Ukubala kwiSuku esikhulu
Awuyi kuthuthela kwindawo entsha ngaphandle kokuyihlola kuqala. Awuyi kuqalisa umsebenzi omtsha ngaphandle kokuya kwi-orientation. Awungayithengi imoto entsha ngaphandle kokuyiqhubela uvavanyo. Nasiphi na isiganeko esibalulekileyo ebomini bethu sinexesha elithile lokulungiselela. Kuyafana kunye nomntwana wakho kunye nokufunda. Isinyathelo sokuqala kwindlela yoqeqesho lomntwana wakho, ukufundela esikolweni kukuqala kwinto yokumangalisa yokufunda nokufumanisa.
Ukukunceda ukwenza utshintsho lula njengoko kunokwenzeka, thabatha amanyathelo ngaphambi kwexesha ukulungiselela umntwana wakho.
Nceda umntwana wakho enze uphando lwakhe
Abantwana abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nokuqala esikolweni kwaye kubangelwa ukuba abaqinisekanga ukuba yintoni. Thetha malunga noko uza kufunda esikolweni, kutheni kubalulekile kwaye uya kumnandi kangakanani. Thetha malunga nendlela eya kudlala ngayo imidlalo, ukwenza izixhobo, ukucula iingoma nokudibanisa abaninzi abahlobo abatsha. Qiniseka ukuba umxelele ukuba uya kuba khona (okanye igama lomntu oza kuba) ukumthabatha kungekudala isikolo siphele.
Ukudlala "isikolo" kuyindlela enhle yokunceda umntwana wakho aqonde indlela yokufunda esikolweni kunye noko kuza kuqhubeka xa ekhona. Zama ukugubungela yonke into encinane - kuquka nezinto ezifana nokulenga iingubo zakhe kunye ne-backpack. Unokwenza uphinde ubuyekeze iinqununu "zezifundo" - imibala, imilo, iiblomelo, kunye neenombolo 1 ukuya ku-10. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi igama lakhe lokuqala nelokugqibela.
Ukuba uyayikhawula yonke into - ayeke. Ezi zinto azibalulekanga okwamanje kwaye awufuni ukungongeza nayiphi na into evezayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uya kukhwela ibhasi ukuya esikolweni, qaphela ukuba isikolo siya kulungiselela ukuba kuqhutywe uvavanyo. Ukuba akunjalo, qiniseka ukuba ubeka ibhasi xa usibona. Akunjalo, kodwa ukuba unako, zama ukuthabatha umntwana wakho ukuhamba ngebhasi nje ukuze bafumane le ngcamango.
Xa isikolo siqala, yenza iphuzu lokuzisa umntwana wakho kumqhubi webhasi, ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi igama lomqhubi kunye nenombolo yebhasi.
Khangela iThala leencwadi
Ithala leencwadi okanye isitoreji sakho sencwadi sendawo sinika ubutyebi bokwazi. Iincwadi zindlela enhle yokufundisa umntwana wakho malunga noko kuya kulindela. Kukho ininzi yeencwadi ezilungiselelwe ukuncedisa umntwana wakho wokufundela ukulungiselela usuku lokuqala. Buza umthala-mandla wakho wendawo okanye uthisha wakho wesikolo sokufundela ukuncoma ezinye izihloko. Ukuqala okuqala kuquka uMhla Wokuqala Wanga kwiSikolo Sobuncwane (iBloomsbury) nguByky Edwards, eboniswa ngu-Anthony Flintoft, kunye noko Kukulindela kwi-Preschool (HarperFestival) nguHeidi Eisenberg Murkoff, okuboniswa nguLaura Rader.
Khetha izihloko ezimalunga nesantya kodwa zichaphazela nokuhlukana . Thetha malunga nabalinganiswa kunye nendlela abafanele baziva ngayo nokuba yintoni umntwana wakho oyenzayo ukuba wayenendawo yawo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuqhubeka efunda incwadi efanayo, mxelisa. Yiyo ndlela abatsha abadla ngayo ukusebenzisana nokuxhalabisa.
Ilayibrari yakho yasekuhlaleni inokusingatha iiprogram ezizodwa ezilungiselelwe ukulungisa umntwana wakho. Buza edeskini yabantwana ngolwazi olungakumbi.
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Ngaba uziva ukhululekile ukuhamba ekamelweni labantu abangabaziyo?
Mhlawumbi akunjalo. Yiloo ndlela umntwana wakho azizwa ngayo. Kodwa kunye nomama omncinci okanye umnxibelelwano wenethiwekhi, unako ukubanceda ukuba bafune ubuso obunobungane ngokufumana ngubani oya kubafundi beklasi lakho. Yenza iifowuni ezincinci kubazali owaziyo kwaye ufumane ukuba ngaba ngubani na umntu obaziyo baya kuba nabantwana esikolweni somntwana wakho. Emva kokuba unamagama, jonga ukuba unokwenza umalungiselelo womhla wokudlala. Ngale ndlela, akayi kuva yedwa xa ehamba eklasini elikhulu kakhulu ngosuku lokuqala.
Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana nawuphi na umntwana oya kuba kwiklasi lomntwana wakho, ungakhathazeki. Xoxa nomntwana wakho uze uthumele amabali obutsha bakho nendlela owenza ngayo abahlobo xa uye esikolweni.
Cacisa ukuba yintoni enye yezona zinto zihamba phambili eziya esikolweni. Ukuphulaphula umzali ukwabelana ngamava kaninzi kusiza abantwana ukuba banqabise ukwesaba kwabo xa beqonda ukuba uye waziva befana nabo.
Yenza Uhambo lweSayithi
Mthabatha umntwana wakho esikolweni sokuqala ukuba uya kuba khona. Ootitshala baya kwamkela ithuba lokudibana nomntwana wakho kwaye umbonise. Oku kuya kunika umntwana wakho ingcamango engcono yeso sikolo esikolweni kunye nalapho uza kuhamba khona. Ukuba unako, thabatha ikhamera kwaye uthathe ezinye iifoto. Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho akhumbule oko akubonayo, kwaye uya kukwazi ukubonisa isikolo sakhe esitsha kubahlobo kunye nezihlobo.
Qinisekisa ukuba ushaya kwindawo yokudlala kunye nendawo yokuhlambela ngexesha ulapho kwaye uyazi apho ezi ndawo zibaluleke kakhulu. Masivavanye bobabini. Ukuba umntwana wakho egqoke ibhulukwe ngamaqhosha, qinisekisa ukuba uyazi indlela yokuyihlenga ukuze angagxininiswa xa kufuneka angene kwindawo yokuhlambela. Fumana ootitshala ukuba baneshedyuli kwindawo. Ngaba aba bantwana baya kulala? Unokufuna ukuba umntwana wakho alale ngexesha elifanayo. Ziziphi iintlobo ze-snack ezikhonzayo? Thatha izinto ezifanayo kwivenkile. Xa ufika ekhaya, khuluma ngezinto ozibonayo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba ahlanganyele iingcinga zakhe nawe, mhlawumbi ngokuthetha okanye mhlawumbi ngokudweba umfanekiso.
Ukuba unako ukutyelela isikolo ngaphezu kweyodwa, yenza njalo. Yaye qi ni sekisa xa uthe ukhona. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubona ukuba uyavuya, banokulandela umzekelo wakho kunye nokumomotheka.
Ezinye izikolo zize zilungiselele ukutyelelwa ekhaya ngutitshala wesikolo sokufunda. Oku kungaba yinto ongathanda ukuyisebenzisa. Ukuba uthisha eze kwikhaya lakho lomntwana lingenza ukuba umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile.
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Hamba ukuthengisa emva kwesikolo. Ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe isikhwama sakhe sokwakheka kunye nezixhobo zesikolo ezifana neekrayoni kunye nezikrephe zokukhusela (nangona zingenakudingeka esikolweni) ziya kwenza ukuba azive njengenkunzi enkulu. Makhe akhethe iingubo okanye ezimbini, ukukhetha into ekhethekileyo yokugqoka ngomhla wokuqala.
Ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa i-swag yakhe entsha ngokukhawuleza phambili kwaye mvumele. Ukhululekile ngakumbi xa eziva, ngcono. Enyanisweni, yinto efanelekileyo ukuba ayenze ukuba asebenze kwaye ahlawule ikhefu lakhe lokutya kunye nekhefu lesidlo sasemini aze afumane ukuxhoma kwayo. Yenza into yakhe kunye nengubo yakhe.
Phakisha isikhwama sempahla encinci yintuthuzelo-intlanzi ethandekayo okanye umfanekiso wesapho ozithandayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ngesidlo sasemini, qiniseka ukupakisha i-note-decipher note (gwala umfanekiso weentliziyo okanye ubuso obuhle) kwaye ufake amanqaku amaninzi kuso.
Yenza iSikole Sakho Sekhaya-Sikulungele
Ngeveki phambi komhla omkhulu, qalisa ukubeka umntwana wakho embhedeni rhoqo, ixesha lokulala esikolweni. Uze umvuse ngexesha oya kuthi xa eya esikolweni. Yiya kwi-routine yonke ukusuka ekubhedeni kwamathambo ukuya kumazinyo ekuxubha isidlo sakusihlwa. Nantoni na oyifunayo ngaphambi kokuba uhambe. Oku kuya kunceda i-clock yangaphakathi yengane yakho kwaye ube neshedyuli yesikolo.
Fumana ootitshala kwi-site yakho yokutyelela - ngaba kukho ingoma ethile abayicula ngexesha lokucoca? Ngaba kukho ukuhlamba izandla phambi kokutya okanye ukutya kwasemini? Hlanganisa zonke ezi ziqulatho kwixesha lakho. Kuya kwenza ukuba utshintsho lube lunzima kakhulu kumfundi wakho wesikolo.
Phambi kokupakisha isikhwama somntwana wakho kwaye ukhethe usuku lokuqala lwesikolo. Ukuba uya kuzisa isidlo sasemini kunye / okanye ukutyhukela, ngoku ixesha elifanelekileyo lokufumanisa oko kuya kuhamba ngebhodi leemini okanye umhla.
Kuqhelekile ukuba wena kunye nomntwana wakho osemaqenjini ukuba uzive ukhathazeka njengokuba usuku lokuqala lweqonga lokufunda lusetyenziswa kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uyakwazi, usuku lokugqibela lwamaziko okufundela luya kuba semgangathweni. Ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza - kwakungekho umntwana wakho ozelwe nje ngeveki ephelileyo?