Oku kunokuba kuphazamisekile kwaye kuphazamise ukuba umntwana wakho akafuni ukuya esikolweni. Ingaba umntwana wakho usebenza, ekhala, kwaye enamathela kuyo yonke intsasa ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni? Ukuba kuneneni ingxaki yesikolo somntwana wakho kwaye unokucinga ukuba kufuneka umtshutshise esikolweni okanye utshintshe izikolo, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uphumelele kuye naziphi na izigqibo uze uthathe le nyathelo, abazali kufuneka bahlalutye ngenyameko imeko ukuba bafumene "kutheni" umntwana uziphatha ngendlela ayenayo.
Zibuze le mibuzo
- Ngaba oku kuziphatha kakubi into entsha okanye yakutshanje? Ukuxhalabisa ngokwexhala kuqhele kakhulu ekuqaleni kwonyaka wesikolo. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokulungisa.
- Ingaba umntwana wakho ube nexesha elaneleyo lokulungelelanisa nomniki okanye umlungiseleli omtsha?
- Ngaba kukho utshintsho kwi-pre-school engabangela ukuba le mvakalelo engafanelekanga, njengotitshala ohlukile, utshintsho eklasini, imithetho emitsha, okanye oontanga ezahlukeneyo?
- Ingaba kukho utshintsho lobomi bomntwana wakho obunokubangela le mvakalelo? Ngaba ukutshintsha kwakhe kwatshintshile ?
- Ingaba ifilosofi yeziko kunye nesitayela sokufunda zifanisana noko umntwana wakho akuthandayo? Kungenxa yokuba isikhungo sinomdla othethileyo asithethi ukuba kukhethwe ngumntwana wakho kunye nosapho lwakho.
- Ingaba kukho naziphi na iziganeko ezenzeke esikolweni sangaphambi kwesikolo ezinokuchaphazela umntwana wakho naziphi na?
Thetha Nomntwana Wakho
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakwazi ukunxibelelana, thetha nomntwana wakho malunga nokufunda esikolweni.
Mbuze imibuzo ethile malunga nosuku kwaye ubuze malunga nendawo ozithandayo yosuku. Ukuba kuyisiqalo sonyaka okanye emva kwekhefu esikolweni, kuyaqheleke ukuba abantwana babe nexhala lokuhlukana okanye bayeke ukuya esikolweni. Ukufunda iincwadi malunga nokuhlukana kuyindlela enkulu yokunciphisa uxhalaba lwabantwana.
Qinisekisa ukuba unesiqhelo ekuseni kwaye uvumele ixesha lokulungisa. Nika ulwimi lwakho lomntwana ukuveza iimvakalelo ezithile kwaye ukhuthaze ingxoxo malunga nokuthanda nokungazithandi malunga nosuku esikolweni, ngelixa uhlala uzwela malunga nayiphi na imvakalelo enzima umntwana wakho enokuba nayo.
Ukudibana neSikolo
Cwangcisa intlanganiso kunye nesikolo ukuba uxoxe ngendlela umntwana wakho asebenzisana ngayo nabanye, abathandayo nabangathandiyo, kwaye ukuba kukho nayiphi na ingxaki okanye iingxakini ongaziwayo okanye kufuneka uziqwalasele. Ngokomzekelo, kunokufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazihlazo ngenxa yokuba akaqeqeshi ngokugqibeleleyo okanye "uyazizonda" isikolo ngenxa yokuba akayithandi ilungiselelo lakhe lokuhlala ngexesha lesidlo sasemini. Ngamanye amaxesha ezinye iingoma okanye amabali athile awenza abantwana bazive bebuhlungu okanye bengakhululeki. Ngamanye amaxesha, umculo okanye ixesha lokuzivocavoca lingaba likhulu kakhulu okanye lincinci kwabanye abantwana. Abantwana banokugxininiswa okanye bathukuthele ngenxa yezinto ezibonakala zincinci kubantu abadala. Kubalulekile ukwazi inkwenkwe yakho kunye nokusebenzisa ootitshala njengemithombo kuba besifundiswa ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana kwaye banolwazi malunga nemiba yokukhathazeka okanye ezinye izihloko zentuthuko yabantwana abangenakukwazi ngayo umzali.
Ukuphuhlisa iSicwangciso
Emva kokuba uqonda ukuba imvakalelo ayikho ngenxa yomntwana nje efuna ukuhlala ekhaya ukuze usondele kwintsapho (isizathu esivakalayo) kwaye uye wagunyazisa naluphi na ukhuseleko lokwenyani okanye imeko ehlukumezayo, unokuhlakulela isicwangciso senkqubo esingcono.
Sebenzisana nootitshala bomntwana bakho njengabalingane ukuze uzame ukufumana umntwana wakho ujabulele isikolo sokuqala esikolweni kunye nendawo yokuhlala ekhaya. Mhlawumbi kunye kunye nexesha elihle okanye ucele ootitshala i-ajenda yeveki ukuze uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba azi ubusuku obuphambili. Buza uluphi uhlobo lweendlela ezisetyenziswa sisikolo ukukhuthaza abantwana ukuba bahlekise kwaye basebenzise ekhaya. Buza ukuba yeyiphi ingoma abantwana abayiculayo eklasini baze bazise ezo ngoma kwiindlela zakho zasekhaya. Ngexesha kunye nokuthanda kunye nokudumisa, abantwana baqala ukuthanda isikolo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka engawuthandi imo, unokufuneka ucinge ukuba kungenzeka ukuba utshintsho ekukhathaleleni lunokuba yimpendulo.