Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kuchazwa ngokuthi "ukuguqulwa kwamaphetheni okuziphatha ngokusetyenziswa kwezixhobo zokufunda ezifana ne-biofeedback kunye nokuqiniswa okulungileyo okanye okungalunganga." Okulula, unokukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aziphathe ngokubhekiselele ngokuqwalasela ngenyameko kwimiphumo umntwana wakho ayifumanayo ngokuziphatha kakuhle nokuziphatha.
Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kusekelwe kwingcamango yokuba ukuziphatha kakuhle kuholele kwimiphumo emihle.
Ukuziphatha okubi kuholele kwimiphumo emibi.
Xa zisetyenziselwa ngokuqhubekayo, kunokukhokelela ekutshintsheni ukuziphatha okukhulu ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kudla ukusetyenziswa ukuqeqesha abantwana abane-ADHD , i-autism okanye inkcaso yokuchasana nengxaki , kodwa inokusebenza ngempumelelo kwiintlobo zonke zeentlobo.
Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kubandakanya isijeziso esifanelekileyo, isijeziso esibi, ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo nokuqiniswa kakubi.
Isigwebo Esihle
Ukuhlawulwa kusetyenziswa ukuyeka ukuziphatha okubi. Yaye ngelixa livakala ukuba lididekile ekubhekiseleleni kwisijeziso esilungileyo, kwisimo sokusebenza, ixesha elifanelekileyo lithetha ukongeza. Ngoko isohlwayo esinokubandakanya ukufaka umphumo oya kumnqanda umntwana ukuphinda ukuphinda ukuziphatha.
Imizekelo ethile yezohlwayo ezintle zibandakanya:
- Abazali banikezela imisebenzi eyongezelelweyo yomntwana xa elala ngokucoca igumbi lakhe lokulala.
- Umntwana uthetha ilizwi kwaye ootitshala bakhe bamxelela ukuba abhale izivakalisi ezili-100 esithi akayi kuphinda afunge.
Ukugxeka kwakhona ngumzekelo wesohlwayo esihle. Kodwa ezininzi iingcali ziyavuma ukuba isijeziso sonyango asifanele sisetyenziswe ekuguquleni ukuziphatha.
I sohlwayo
Ukugwetywa okubi kukubandakanya ukususa into evela kumntwana. Imizekelo ibandakanya ukuthatha amalungelo okanye ukususa ingqalelo . Isohlwayo esibi singaba neendlela eziphambili zokunceda umntwana afunde kwiimpazamo.
Imimiselo ekhethekileyo yesijeziso esibi iquka:
- Umntwana obekwe ngexesha lokuphuma ngokungaziphathi kakubi uyasususa kwimimandla ayithandayo.
- Umzali usebenzisa ukunyanzela ukukhupha yonke ingqalelo xa umntwana ebonisa umsindo .
- Intombazana ilahlekelwa yimvume yakhe yefowuni xa engayifumani umsebenzi wesikolo.
Ukuvuselelwa okulungileyo
Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo kukubhekiselele ekunikeni umntwana into ekhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle. Uqeqesho oluthembela kakhulu ekuqiniseni ngokufanelekileyo luqhelekile kakhulu. Imizekelo yokuqiniswa ngokuqinisekileyo iquka udumo , inkqubo yokuvuza , okanye inkqubo yecandelo loqoqosho .
Imizekelo ecacileyo yokuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo iquka:
- Umntwana ubeka izitya zakhe kwisitya xa esedla kwaye unina uthi, "Umsebenzi omhle ubeka isidlo sakho ngaphambi kokuba ndicele ukuba uye!"
- Umntwana ufumana ixesha lokudlala imidlalo yakhe yevidiyo yokugqiba umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo ngaphandle kokuphikisana.
- Umntwana osemtsha oye wafunda nzima yonke i-semester ifumana i-A kwikharityhulam yengxelo.
Ukunyanzeliswa okungafanelekanga
Ukuqiniswa okungekho nto xa umntwana ekhuthazwa ukuba atshintshe indlela yakhe yokuziphatha kuba iya kuthatha into engathandekiyo. Umntwana oyeka ukuziphatha ngenxa yokuba umzali umemeza kuye uzama ukukrazula umonakalo ongekho (ukukhala).
Ukuqiniswa okungafanelekanga kufuneka kusetyenziswe ngokukhawuleza kunye nabantwana njengoko kungenakwenzeka ukuba kube ngempumelelo njengoko kuqinisekiswa ngokuqinisekileyo.
Imizekelo ecacileyo yokuqiniswa kakubi kubandakanya:
- Umama ugxotha unyana wakhe ukuba enze imisebenzi yakhe yonke imini nobusuku ngobunye ubusuku anquma ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe ngokufanelekileyo xa efika ekhaya esikolweni ukuze angayi kumva.
- Umntwana uye wangena kwiingxabano kunye noontanga kwisitima sebhasi ngoko unina unquma ukuya kwindawo yebhasi naye imihla ngemihla. Uqala ukuziphatha ngokuma kwebhasi ukuze unina angalindelanga ibhasi kunye naye.
- Intombazana ikhononda ngokungafuni ukuya esikolweni lonke uhambo oluya esikolweni rhoqo ekuseni. Uyise utshintshela intetho yomsakazo ngokukhawuleza ukuze amcime. Ngomso umfana uyayeka ukukhalaza ngokokuba uyise akayi kuvula intetho yomsakazo.
Indlela yokusebenzisa ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha ukutshintsha ukuziphatha komntwana wakho
Ukuba unethemba lokutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha komntwana wakho, izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuzikhumbuza kukuba kufuneka usebenzise ukuqiniswa okulungileyo ukuziphatha kakuhle kunye nesigwebo esibi kwisiganeko ngasinye sokuziphatha kakubi.
Xa isetyenziswe ngokufanayo, ezo zixhobo zokuguqula ukuziphatha zingatshintsha ukuziphatha komntwana wakho. Umzekelo, qalisa ukudumisa umntwana wakho rhoqo xa ehlanganyela, uthi amazwi anomusa, kwaye usebenzisa iichukumiso ezinomnene. Emva koko, elowo uhlawula umntu, mbeke ngexesha lokuphuma okanye uthathe ilungelo.
Emva kwexesha, uya kufunda ukuba ukuziphatha okuhle kuholele kwimiphumo emihle nokuziphatha kakubi kubangelwa kwimiphumo emibi.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy Yomntwana Ne-Adolescent Psychiatry: I-Corporal Punishment.
> I-HealthyChildren.org: Ulwaphulo lokuziphatha kwabantwana abane-ADHD.