Khuthaza abantwana ukuba baphathe amacebo abo kunye nemivuzo engabonakali nantoni na
Iifom zemivuzo ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuphucula ukuziphatha komntwana wakho. Kwaye iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba, inkqubo yovuzo eyenzelwe kakuhle iya kusebenza ngokukhawuleza.
Abazali abaninzi bacinga iimbuyekezo kufuneka babe izinto ezigqithiseleyo. Kodwa umvuzo awufanele uhlawule nayiphi na imali.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zamahhala nezindleko zokuvuza abantwana. Enyanisweni, unokusebenzisa ezininzi zamalungelo akho umntwana onokuyithandayo.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho utyalomali ekufumaneni inzuzo. Nangona umntwana omnye angashukunyiswa ngethuba elongezelelweyo leTV, omnye umntwana angashukunyiswa uhambo oluya epakini. Ngoko nikeza imivuzo ecacileyo kwiminqweno nemfuno zomntwana wakho.
Enoba ufuna ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba enze imisebenzi yakhe eyenziwe, okanye ufuna ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ayeke ukushaya, nantsingcamango zomvuzo ezikhululekile kunye neendleko eziphantsi:
Dumisani
Nangona akufanele ugcine indumiso ngempumelelo enkulu, unokwenza ngokuqinisekileyo usebenzisa amagama akhuthazayo njengenkuthazo. Xa umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwimizamo yakhe, uya kukhuthazwa ukuba agcine umsebenzi omhle. Ngoko bambamba umntwana wakho ulungile kwaye adumise imizamo yakhe rhoqo.
Imivuzo Ebonakalayo
Kukho amaxesha apho udumo alwanele kwaye abantwana badinga incinci eyongezelelweyo. Ibhokisi lokugcina impahla egcwele izinto ezisuka kwivenkile yeli dola linokuhamba ixesha elide ekugcineni abantwana ekulandeleni. Vumela umntwana wakho akhethe umvuzo ekupheleni kosuku ukuba udibene neenjongo zakhe.
Okanye, khawucinge ukukhwela into kumntwana wakho. Ukuba uthanda ukuboleka inqatha yakho okanye uthanda ukusebenzisa isihlalo sakho seofisi, makayisebenzise ukuba uyayifumana.
Emva kwexesha lokulala
Nangona abanye abazali banqikaza ukuvumela abantwana ukuba bahlale emva koko, ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale eminye imizuzu eyi-15 ayinakukwenza ukuba alele ebuthongweni.
Kwaye ixesha lokulala emva koko lingaba ngumgqugquzeli omkhulu kubantwana.
Iintsana ezincinane ziza kuziva ngathi "yinkwenkwe enkulu" kwaye inokubakhuthaza kakhulu ukuba bayakwazi ukuhlala kamva kunabantwana babo. Ukuba unomntwana onenkathazo yokulala, khetha i-incentive eyahlukeneyo okanye unikele kuphela ngobusuku xa elala ixesha elide ngosuku olulandelayo.
Imisebenzi ekhethekileyo
Khetha umsebenzi okhethekileyo oya kuwufumana umntwana wakho kwaye awusebenzise njengomvuzo. Ukudlala umdlalo webhodi kunye, ukuya epakini, okanye ibali lokulala ixesha elide nje yimisebenzi embalwa ekhethekileyo ukuba umntwana wakho angathanda ukuyifumana. Khangela iziganeko zentlalo yamahhala kwaye usebenzise izixhobo ezinjengeelayibrari yakho yasekuhlaleni ehlala iimeko ezithile ezikhethekileyo.
Ixesha leMbane elongezelelweyo
Nangona kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukusetyenziswa koombane kwikhompyutheni, ungenza ixesha kwiidivaysi zedijithali umvuzo. Qinisekisa ukuba ubeka ikhefu malunga nokuba ixesha elingakanani umntwana wakho angayifumana ngosuku ngalunye (njengemiqathango yeeyure ezimbini).
Unokunikela umvuzo wesikrini kwi-15 minute chunks. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulandela imithetho phambi kwesikolo, unokufumana imizuzu eyi-15 yesikrini. Ukuba unosuku oluhle esikolweni, unokufumana enye imizuzu engama-15.
Unokufuna ukhethe ukuziphatha okuthile ukulungisa, njengamazwi ahloniphekileyo okanye uchukumisa.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa ezo ziphatha ngexesha lexesha elichaziweyo, unokufumana ixesha leskrini.
Yenza Uqhagamshelwano
Uninzi lwaba bantwana bathanda ukudala kunye nokuhlambalaza. Kwaye kaninzi, unokudala izinto ngezinto eziqhelekileyo zendlu.
Iipokethi zepekethi zenza iipiliti ezinkulu. Iibhola zekoton kunye neglue zingakhokelela ekudalweni okungapheliyo. Yakha imodeli, wenze iingubo ezithile, okanye uphume kwipenji yomnwe njengomvuzo wokuziphatha kakuhle.
Iibhondi
Abantwana bathanda ukufumana amakhuphoni athi izinto ezifana 'nokuphuma ekufuneka wenze into eyodwa' okanye "ukukhetha ukutya okuthandayo." Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise amakhononi akhe nanini na xa efuna (ngaphakathi kwesizathu).
Imisebenzi yoluntu
Vumela abantwana ukuba bafumane amathuba aninzi oluntu njengomema umhlobo okanye ukulala. Ezinye iintlawulo zamahhala zingaquka ukumema umngane epakini okanye ukuya kumsebenzi woluntu.
Imivuzo Yokutya
Nangona akusiyo ingcamango efanelekileyo yokunikela ukutya okungafunekiyo njenge-incentive, kukho iindlela ezithile zokufaka ukutya kwisistim somvuzo. Ngokomzekelo, vumela umntwana wakho ukuba akhethe okokudliwayo okanye okanye amvumele ukuba athole ipikiniki yangaphakathi.
Yenza ubuchule kwaye wakhe i-fort ngaphandle kweengubo kwaye udle phantsi kokukhanya kwelanga, ukuba oko kuya kukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba alandele imithetho. Ukubhaka ukuphathwa ngokukhethekileyo kunye nakho kungabakhuthaza kakhulu.
Inkqubo yoQoqosho loTywala
Iinkqubo zoqoqosho lweedokethi zinika abantwana abaneemichiza okanye amathokheni imihla ngemihla enokutshintshana kamva kwimbuyekezo. Nika umntwana wakho ngemenyu eyahlukileyo yembuyekezo evumela ukuba azuze umvuzo omkhulu.
Unokunikela ngembuyekezo ekhululekile efana ne "uhambo oluya epakini" ngokutshintshela ama-tokens a-10. Iibhodi zesikhombi zingabavuza kakhulu kubantwana abancinci.
Ukuqhawula imivuzo kunye
Buza umntwana wakho ukuba yintoni na imivuzo efuna ukuyifumana. Unokufumana izinto ezilula, njengokulala kwindawo enqabileyo okanye ukutyelela ipaki, usebenze ukumkhuthaza ukuba aziphathe.
Emva kokuba uluhlu lwakho olupheleleyo, phawula oko kufuneka akwenze ukuze athole umvuzo wakhe wokuqala. Yiba yinto ecacileyo kwaye ungenzi ukuba kube lula ukuba athole umvuzo wakhe wokuqala. Ukuphumelela kuya kunceda umnqweno wakhe wokuqhubeka nomsebenzi omhle.