Inkqubo yokuziphatha ekhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle.
Nangona ukuvuza umntwanakho kungokuba yinto yokugqibela engqondweni yakho xa ujongene nokuziphatha kakubi, iinkqubo zokuvuza zingeyona ndlela efanelekileyo yokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha komntwana. Kwaye iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba, iinkqubo zemivuzo zidla ngokukhawuleza.
Iifom zemivuzo nazo zisebenzela abantwana babo bonke ubudala. Ngoko ingaba umntwana wakho okhuselekileyo uye wangena kumkhwa wokubetha, okanye umfana wakho uhlala ekhohlwa ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe, inkqubo elula yokuvuza ingamnceda ukuba abe noxanduva lokuziphatha kwakhe.
Iintlawulo zeeNkqubo zabaNtwana kunye nabasesikolweni
Iintsana kunye nabantwana besikolo sokufunda bayazuza kuxhamla kwiitshathi ezenziwe zilula. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba ahlobise icwecwe lephepha kwaye ayisebenzise njengetshathi yakho. Ukuba uthatha inxaxheba ekuyileni okanye ekuyiyile, uya kutyalwa imali ekufumaneni izikhonkwane.
Unako ukwandisa iinjongo zakhe ngokukhetha izitampu azithandayo. Unokuba usenokumvumela ukuba akhethe izithixo ngokwakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba awuyi kunika nayiphi na iimboti uze uzuze.
Gcina ishidi lesitifiketi sibonakala ngokugqithiseleyo. Abafundi besikolo basoloko beqhenyiswa ngokufezekiswa kwabo kwaye bafuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uyazi ukuba bafumene izikhonkwane. Sebenzisa indumiso yokumkhuthaza ukuba aqhubeke nokufumana izikhonkwane.
Khetha indlela yokuziphatha eyodwa ukusebenza ngelo xesha kwaye umisele injongo elula ukuqala. Iimpawu ezinokuthi zisebenze kakuhle ngesatidi esicatshulwa ziquka izinto ezifana nokusebenzisa indlu yangasese kwaye uhlale embhedeni wakhe ebusuku.
Nika isitifiketi emva kokubona ukuziphatha okufunayo ukubonelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuziphatha kakuhle.
Iintlawulo zeeNkqubo zeBantwana abakwiSikole
Iimboli zodwa aziqhelekanga ngokwaneleyo ukukhuthaza abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni. Bayafuna iimbuyekezo ezibonakalayo ukuze bahlale bekhuthazwa.
Kodwa ziyakwazi ukusingatha iinkqubo ezininzi zokufumana umvuzo. Ngoko unako ukujongana neenjongo ezinkulu okanye ngaphezulu kokuziphatha omnye ngexesha.
Ungasebenzisa isatidi esicatshulwa ngokufanayo kunye nomntwana osemncinci uze uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba athengise amanqaku kwiimbuyekezo ezinkulu.
Nazi ezinye izibonelo:
- Uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala yokufumana iimboti zokubangela ukulala kwakhe. Emva kokuba athole iintsimbi ezintathu angaya kwindawo yokudlala.
- Umntwana oneminyaka engama-9 ufumana izitifiketi zokufumana umsebenzi wesikolo ngaphambi kokuba adle. Emva koko, izitaki zingatshintshana ngexesha leTV.
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana imivuzo rhoqo. Abanye abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni basadinga imivuzo yemihla ngemihla, ngelixa abanye banokulinda iintsuku eziliqela ukuze bafumane inzuzo.
Cacisa inkqubo yomvuzo kumntwana wakho. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi isicwangciso esihle, kunokuba ujeziswe.
Zama ukuthetha into enjengaleyo, "Xa ufumana amanqaku amathathu, siya kupaki ukuya kudlala. Yile ndlela ufumana ngayo izikhonkwane ... "Vumela umntwana wakho ithuba lokubuza imibuzo kwaye abandakanyeke ekuphakamiseni umvuzo afuna ukuwuzuza.
Iintlawulo zeeTween
I-Tween inokuzuza kwiinkqubo eziyinkimbinkimbi ezinemivuzo emikhulu. Kodwa khumbula, imivuzo ayinayo imali . Isikrini okanye ixesha lokulala emva kweveki zingabakhuthaza kakhulu.
I-Tweens inokuziva ikhulile kakhulu ukuba i "stickers" ukuze usebenzise inkqubo apho bafumana amanqaku okujonga okanye iimpawu. Inkqubo yoqoqosho lweedokethi iyabavumela ukuba bafumane amathokheni kuwo wonke umhla onokutshintshaniswa kwimpahla yokuvuza. Ngokomzekelo, amathokheni amabini angalingana nemitha emithathu yethelevishini.
Khetha ukuziphatha okuthathu ukulungisa ngexesha. Khetha ubuncinane ukuziphatha komntwana wakho okwenziwe kakuhle. Oku kunokunceda umntwana wakho azive ephumelele, eyona nto ibalulekileyo ekugcineni i-pakati ekhuthazayo.
Iintlawulo zeeNkqubo zabaTsha
Abaselula baya kukhupha iikripthi zomvuzo kunye nezixhobo. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ulahlekise iinkqubo zovuyo ngokupheleleyo. Yenza isivumelwano sokulawula ukuziphatha ukudibanisa amalungelo kwizinto ezithile .
Ngokomzekelo, qhagamshelanisa ikhono lakho lomntwana ukuya kumabhayisikobho kunye nabahlobo bakhe ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo owenziweyo ngexesha lonke iveki. Okanye, vumela kuphela umntwana wakho ukuba akhokhe imoto xa eqhuba imisebenzi yakhe yonke ixesha ngeveki.
I-elektronti inelungelo elithile elisebenza kakuhle kubantwana abaninzi. Cinga ukunika amalungelo omnxeba ngamnye ngosuku emva kokuba umsebenzi wabo wesikolo kunye nemisebenzi yabo igqityiwe. Qinisekisa ukuba ubeka imithetho ecacileyo ngaphambi kwexesha ukuze umntwana wakho aqonde oko ukulindeleyo ngalunye usuku.
> Imithombo
> I-HealthyChildren.org: Ukuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo ngokusebenzisa imivuzo.
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