kunzima ukukhumbula oko anakho ngomsebenzi wesikolo? Iintsholongwane ezingahlambulukanga zihlala zifake iimpazamo zazo okanye zikhohlwe ukuzisa umsebenzi wazo ekhaya. Ukuchonga izicwangciso zokuncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahleleke ngakumbi.
- Ngaba uyakhohlwa ukubhala izabelo zakhe? Abanye abatsha bazama ukukhumbula zonke izabelo zabo ngaphandle kwencwadi yesabelo. Abanye abantwana bayakhohlwa ukubhala izabelo zabo phantsi. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubhale phantsi umsebenzi wakhe aze acele uthisha ukuba aqale okokuqala emva kweklasi ngalinye unokuqinisekisa ukuba izabelo zakhe zibhalwa phantsi.
- Ngaba ufuna uncedo olongezelelweyo? Intsha eninzi isaba ukucela uncedo kuba ihlazo okanye ayiqondi, nangona xa utitshala ezama ukucacisa le ngcamango kwakhona. Ukuhlala emva kwesikolo ukufumana uncedo olongezelelweyo, ukudibana nomfundisi okanye ukujoyina i-clubwork ekhaya kungabakho izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo kubafundi abaninzi.
- Ngaba akaphelelanga nje ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe? Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abangekho bonke abafakiweyo ukugqiba umsebenzi wabo. Basenokuthi balahlekelwe ngumdla okanye bavuthiwe nje ngesifundo esithile. Xoxa ngeendlela eziza kunceda umntwana wakho ukuba asebenze.
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Sebenzisanani kunye nokuphuhlisa isicwangciso sokulungisa amanqaku angaphumeleli. Xoxa ngezicwangciso ezinokumnceda ukuba aphucule ibakala lakhe, njengokulungiselela ukufundisa. Ukuba akakwazi ukugqithisa iklasi, thetha nesikolo malunga nezinye iindlela ezifana nezikolo zasehlobo okanye iiklasi zemfundo yabantu abadala.