Khetha kwiindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ukulungisa imiba yokuziphatha
Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi apho "indlela engcono" yokuqeqesha abantwana. Kodwa, enyanisweni, iziphumo kunye nezicwangciso zokuziphatha ezisebenza kumntwana omnye zingenakusebenza omnye.
Kwaye akukho cwangciso esisodwa sokuqeqesha siphumelele kuyo yonke imithetho yokuphulwa komthetho. Ngoko ngelixa ixesha lokuphuma lingawunqanda ulwalamane lomntwanakho, ukuthatha amalungelo kunokusebenza kakuhle xa engenzi imisebenzi yakhe.
Yingakho kubalulekile ukuba abazali babe nebhokisi yeetayitile yokuziphatha, ezizaliswe ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ezingasetyenziselwa ukuziphatha kakubi.
Njengokuba kukho nayiphi na ibhokisi lebhokisi, kuya kubakho ezinye izixhobo ozisebenzisayo ngaphezu kwabanye. Kwaye kukho ezinye izixhobo onokulibala ngazo. Kodwa ukwazi nje izixhobo ezikhoyo kuyakunika ukuzithemba ukujongana neengxaki zokuziphatha kwazo zonke ubukhulu.
Isizathu Sokuba Ufuna ezininzi ezininzi
Kuhle ukuba unokhetho oluninzi xa ugqiba indlela yokufundisa kakuhle umntwana wakho ngokuziphatha okufanelekileyo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaziphosa esikolweni, ngaba ufanele uthathe i-electronics okanye ubeke imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo?
Kuthekani ukuba umphumo owukhethayo awubonakali umsebenzi? Ukufumana esinye isixhobo sokufikelela kuso kunokubaluleka ekuqinisekiseni ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ukuqeqeshwa okunempilo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, awufuni nje ukukhetha izixhobo ezikhethiweyo kwibhokisi lakho leencwadi kwaye uzisebenzise ngokungenakuqhafaza.
Kunoko, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane ingqiqo yokuba iziphi izixhobo ezisebenza kakuhle nomntwana wakho.
Umzekelo, ngaba umntwana wakho kufuneka afunde izakhono zobomi, njengezakhono zokulungisa iingxaki ? Okanye ngaba kufuneka afunde indlela yokuthetha ngayo iimvakalelo zakhe ? Ukudibanisa nayiphi na ilahleko zobuchule ezinokukunceda umntwana wakho enze ukhetho olungcono kwixesha elizayo.
Izixhobo zoLuleko eziKhethekileyo
Isiyalo sakho sebhokisi kufuneka sibe nezixhobo ezikhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ziqale, imiphumo efundisa izifundo zokuphila, kunye neendlela zokufundisa izakhono ezintsha.
Izixhobo ezikhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha
Ezi zicwangciso zoqeqesho zidinga ixesha elide kunye nomgudu kodwa zityalo-mali olunokuthintela iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha:
- Isaziso esilungileyo - Ukutya kwansuku zonke kwimizuzu ngemihla kuthintela ukuziphatha okufunayo. Ukuphuma ixesha kusebenza ngakumbi xa umntwana wakho efumana ixesha elininzi.
- Ukudumisa - Bamba umntwana wakho entle kwaye uya kumkhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi omhle.
- Ukufundisa kwangaphambili - Chaza imigaqo kunye nezinto ozilindelwe ngaphambi kokuba umntwana ahambe kwindawo entsha okanye athathe iprojekthi entsha.
Iziphumo Ezifundisa Izifundo Zobomi
Xa umntwana wakho ephula imithetho, sebenzisa imiphumo emibi njengaleyo ukumfundisa ukwenza ukhetho olungcono kwixesha elizayo:
- Ukungayithobeli - Ukunyamekela ngokunyanisekileyo ukuziphatha okunyamekelayo kwaye ekugqibeleni, ukuziphatha kakubi komntwana wakho kuya kumisa.
- Ukuphuma kwexesha - Susa umntwana wakho kwimeko ukuze athathe imizuzu embalwa ukuzola.
- Ukulahlekelwa Kwamalungelo - Thatha ilungelo, njengeTV, ngexesha elithile.
- Iziganeko ezingenangqiqo - Nceda umntwana wakho athathe uxanduva lokuziphatha kwakhe. Ukuba uyaphula into ethile, yenza ukuba ahlawule ukuze atshintshe.
- Iziphumo zeNdalo - Makhe umntwana wakho abhekane nemiphumo yemvelo yokukhetha kwakhe.
- Ukubuyisela - Xa ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kumlimaza omnye umntu, ukubuyisela kunokunceda ukulungisa.
Izixhobo Ezifundisa Izakhono Ezizodwa
Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkinga yokuziphatha ethile, njengobundlobongela okanye ukulibala ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe, sebenzisa inkqubo yokuvuza efundisa izakhono ezithile:
- Isatifiketi sendlela yokuziphatha - Kususela kwiitshathi ze-chore ukuvuza iinkqubo , kukho iintlobo ezininzi zeetrakethi zokuziphatha ezinokunika iinjongo zomntwana kunye nezikhuthazo.
- Iprogram yoQoqosho loTywala - Iinkqubo zoqoqosho zoTyikitya zikhuthaza abantwana abadala okanye abo baneenjongo ezininzi zokusebenza ngelo xesha. Iimpawu zingatshintshaniswa kumvuzo omkhulu.
Yintoni oyenzayo xa isixhobo singasebenzi
Ukuba isixhobo soqeqesho osisebenzisayo asibonakali sisebenza, hlola indlela yakho. Ngaba zikhona izinto onokuzenza ngokungafaniyo ezinokwenza ukuba isixhobo sisebenze ngakumbi? Ngokomzekelo, ngaba uyaqhubeka xa usebenzisa isixhobo? Ngaba ucacile ngemithetho nemiphumo? Ngaba uzinike ixesha elaneleyo lokusebenza?
Ukuba kubonakala sengathi isiphumo esithile siphumelele, shintshela kwisixhobo esihlukile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ukungahoywa ngamagama akufungelanga umlomo womntwana wakho, zama ukumvuza ngokusebenzisa ulwimi oluhle okanye ukumbeka ngexesha lokusebenzisa amagama angalunganga.
Ukuba unzima kakhulu ukufumana isixhobo sokuqeqesha esisebenza kakuhle, khangela uncedo lwezakhono . Thetha kumntwanantwana wengane yakho okanye uthintane neengcali zempilo yengqondo. Ingcali inokukunceda ukulawula iziphazamiso eziphathekayo kwaye kunokukunceda ufumene izicwangciso zokuziphatha ezifanelekileyo.
> Imithombo:
> I-HealthyChildren.org: Ukuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo ngokusebenzisa imivuzo.
> Webster-Stratton C. Iminyaka Ebalulekileyo: AbaCwangcisi beeNkokeli zabazali, abaTitshala kunye noBantwana: IQonga leNkcazo, iindlela, uPhando kunye nokuSasazwa ngo-1980-2011 . Seattle, WA: Iminyaka Engabonakaliyo; 2011.