Ukuchonga iimpawu zokuxwayisa kunye nemingcipheko yeengxaki zokuziphatha ezinzulu.
Ukudibanisa neengcali eziqeqeshiwe akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho uhlazileyo, kwaye akuthethi ukuba ungumzali ongenakulungele. Ngamanye amaxesha, ngenxa yezizathu ezithile okanye ezinye, abantwana bafuna inkxaso eyongezelelweyo okanye uhlobo oluthile lokuqeqesha ukwenza okusemandleni abo. Ukungenelela kwangethuba ngokuqhelekileyo kubalulekileyo kwonyango oluphumelelayo.
Ukuba ubuza ukuba umntwana wakho unokufuna uncedo, unganqikazi ukufuna unyango.
Ukuba akukho ziingxaki ezinzulu zokuthetha nomsebenzi wengcali yokuziphatha kwengqondo, zibeka ingqondo yakho lula. Ukuba iingxaki zifunyenwe, ingcali yokuziphatha kwengane ingayilungisa ingxaki ngaphambi kokuba ibe nzima.
Iimpawu zoMxwayiso jikelele
Nangona zikho izizathu ezininzi onokufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe kumntwana wakho, zilapha ezinye izibonakaliso eziqhelekileyo omele uzibheke ngazo:
- Izicwangciso zakho zokuziphatha azisebenzi . Ukuba ubuchule bakho bokuziphatha abusebenzayo, ingcali yengqondo yengqondo okanye ingcali yokuziphatha kwengane inokukunceda ukuba ufumane ezinye iindlela zobugcisa.
- Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kukuphazamisa isikolo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala esuswa kwigumbi lokufundela okanye unenkathazo yokufumana umsebenzi wakhe ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe, unokufuna uncedo lwezakhono.
- Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kuthinta impilo yakhe yentlalo. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafumane intsebenziswano emihle yoluntu. Ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kumvimbela ekwenzeni okanye ekugcineni abahlobo, kubalulekile ukufuna uncedo.
- Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho akufanelekanga ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba umntu oneminyaka engama-8 ubudala uhlala ephosa ukuvutha komsindo okanye umntu oneminyaka eli-10 ubudala ushaya abantu, ezo ziphathekayo azifanelekanga ngokufanelekileyo. Funa uncedo ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kubonakale kungakhange kuqhathaniswe nabanye abantwana bakhe ubudala.
Iiflegi eziBomvu ezicacileyo
Kubantwana baluphi na ubudala, kukho iziphathamandla ezithile ezibonisa ukuba kufuneka uncedo lobuchwepheshe. Nangona oku akulona uluhlu olupheleleyo, nantsi impawu ezimbalwa ezilumkileyo ezimele ufune uncedo lobuchwepheshe:
- Ukutshatyalaliswa kwezilwanyana
- Isimo somlilo
- Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo
- Ukuziphatha okubi (ngaphandle kobugwenxa obuqhelekileyo kwizikolo zasesikolweni) - izinsongo, ukuphula izinto, ukuphonsa izinto okanye ukulimaza abanye
- Ukuzilimaza-ikhanda lokubetha, ukusika, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi
- Ukungahambisani nokuthotyelwa
- Ukungabi nenguqu yokuziphatha ngaphandle kwemiphumo ehambisanayo
- Ubu bungqina beengqondo zengxoxo okanye ukubona izinto abanye abantu abaziboniyo okanye abazivelayo
- Ukungabi nokuzisola okanye ukungabi nabubele kwabanye abantu
Njani iNgcali inokunceda
Ingcali yokuziphatha komntwana ingakwazi ukulawula nayiphi na imicimbi yempilo yengqondo engasemva kweengxaki zokuziphatha, njengengxaki yokukhathazeka ngengxaki yokugula . Ukuba umntwana wakho une-ADHD, uchwepheshe unokuxoxa ngeendlela zokwenza unyango kunye nezicwangciso zokuziphatha eziphumelelayo kwi-ADHD .
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuxinezeleka kunokufaka isandla kwimibandela yokuziphatha. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana osexinzezelekileyo unokucaphukisa kwaye angenakuvuka ekuseni okanye afune ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kwigumbi lakhe.
Ukukhathazeka ngezixhala kungakhokelela kwiingxaki zokuziphatha. Ixhala elixhalabisayo lingabangela ingxabano okanye lingavumelani ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nento ethile. Uvavanyo olupheleleyo luya kunceda ukulawula zonke iimeko zempilo yengqondo kunye nokunyangwa kwezi zimo ezingundoqo kunokukhokelela ekuphuculeni okukhulu ekuziphatheni.
Uchwepheshe uya kwenza iingcebiso kwaye angathumela umntwana wakho ngeenkonzo. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana oye waphathwa kakubi ngesiganeko esinzulu angayenelwa ngcebiso. Okanye, umntwana onzima ukulungelelanisa imeko yentsapho edibeneyo inokufumana inzuzo kumntu ngamnye okanye kwintsapho.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ingcali yomzali ingafuna ukusebenza nawe ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho afike. Ukubonelela inkxaso kunye noqeqesho kubazali kunokukhokelela kwiziphumo ezikhawulezayo xa kuziwa kwiingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha.
Xa abanonophelo bafunda indlela yokuqeqesha abantwana kunye nokusetyenziswa ngokusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuguqulwa kokuziphatha , inokusebenza ngakumbi kunomgqirha osebenza nomntwana ngeyure elilodwa ngeveki.
Ngamanye amaxesha iinkonzo ezingenasiphene zingenakwanela. Ukuba iingxaki zokuziphatha zibi kakhulu, inkonzo enikezelwe kwikhaya ingaqinisekiswa. Iiprogram ezisekelwe ekhaya zibonelela ngeenkonzo ezinzulu ezenzeka ekhaya lakho ukunceda ekuqeqesheni ukuba wenze uqeqesho olusebenzayo . Kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo, kufuneka ukuba unyango lwendawo lube luyimfuneko ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuhlala ekhuselekileyo kuluntu.
Indlela Yokufuna Uncedo
Ukuba uyakrokraza ukuba iingxaki zomntwana wakho aziqhelekanga , khuluma notitshala wezingane. Xoxa ngeenkxalabo zakho kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, ugqirha wakho unokukuthumela kwi-ingcali yokuziphatha komntwana yokuvavanya. Umqeqeshi wezempilo yengqondo aqeqeshiwe angahlola iimfuno zakho kwaye aphuhlise isicwangciso sokulungisa iingxaki zokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy Yomntwana Ne-Adolescent Psychiatry: Xa Ufuna Uncedo Kubantwana Bakho.
> ISiko leSizwe seMpilo yengqondo: unyango lwabantwana abanezifo zengqondo.