Abantwana-ukuba babe nako ukuphepha ukuvalelwa kokukhulelwa
Ukukhulelwa kunokuvelisa amaninzi amanqabileyo kubudlelwane bobabini nonina. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unina olindelekileyo nguye kuphela umzimba wakhe oya kutshintsho kwiinyanga ezilisithoba ezithintekayo, ulahlekile.
Ukulindela oobawo bahlala befumana ubuhlungu bokukhulelwa , kubandakanya ubuninzi beengxaki zengqondo kunye nemizimba, kuquka ukuxhalaba, ubunzima bokulala, ukuzuza ubunzima, kunye nokutshintshana kobudlelwane beentsapho kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kokukhulelwa.
Ukukhulelwa okunesihawu ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa yi-Couvade Syndrome, okanye isifo se-"dad".
Igama elithi "isigxokelelo" livela kwiLiFrentshi igama elithi "i-couver" elithetha "ukuzala." Namhlanje, i-Couvade Syndrome ibonakala njengokuba umnqweno wemvelo wokuba utata abe negalelo lokukhulelwa nokuzalwa komntwana. Iimpawu zakhe ziqala ngokukhawuleza ukuba zenzeke ngenyanga yesithathu yokukhulelwa kwaye zithande ukufikelela ekupheleni kwekota yesithathu. Zivame ukulinganisa iimpawu zomama olindeleyo. , imiba ihlala isombulula xa ukubeleka kuphelile.
Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zoMzimba
Izimpawu zomzimba eziqhelekileyo ziquka:
- Ukunyanzelisa
- Ukwandisa okanye ukunciphisa ukutya
- Ukutyeba kwakho
- Ukuvutha
- Uhudo
- Ukutyunjwa
- I sizathu
- Intlungu zesisu
- Ukuqhawula
- Iingxaki zokuphefumula
- Iintlanzi zomlenze
- Backaches
- Intloko
- Iinyopho
- Iingcingo ze-Urinary okanye zesini
Okumangalisa kukuba, isifo sentlungu sisifo esibonakalayo esingaqhelekanga ngenxa yokuba asixhomekeke kwezinye izinto ezinxulumene noxinzelelo. Izimpawu eziqhelekileyo zengqondo ziquka ukuguquka kwimizekelo yokulala, ukuxhalaba, ukuxinezeleka, ukunciphisa ukulala ngesondo kunye nokungazinzi.
Iyintoni isizathu?
Akukho ncazelo yekhonkrithi yeli ganeko.
Kunokuqondwa kakuhle, kwaye akusiyo imbangela yesifo sengqondo okanye isifo. Izifundo zibonisa ukuba i-Couvade Syndrome icingelwa ukuba ibonisa ukuxhalaba komzimba (ukuxhatshazwa komzimba), ukuxhatshazwa komzali, ukuzithemba kunye nomntwana, ukungaqiniseki nokuxhalaba ngokuba nguyise, inkcazo yobunini, okanye nokuba nomona wokuzala.
Kufunyenwe kwakhona ukuba amanye amadoda, angenabo oobawo xa bebancinci okanye abe neembali zeengxaki zokungapheli, angaba neempawu ezininzi ze-Couvade. Ngokungaqhelekanga njengoko konke oku kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho konke, ukuphakama nobukho be-syndrome buhluka kakhulu phakathi kwabantu kwaye kunemiba emininzi ecacisa ukuba ingaba nzima kangakanani.
Ukulawula uxinzelelo
Ukulungela ukuba ngubawo kunokuba kunomdla kakhulu, ukukhathazeka kunye nokukhathazeka, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba ootata bafunde indlela yokuphatha kakuhle iingcinezelo zabo nokulungiselela umntwana. Ukuba akukho nto eyenziwa ukulawula uxinzelelo lwabo, ukwesaba kunye nokuxhalabisa okubandakanya nokuba nguyise kungabangela ukuba kunzima. Kwiimeko ezininzi, i-Couvade i-psychosomatic.
Enye yezona ndlela ezilungileyo ukuba amadoda ajongane neCavvade kukuba baveze inkcazo yento ethi Couvade Syndrome, ukuqonda oko bangayilindela, nokukwazi ukuba akuqhelekanga ukufumana ezi zimpawu.
Ukuxhalabisa okunxulumene nokufumana iimpawu ezingachazwanga kunokwaneleyo ukuthumela umntu kwi-tailpin yokuxinzelela, ukuxhalaba kunye nokuxhalabisa ngesisiseko saso. Imfundo inceda kakhulu kule meko.
Ezinye iindlela zokufumana ulindelwe ngabantwana ngeCouvade Syndrome zifana nemisebenzi elindele ukuba umama azenze ukusiza ukulawula uxinzelelo kunye nokukhathazeka kokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Bangakwazi ukuya kwiiklasi zokubeletha ukuze banike inkxaso kwaye bafune iingcebiso kunye nokukhuthaza abahlobo kunye nosapho. Ukuqiniswa kobambiswano kunye nomlingani wakho kubaluleke kakhulu, njengoko ukuthetha ngokuvulekileyo kubalulekile kulwalamano ngokukhulelwa.
Ukusebenzisa ngokubambisana yindlela enhle yokwakha uxhamlo oluhle kunye. Amava okuba ngumzali ekhethekileyo kwaye athatha wonke umntu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ukucacisa oku kwiqabane lakho kuya kukunceda ukhulule ezinye zeengxaki ezinxulumene nokulindela. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba abafazi baqonde kwaye baqonde ukuba amadoda ayabahawukela njengoko bephethe umntwana.
Ukucwangcisa Ukufika Kwebantwana
Ukuqonda nokucwangcisa ukufika komntwana kunceda, kwakunye nokulungisa iingxaki zemali ezijongene nosana. Ukuya kwiiklasi zokubeletha kunye nomlingani wakho, ukuya kwi-ofisi yokugqithisa ugqirha, kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso ngexesha lokunikezelwa ngeendlela zokuba amadoda afakwe kwinkqubo yokubeletha. Le ndlela yindlela ebonakalayo yokwenza amadoda azive ngathi ayingxenye ebalulekileyo kunye nokubaluleka kokukhulelwa. Okubaluleke kakhulu, kunceda kakhulu amadoda ukuba amkele ngokupheleleyo imbono yokuba nguyise.
Xa kuziwa kwiimpawu zomzimba, izilwanyana zemvelo zonyango ziyakunceda, njengokusela itiye ye-peppermint okanye ukutya i-ginger.
Ukulwa noTywala
Kukho izizathu ezininzi ezinengqiqo ukuba amadoda angadla ngaphezulu ngexesha lokukhulelwa komlingane. Ezinye izibini zingadla ngokutya ngokuphindaphindiweyo njengoko ukukhulelwa kuqhubeka, umthamo omkhulu wokutya okungenampilo kunye nokutya okutyiwa ngokutya kunye nokudla kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya kunye nokutya. ukuzuza kwabo ubunzima ukuze bafumane ubunzima njengoluhlobo lovelwano. Nangona kunjalo, ezi ngxaki zixazululwa ngamadoda ngokuzikhethela ukwenza ukhetho lokuphila ngendlela enempilo kwansuku zonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunokutya okutya okungekho emzimbeni okungenzeka ukuba kulungele ukukhwela ekhitshini.
Iimpembelelo ekufumaneni isisindo ngexesha lokukhulelwa zingaba yingxaki yokulindela abade. Njengoko bafumana ubunzima, isicatshulwa sabo somzimba sisanda, sibangele ingozi enkulu yokuphuhlisa isifo senhliziyo, isifo sikashukela, umhlaza kunye nezinye izifo ezingapheliyo.
Xa umntwana efika, ootata bahlala bexakekile kwaye bacinga ukuba benze ixesha lokutya nokusebenzisa kakuhle. Oku kubangela ukuba inzuzo yesisindo ukuhlala kunye kwaye ifuthe kakubi kwimpilo kabawo. Le yinto yokugqibela yokuba utata ufuna ukuxhalabisa malunga nokulungiselela umntwana, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba amadoda abe namandla okukhetha izinto ezifanelekileyo kunye nokuzinzileyo xa kufike kwizinto abazidlayo, ukusela, kunye nokuba ngumzimba kangakanani bahlala-ngaphambi nangemva kokuba umntwana eze. Ekubeni amaqabane athambekele ekulingiseni imikhwa yomnye nomnye, eli lixesha elihle lokukhokela ngomzekelo kwaye kunceda umama okulindele ukuba enze ukutya okunempilo kunye nokuphila ngokukhethayo ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ukwazi Oko Kukulindele
Ukuba abagadi-ukuba bazi ukuba bayakuzilindela ntoni, bangakwazi ukuzilungiselela ngokwengqondo ukuba bangabi nexhoba lokutya okubi kunye nokukhetha kwendlela yokuphila okuya kubachaphazela kakubi imizwa yabo, kwaye baqalise umphumo we-domino weempawu ezikhuselekileyo ezingokwenyama nezengqondo ze-Couvade Syndrome.
Ukuba ungumlindela onoxhala lokuba ahlaselwe yiCouvade Syndrome, yazi ukuba amandla akho sixhobo sakho esihle. Ukuba ugxininisa uhlobo lomntu, umlingane kunye nobawo ofuna kwaye kufuneka ukuba, ngoko uya kuba negunya lokuthi hayi ekukhethweni kokuziphatha kakubi kunye nezigqibo zansuku zonke ezikhokelela ekuzuzeni ubunzima kunye nemikhwa engafanelekanga .
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