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Indlela yokunceda umntwana ongafuni ukuhlala esikolweni

Zizinto eziphukileyo iintliziyo zenziwe. Wena, unqamle umncinane wakho esikolweni sokufundela unomgodi esiswini sakho, ukwazi ukuba kuza ntoni ngokulandelayo. Isikolo sakho sokufundela esikolweni sisebenza ngokufanelekileyo, ukukhaba, ukumemeza nokukhala, ungakufuni ukuba umshiye yedwa kule ndawo engaqhelekanga. Ukuxhalabisa esikolweni kwangaphambili - uyazi ukuba ayikwazi ukuqhubeka ngonaphakade, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uvakalelwa ngathi uhlala ixesha lobomi.

Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba kukho isiphelo emehlweni. Se benzisa ezi zicwangciso zokukrazula ukuxhalabisa kwexesha lokufundela, ukunceda umntwana wakho aphumle kwaye, akholwe okanye cha, ufunde ukujonga phambili ukuya esikolweni nsuku zonke .

Ukuthintela ukwahlula Ukuxhalabisa kwabafundi base-Preschoolers

1. Yithi Bhayi-Bhayi. Eyona ndlela elula kumanyathelo, yinto enzima kakhulu ukuyenza. Kodwa yenza oko. Nika umntwana wakho ukumbamba kunye nokumanga, mxelele ukuba uza kubuyela emva kwangoko uze uhambe emnyango. Musa ukulibaziseka, ungamniki "omnye umzuzu," ungahlali, unethemba lokuthi uya kumemeza ngokuhlekisayo nokuhleka, evuyayo ukuya kunye nokudlala kunye nama-chums asekuqaleni. Umlethele kwisikolo sokufunda kwaye ngoku ixesha lokumvumela ukuba afike kwi shishini lokuba ngumntwana oselula.
2. Thembela utitshala womntwana wakho . Ootitshala beprogram, nabasanda kutyhilwa, bazi abantwana. Benze oku ngaphambili kwaye baneendlela ezininzi kunye neendlela zabo kwipokethi yabo yeengcungcuthe zokunceda ukuhlalisa umntwana wakho phantsi. Ukususela ekuhanjisweni kumsebenzi omtsha ukunikela nje umntwana wakho ukukhupha kunye nokunikezela induduzo, ootitshala be-early schooling master are knowing what works and what does not when it comes to making kids happy. Ukhethile olu hlobo lwesantya ngesizathu, vumela abasebenzi baqinisekise ukuba izilwanyana zakho kunye nophando zisekelwe kakuhle.

1. Misela inkqubo yokuhamba kakuhle. Abafundi basesikolweni banqwenela ukuziqhelanisa. Ngokunika umntwana wakho into enokuyithemba kuyo, mhlawumbi uya esikolweni ngokubanzi ngokuzithandela. Ngoko uze nezinto ezimbalwa ozenzayo ngalunye ixesha utsho. Mhlawumbi kukubambisana ngokufihlakeleyo okanye i-high-five ekhethekileyo. Mhlawumbi uyamanga okanye udibanise impumlo yakhe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, yenza into ekhethekileyo phakathi kwabo babini kwaye niqinisekise ukuba nenza njalo nanye.

1. Ukujongana neengxaki zentloko. Ukubetha umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale esikolweni unokusebenza-okwethutyana. Ukukrazula kungakwenza uzive ungcono kuba akudingeki ubone ubungqina bokuchithwa. Kodwa indlela engcono yokujamelana nokuxhalabisa kwinqanaba lokufundela ukulungiselela ukuxhatshazwa kukufunda nje. Inyani le nto kukuba, ngaphaya kwemizuzu yokuphuma kwabazali babo, ininzi abantwana bayayihlala phantsi kwaye bayayikhohlwa ukuba yiyiphi into edibeneyo. Kwaye emva kweentsuku (ngezinye iiveki), i-goodbyes ezililayo ziphela. Le nto into ebini kufuneka usebenze ngendlela efanelekileyo kunye.
2. Zama utshintsho. Kuyinyani ukuba ngumzali. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana baziphatha ngcono kubantu abangaphandle kwabazali babo. Ukuba kukho isihlobo, umhlobo okanye ummelwane onomdla, bavumele ukuba baphathe ukuhla kweentsuku ezimbalwa baze babone ukuba kukho utshintsho kumsebenzi wakho wengane.
3. Cela uncedo lwekhaya. Umyalezo obaluleke kakhulu ukuthumela umntwana wakho kukuba uyabathanda kakhulu kwaye ucinga ngazo ngokuqhelekileyo. Hlanganisa, khetha into enokuyenza nayo umntwana wakho esikolweni kunye nabo ababakhumbuza ekhaya-isilwanyana esincinci, isithombeni, nokuba ubuso obunobomi obubanjwe esandleni sabo. Kufuneka nje ukuba yinto ebenokuyijonga yona eya kuguqula iingcamango zakho ezibonelela ngenduduzo.
   (Gcina ingqiqo - encinci kunebhokisi lezonkwa kwaye akukho nto eyenza ingxolo.)

1. Ungaze ubavumele babone ukujuluka. Ungamvumeli ukuba umntwana wakho abone ukuba ukuxhalaba kwabo kwinqanaba lokufunda esikolweni kukufika kuwe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kunzima kuwe, kodwa akufanele uvumele umntwana wakho abone oko. Smile, uthetha ngokumnandi kumntu ukuba abe nako kwaye emva kokuba uphuma emnyango, biza umngani ukuba azame ukukhala.
2. Musa ukukhawuleza ukuthabatha. Kulula ukulahlekelwa umzila wexesha xa unamahora ambalwa kuwe, nokuba usebenza ngeendlela, usebenza okanye uthabatha ixesha lokuphumla. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani okhetha umntwana wakho, nokuba wena okanye omnye umntu, qiniseka ukuba ukhona ngexesha - kwangoko. Ukuba usuphelile, kunokubangela umntwana wakho, ngakumbi, uxhalabise kwaye amenze amxoshe ngexesha elizayo kunzima kakhulu.

1. Fumana utitshala abandakanyekayo. Mhlawumbi unemibuzo eninzi kwaye ungasebenzisa amagama alumkileyo kumntu owenze oko ngaphambili. Umfundisi wengane yakho yokufunda esikolweni mhlawumbi uyingcali kwixhala lokuzihlukanisa esikolweni kwaye mhlawumbi uninzi ukunikela ngokubhekiselele kumntwana wakho ngokukodwa. Yenza isigqibo xa unokuthetha naye, ukuba kunokwenzeka ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho afike. Kwaye ngelixa elinga ukuzama ukumkhonkxa ngexesha lokucima kunye / okanye ixesha lokuthabatha, kungcono ukulinda ade abe nexesha lokugxila kuphela kuwe, ukuvumela ukuba aqokelele iingcamango zakhe aze azilungiselele.
2. Yilungiselele ukulungiswa. Kanye nje xa ucinga ukuba ekugqibeleni unamaxhala okuhlula esikolweni phantsi kolawulo, kunye nekhefu leziko okanye ukugula okugcina umntwana wakho ekhayeni iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye ne-tah-dah! - kwakhona. Oku kuqhelekileyo. Nangona udidekile, kungenzeka ukuba ugcine usuku okanye ezimbini kwaye umntwana wakho kufuneka abuyele ekuzibhokoxa kwakhe ngexesha lokukhupha ngokukhawuleza.
3. Nika umntwana wakho into ekhangele phambili. Abaninzi abakhulileyo abanakuvuyiselwa ngcamango yokuba bashiywe kwigumbi labantu abangabaziyo. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, faka ubuso obunobuninzi kwisihlwele ngokuhlela iiddati zokudlala kunye nabanye abantwana bakho eklasini. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufika esikolweni sokufundela aze abone umntu owamqaphelayo, banokukwazi ukuhlala phantsi baze baphumule.
4. Nyaniseka. Xoxa nomntwana wakho malunga noko bakuvakalelwa kwaye kutheni. Buza ukuba yini ebangela ukuba bacaphuke kakhulu malunga nawe ukuwayeka esikolweni. Yabelana ngebali malunga nexesha oye wecinga ukwesaba okanye ukhathazeka malunga nento kunye nendlela ojongene nayo. Thetha malunga nokuba kutheni ufuna umntwana wakho aye esikolweni samabanga aphezulu kunye nokuba baya kumnandi kangakanani xa belapho. Musa ukunciphisa ukwesaba kwabo okanye iinkxalabo - zidibanise xa uqinisekisa ukuba uya kuhlala ukhona ukuba uzikhethe emva kokuba isikolo siphelile.
5. Nceda umntwana wakho enze umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo. Ngaphambi kokuqala ukuya kweso sikolo, qalisa nomntwana wakho malunga nenkqubo yonke, ulungiselele oko angalindela ukuba kwenzeke. Ngaba utyelele iindawo, uye ekhwela ngebhasi uze ufunde neencwadi ezimbalwa malunga nokuba yeyiphi i-school school okanye iya kuyenza ntoni na. Ulwazi lunamandla kunye nolwazi olungakumbi olumntwana wakho, ngakumbi kunikwe amandla okuva.

Iingcebiso

1. Musa ukukhupha ngaphandle ukuthetha ukuba ungabikho nto kwaye ungagxothi. Gcina kulula - ukubamba omnye, ukukhupha omnye kunye nomnyango oya kuwo. Ungalokothi umlethe umntwana wakho ekhaya.
2. Gcina iimvakalelo zakho. Abantwana bayamangalisa ngokukhetha izinto esizikhulayo, nokuba sizama ukuyifihla.
3. Xoxa ngezinto ezenzekayo ngutitshala womntwana wakho, kodwa kungekhona ngexesha lokuyeka okanye ixesha lokuthabatha. Yenza isigqibo sokuxoxa ngale ndaba ngasese.
4. Qaphela ukuba unokufumana esinye isihlobo okanye umhlobo ukuba ulethe umntwana wakho esikolweni ukuze abone ukuba utshintsho kwindlela yokusebenza luyenza umehluko.
5. Yilungiselele ukuba umntwana wakho abuyele emva kokuphumla, emva kokugula kwakhe okanye ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo ekhaya, njengokuzalwa komntakwabo .

Ingaba ufuna ntoni

• Isikhumbuzo esincinci sekhaya, njengesithombeni okanye isilwanyana esinyene
• Umonde
• Inkqubo enamandla yokuxhasa endaweni - ootitshala, abahlobo, njl.
• Ixesha eliqhelekileyo lokuba ulandele ixesha ngalinye