Uqeqesho olumnene lenye yeendlela ezinhlanu eziphambili zokuqeqesha ezisekelwe ekuhlonipheni phakathi kwabazali nezingane. Isiseko sokuqeqeshwa ngokunyanisekileyo kukuba kugxila ekusebenziseni uqeqesho kwaye akayi kuhlwaywa .
Ngokufanayo nokuqeqeshwa okulungileyo , abazali abasebenzisa ukuziphatha okunyanisekileyo abaphambuki okanye basebenzise nayiphi na indlela yohlwayo. Abanamahloni okanye amahlazo kodwa kunoko, banikezele ngemiphumo emibi ehloniphekileyo ekhubaza ukuziphatha kwangomso.
Isiyalo esifumanekileyo sibheke kwixesha elide
Uqeqesho olumnene alugcini nje ngokugxila ekuziphatheni kwanamhlanje. Kunoko, kunceda abazali bajonge ixesha elide. Abazali baqonda izakhono abafunayo abantwana babo kunye nokufumana izicwangciso zoqeqesho eziza kufeza injongo zabo.
Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana ufuna ukufumana uxanduva, abazali banokunikela imisebenzi emininzi ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana ufumana izakhono azifunayo. Ukuqeqeshwa ngokunyanisekileyo kubandakanya ukujongana nokulahlekelwa kwezakhono ukwenzela ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukukhula babe ngabadala, abanomdla.
Iimfundiso Zengqondo Zobubele Abantwana Yintoni Okufuneka Yenze
Ukuziphatha okunyamekileyo kugxila ekufundiseni abantwana ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo. Umzekelo, umntwana obiza igama lomntakwabo akafumani ixesha lokuphuma . Kunoko ufundise ukusebenzisa amagama akhe ngeendlela ezintle.
Ukuziphatha okunyanisekileyo kufundisa abantwana ukuba baveze njani iimvakalelo zabo kwiindlela ezifanelekileyo zoluntu. Izingane zifunda ukwenza izigqibo eziphilileyo ngokwabo.
Umyalelo othobekileyo uyamkela iimvakalelo
Uqeqesho olumnene luchukumisa iimvakalelo zomntwana.
Ukuba umntwana uphelelwe ngumsindo, umzali akanakuthi, "Hayi, loo nto," okanye "Awufanele ucaphuke into encinane." Kunoko, abazali bafundisa ngokunyamekela bafundisa abantwana ukuba bafunde njani loo mvakalelo .
Abazali bathetha nabantwana malunga neemvakalelo zabo kwaye bazithabathe ngokungathí sina. Izingane ziziva ziqinisekisiwe xa zibona ukuba abantu abadala bayayicinga.
Xa kukho ingxaki, basebenze ekuxazululeni iingxaki kunye kunye nezingane zivunyelwe ukunika ingeniso.
Isiyalo esifumanekileyo siGxininisa kuKhuseleko
Abazali bagxininisa ukhuseleko ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Abantwana bafundiswa ukuvavanya ingozi kwaye bacinge ukuba ngaba ukhetho lwabo lukhuselekile. Ukuba umntwana uzimisele ukwenza ukhetho olubi, abazali bakhomba imiphumo emihle.
Abantwana bafundiswa nezizathu eziphambili zemithetho. Umzali unokuthi, "Sihamba kwindawo yokupaka kuba kukho imoto eninzi ehamba ngeenxa yokuba simele sijonge ukuze singabi nantoni." Abazali abasebenzisa ukuziphatha ngobumnene abaxeleli abantwana ukuba benze into , "Ngenxa yokuba ndathi njalo."
Isiyalo esifanelekileyo sichaza izinto ezilindelwe ngaphambili
Nantoni na into ingasetyenziswa njengamava okufunda abantwana. Uhambo oluya kwivenkile, ukukhwela emotweni okanye ukudlala umdlalo ungasetyenziselwa ukufundisa abantwana ngezakhono ezahlukeneyo.
Abazali benze imithetho kunye nokulindela kucace ngaphambi kwexesha. Ngokomzekelo, ngaphambi kohambo oluya esibhedlele umntwana angathiwa, "Siza kumtyelela u-Sally kwisibhedlele namhlanje. Siza kufuneka sisebenzise ngaphakathi kwezwi kuba abantu esibhedlele abaziva kakuhle kwaye abanye babo baya kulala. Sifanele sisebenzise iinyawo zokuhamba kunye nemizimba yokuzola. "Abantwana banikezwa amathuba okubuza imibuzo kwaye baxelelwa ngemiphumo xa bephula imithetho.
Xa abantwana bebazi imithetho ngaphambi kwexesha, kubanika ukhetho. Bayazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni xa beziphatha kwaye kunye nemiphumo emibi eya kuba yintoni xa beyiphutha. Xa abazali basebenzisa isilumko esifanelekileyo abazami ukuphoqa abantwana ukuba benze nantoni ngokuthanda kwabo kwaye baphephe ukulwa kwamandla .
Isiyalo esinobubele sisebenzisa iziphumo ezintle nezibi
Uqeqesho olumnene alufanele ludideke kunye nomzali ovumelekileyo . Kunoko, abazali banikela ngemiphumo emihle . Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba umphumo ngamnye usebenza ngenjongo ethile.
Iziphumo azihanjiswanga nje kuba umzali uphazamisekile okanye udidekile.
Kunoko, isenzo ngasinye soleko sinokufumana ithuba lokuba umntwana afunde.
Ngabantwana abaselula kunye nabantwana abancinci, ukulungiswa kwakhona kuluhlobo oluqhelekileyo loqeqesho. Esikhundleni sokumemeza okanye ukuthumela umntwana egumbini lakhe ngokuphindaphindiweyo ethintela into engatshoyo, umzali angamenza ukuba ahlanganyele kumsebenzi omtsha ukuyeka ukuziphatha.
Imiphumo yengqiqo kunye nemiphumo yemvelo isetyenziswa rhoqo ukuvimbela ukuziphatha kakubi ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Ukuphuma kwexesha kunokusetyenziswa njengendlela yokufundisa abantwana ukuba baphuke xa bevutha ngumsindo okanye bekrakra.
Kukho nemiphumo emihle eqinisa ukuziphatha kakuhle. Iindlela zokuhlawula zivame ukusetyenziswa ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle okanye ukunceda abantwana basebenze kwingxaki ethile yokuziphatha. Ukudumisa kunye neengqwalasela ezintle zinikezelwa ukuqinisa ukukhetha okulungileyo kunye nokuziphatha kakuhle.