Abantwana benza zonke iintlobo zezinto ezintle. Ngokomzekelo, omnye umama wakhalaza ukuba unyana wakhe unamathele ngomunwe ngaphakathi kwinqanaba lakhe ngexesha lokuhlamba. Ngelixa liva ngathi liziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo okanye eliphazamisayo, livakala kwakhona njengento eqhelekileyo neyesiqhelo eyenziwa ngumncinane.
Ngaba Okuqhelekileyo?
Ewe, uyaqonda ukuba yinto engafanelekanga nokungalunganga ukwenza, kodwa umntwana ongeke akwazi ukwenza olo xhumo.
Kulo mzekelo, umncinane akanalo ulwazi oludlulileyo malunga nalo mava kwaye akakwazi ukuqikelela ngemiphumo yokwenza into enje. Ngoko mhlawumbi wayekuhlola nje inxalenye entsha yomzimba wakhe owakubonayo nje, nje ngokuba ubeka umunwe wakhe emlonyeni wakhe, impumlo, okanye indlebe.
Ukuziphatha okufanayo 'okugqithiseleyo' kubandakanya abancinci abadlala nge-poop yabo okanye bafake iibhugi emlonyeni wabo.
Nje ngezinye izinto, ngenxa yokuba ziqhelekileyo okanye zilindelekile akuthethi ukuba awufanele uncede umntwana wakho afunde ukungawenzi kwakhona. Kwaye ekubeni ingozi yonyango, oko kwenza ukuba kubaluleke nakakhulu ukuba ayeke ukwenza loo nto.
Ukumisa amaThutha aMaTsha
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuyiqonda xa uzama ukufumana umntwana ukuba ayeke ukwenza into enjengaleyo kukuba xa unqabile, unokomeleza ukuziphatha kwaye unokuyenza ngakumbi nangaphezulu.
Ukuba kwakungowokuqala okwenzayo, ungayinakukunyaniseka kwaye akanakuze akwenze kwakhona.
Hlalani nizolile kwaye nijonge ngokugqithiseleyo nayiphi na impawu eya kuyenza kwakhona. Ukuba wenzayo, zama ukumphazamisa ekuziphatheni, njengokumnika ibhola lokubhukuda ukubamba okanye ukudlala umdlalo.
Ukuba uyaqhubeka ukwenza, buye uhlale uzolile, uhlambulule izandla, uze umtshele ukuthi 'hayi, ungenzi nto leyo' okanye 'yucky ukuba ufake umnwe wakho khona.'
Oku kusebenza kumntwana omncinci obeka izandla zakhe kwi-diaper yakhe engcolileyo kwaye wanyusa i-poop yonke.
Kule meko, ngaphezu kokuhlala uzolile kwaye uhlambulule umcimbi-wenene, ngaphandle kokunyusa, ungazama ukunciphisa ukufikelela komntwana wakho kwi-diaper yakhe. Ukuba wayegqoke iimpahla ezingenakukwazi ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza okanye ukuguqula isambatho esisodwa ngokuqhelekileyo usebenza ukukhawulela ukufikelela kwi-diaper engcolileyo.
UkuQinisekisa ukuThuthukiswa kwabaNtwana
Kukho ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokuziphatha ezinjengale ndlela esizibeka kuyo ingozi yokunyanzelisa ukuba asiqapheli.
Ukusuka kumncinci oza kuzincama kubabantwana abancinayo , ukuba udidekile kwaye ujabule, impendulo yakho ingakhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubeke ekwenza.
Ungayiqinisa njani?
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho okanye umntwana wakho wayezibambezela aze ahlaziye, unoku:
- Khawube nomsindo kakhulu, ujabule, okanye uphawule
- Yiba nomsindo ngokumxelela ukuba ayeke ukwenza loo nto
- Qhubeka udonsa iminwe yakhe emlonyeni wakhe
Ukwenza nayiphi na okanye zonke ezi zinto kunokuguqula oko kuya kuba yinto yesigqeba esiqhelekileyo yokuphululela ngokukhawuleza kwingxaki ede.
Esikhundleni sokwenza intsebenzo enkulu ekuhlambeni kwakhe, kuya kuba ngcono ukuhlala uzolile kwaye ucoce umcimbi-we-nyaniso kwaye wenze sengathi akukho nto eyenzekayo.
Kungakunceda ukumphazamisa kwaye ugcine izandla zakhe zixakekile xa kubonakala ngathi ulungele ukuzihlamba, kwaye umgcine kwisimo sokutya, i-naps, kunye nexesha lokulala, ukuqinisekisa ukuba uxinzelelo alufakanga lo msebenzi.
Jonga udokotela wakho wezilwanyana ukuba uyaqhubeka esenza, ukuba wayengadli kakuhle, unenkathazo yokuqala ukutya okuqinileyo, akazukufumana isisindo kakuhle, okanye ukuba wayedla ngokukhawuleza, njl njl.
Uninzi olusisiseko okanye olunomsindo olusana nolutsha olunokuziphatha kunye nemikhwa iyahamba xa ubavumela.