Ukufunda Ukutshatyalaliswa Kwimeko Ejongene Neemvakalelo ezifana Neentantrum
Abazali abaninzi bayayazi imeko: i-early schooler yakho idlala ngokuzonwabisa kunye nezinye izakhiwo kunye nokuzama ukwakha inqaba ende. Emva kwesinye isilingo (okanye mhlawumbi akukho nanye), isakhiwo sakho umntwana uye wakha ngokucokisekileyo ukukhupha. Kunokuba ucele uncedo lwakho ekwakhiweni kwinqaba, kunoko uqala ukuphonsa intukuthelo enkulu (kunye nezinye iibhloko).
Ufanele usabele njani kule mpawu?
Indlela yokusabela kwixesha elimnyama
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokumgxeka, okanye ungambeka ngexesha , okanye unokumemelela. Ezi ndlela ziqhelekileyo kwaye zivame ukusebenza. Kukho enye, inketho enye, nangona kunjalo. Ngexesha elizayo umntwana wakho ephuphuma ngentukuthelo ungazama ukumqondisa-umdwebise kwenye into kwaye ugxininise amandla angakonakali kwizinto ezintle.
Ukulungiswa kwakhona njengoLuleko
Ukubuyisela kwakhona uhlobo lweklasi lokuqeqesha , osebenza ngokukhethekileyo kubantwana abancinci abangenako ukuqonda okanye ukuphulaphula isizathu nesingqiqo. Ukukubeka ngokulula, ukulungiswa kwakhona ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha imeko ejongene nemvakalelo kunye nokwahlukana kwayo, ngaloo ndlela kususa nayiphi na imizwa enzima. Amandla kunye novakalelo olunzima kwiimeko ezimbi ezifana nomsindo, okanye ukuhanjiswa kwenye indawo, okanye ukulungiswa kwakhona.
Ukuqwalasela ngokusuka kwizinto ezingekho phantsi kokuhle
Ngokwenene, ukulungiswa komsebenzi kuthatha imeko engalunganga kwaye idibanise ibe yinto enhle. Kulo mzekelo ukhankanywe ngasentla apho umntwana ephonsa intukuthelo enxulumene nesibalo , ifomu lokubuyisela kwakhona liza kuhlala phantsi komntwana wakho kwaye uthi, "Ndiyabona unenkathazo ngokufumana eso sakhiwo ukuba sihlale simile.
Kutheni singalingi ukwakha i-zoo okanye ipaki endaweni? Singakwazi ukubeka izilwanyana zakho zokudlala ngaphakathi xa siphelile. "Okanye," Ukuphonsa iibhloko akuze kube yinto efanelekileyo - umntu unokulimala okanye into enokuyiphula. Kutheni sifuna ngaphandle kwaye siphosa ibhola komnye nomnye? "Emfazweni phakathi komntwana wakho kunye nebhokisi lebhokisi, zicinge nje ngeqela lesithathu elingathathi hlangothi, kukho ukuthengisela uxolo olunye, ngelixa ufundisa umntwana wakho kubalulekile izifundo zokuphila.
Ukujongana neTantrums kwi-Heat of Moment
Ngokuqinisekileyo, usadinga ukuba umntwana wakho azi ukuba ukuziphatha okuthile ababandakanyekayo akuvunyelwanga, kodwa ekutshweni komzuzwana, ngelixa umntwana wakho ecatshukile kwaye ekhungathekile, ukulungiswa kwakhona kukuvumela ukuba uyeke ukuziphatha okubi kwaye utshintshe kuyo into ekhuselekile kwaye eyakhayo. Oku kukuvumela ukuba uxelele umntwana wakho ukuba indlela abenzayo ayamkelekanga, ngelixa unika enye indlela. Ngenxa yoko, ukulungiswa kwakhona kunika ithuba lokuzilungisa kunye nokufundisa.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana baphendule bhetele ekuqiniseni okuqinisekileyo kunokuqiniswa kakubi - ukulungiswa kwakhona okokuba ngelixa beqhubeka beqeqesha , ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba oko abakwenzayo ayamkelekanga kwaye ubanike umzekelo wokuziphatha owamkelekileyo.
Ngexesha elifanayo, ukulungiswa kwakhona kwakhona kukuguquguquko kwemizwelo - ngokubonelela ngomsebenzi omtsha owenzela umntwana wakho ukuba agxininise kulo, banokuthatha iimvakalelo zabo zomsindo baze bavumeleke ukuba baneliseke.