Iimpawu zokuzama iintsana, abantwana kunye nabantwana abadala
Ukhangele phambili ekubeni nomzukulwana wakho iintsuku, kodwa ngokukhawuleza kuyacaca ukuba umhlobo wakho unemihla embi. Yintoni ootatomkhulu ozoyenza?
Ingaba umzukulu wakho usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa okanye okhulile kakhulu, bonke ootatomkhulu kufuneka badinga amacandelo ambalwa okunciphisa umzukulu. Ziziphi izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo eziya kuxhomekeka kwimibandela emininzi, kubandakanywa nobudala bomzukulwana wakho kunye nesimo sakho somzimba.
Indlela Yokukhusela Iintsana ZaseFussy
Ukulila kwintsana kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kumntana ozala. Ukuba sele ikhefu ukususela kwindlela ophethe ngayo usana, unako ungaqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni.
Ukuba uya kuba ngumntwana wakho omkhulu, kuhlale kuluvo oluhle lokuba ufumane iingcebiso kubazali ngaphambi kokuba aphule umntwana. Zama iingcebiso zabo kuqala. Nazi ezinye izinto ezinokuba ziluhlu lwabo.
Ukutya. Usana olusondliwa kutshanje kwaye oludla kakuhle alukwazi ukulamba. Umntwana obhekene ne- colic angabonakala ehlambalaza, ekhangela ibhokhwe kwaye ekhala ngokungenakunyaka. Ukutya akuyi kunceda umntwana we-colicky. Sekunjalo, kulungile ukuzama ukutya okuncinci. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana akafanele alambile kodwa ufana okufanayo.
Ukuhamba . Ukunyakaza okunyanisekileyo kukuhle kubantwana abancincileyo. Ukuhamba kunye nosana ngoxa ubumnene bumnandi yindlela eqinisekileyo yokududuza ngokunyakaza, kodwa le ndlela inokukhathala. Zama usihlalo wokugungqa, okanye uhlasele ngexesha uhleli.
Ukunyuka kwezingane kuyasebenza, kodwa kunokuba nzima ukufumana umntwana wangena naphuma.
Ingxolo ephantsi. Ukuhlabelela okanye ukucoca ngamanye amaxesha kuyalusisa umntwana. Musa ukukhathazeka malunga nokukwazi kwakho ukuthwala i-tune. Umculo orekhodiweyo awunayo impembelelo efanayo, ngesizathu esithile.
Ukulungiswa kwezambatho . Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana ushushu kakhulu okanye ubanda kakhulu.
Nangona i-swaddling intsana inokuthobisa, ngelixa abantwana bezinyanga ezimbalwa ubudala, banokuzonwabisa ukulala okanye ukugqoka i-diaper, nje kuphela ukuba umoya ungabonakali.
Ngaphandle. Ukuba imozulu iyakuthandeka, ukuthatha umntwana ngaphandle kungaphazamisa. Qinisekisa ukukhusela umntwana ukusuka elangeni xa ugqiba ukuhlala ixesha elide kunemizuzu embalwa. Uhambo olutshanje kwi-stroller okanye kwi-pram lungancinci, kwakhona.
Ukugqoka umntwana . Abazali abaninzi banamhlanje bayayisebenzisa abantwana ngokusebenzisa umtya othile. Bafumanisa ukuba iintsana zixhaphaza kakhulu xa zigcinwa kufuphi nomzimba oqhelekileyo. Oku kusebenza nootatomkhulu nabo, ngakumbi, kunye neentsana ezingenzima kakhulu. Kungcono ukufumana uncedo kumzali okokuqala xa uzama, ngoko unokuziqhelisela ukufumana umntwana kunye nokuphuma kwiseshi ngokuphepha.
Kungenzeka ukuba akukho nanye kulawa aya kusebenza. Kwimeko yomntwana ongeke ayeke ukukhala, kufuneka ubizele abazali kwaye ubavumele ukuba benze isigqibo sokuba benze ntoni. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba mhlawumbi awuzange wenze into engalunganga. Ezinye iintsana zixhalabele kakhulu utshintsho kwiishedyuli zabo kunye neendawo. Kwakhona, malunga neenyanga ezintandathu, ezinye iintsana ziqala ukubonisa uxhalaba lokuhlukana.
Bangazenza njengokungathi abathandi ootatomkhulu, kodwa mhlawumbi basabela nje xa behlukana nabazali.
Xa abantwana be-Cranky
Abazukulu bezingane bavame ukuba namandla kwaye banamandla. Uninzi lwexesha elithetha ukuba uya kuba nexesha elihle kunye nabo. Ngamanye amaxesha ithetha okuchaseneyo. Xa abancinci befumana i-cranky, kunokuba nzima ukuhlaziya kunye nokuhla kwehla. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuthintela ukuba kwenzeke.
Ukutya. Abantwaba badla ukutya ngokungaqhelekanga. Ukuba bafumana i-grouchy, banokulamba. Zama i- snack ephilileyo , okanye udibanise ixesha lokutya xa lisondela.
Noko ke, ungazama ukuwafumbathisa ngokushukela. Oko kubeka umzekelo ombi kwaye awuhambi kakuhle nabazali abaninzi.
Ukuphumla. Unokuba nobunzima ukufumana umntwana okhulelwe ukuba alele, kodwa ubuncinane unokukhuthaza ukuphumla okufutshane. Zama ukufunda incwadi eyintandokazi okanye ukuphula umculo. Kwi-pinch, faka ifilimu oyintandokazi okanye umboniso wethelevishini. Eyona nto iyaziwayo, ukuphumla kuya kuba. Uninzi lwabantwana luyakuthanda ukubukela izinto ezifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengokuba banokufunda incwadi endiyithandayo kaninzi.
Umsebenzi. Ngamanye amaxesha ingxaki ayiphumeli ngokwaneleyo, yinto eninzi kakhulu. Yenza into eyahlukileyo, ingakumbi ukuba ingaphandle. Hamba ukuhamba, uqhube iibhola, yenza udaka uphendule okanye uphendule i-sprinkler.
Nika i zigqibo. Ukuba ucela abancinci be-cranky ukuba bafuna ukwenza i-X, impendulo ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyikho. Ukuba ucela abancinci ukuba bakhethe phakathi kwe-X no-Y, iinqwenela zabo kunye nomnqweno wabo wokulawula zibandakanya. Abazali abanako ukukwazi ukukhetha lonke ixesha, kodwa ootatomkhulu bahlala banako.
Uthotho. Ukufumana iincwadana ukuhleka yindlela eqinisekileyo yokuguqula umoya. Iqhinga likwazi ukukrazula amathambo abo ahlekisayo. I-Slapstick idla ngokusebenza, njengemisindo ehlekisayo.
Imiba yabantwana abadala
Xa abazukulwana besikolo esikolweni bephuma kwiintlobo, abanamathuba okuba baphumelele kwaye banokuthi bayeke. Oku kunokuba nje kuphazamise ngo-grandparent, ofuna ukuba nexesha elihle kunye nomzukulu. Kanye njengabantwana abancinane, qaphela ukuba umntwana ulambile okanye ukhathele. Ukuba ufana nootatomkhulu, unqwenela ukuqeqesha abazukulu , nangona ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko. Gwema loo mzekelo ngokuzama ezi zicwangciso.
Lungela. Yenza imisebenzi engqondweni ngaphambi kokufika komzukulwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukuba ube ne-puzzle, isitifiketi yesayensi okanye iipende ezibekwe kwitafile. Ukuba ubuza umzukulu xa befuna ukwenza umsebenzi othile, banokuthi hayi, kodwa bahlala bengakwazi ukumelana nokuthatha into ekhoyo. Ngomqondiso ofanayo, ungalungiseleli umsebenzi ocacileyo oya kukuthukuthela xa umzukulwana wakho eguqula.
Beka ulindele. Abantwana bancitshiswa kakhulu ukuba bangakwazi ukuziphatha kakubi ukuba bayazi ukuba ziphi na izinto ezilindelekileyo kuzo. Ukubeka ulindele kubaluleke ngakumbi xa uthatha abazukulu bakho endaweni ethile engaqhelekanga, okanye ukuba ukulindela kwakho akufani nokulindela ekhaya. Ukuba ukutya endlwini yakho kudliwe etafileni, umzekelo, kulungile ukupela loo nto.
Gwema iingxaki zenguqu. Abanye abantwana bathanda ukwazi ukuba baya kwenza ntoni ngaphambi kwexesha. Abantwana abanalolu hlobo baya kuvuyiswa xa bekulindeleke ukuba bahlale bekhulile ekhaya kwaye baxelelwe ukuba kucetywe ukuphuma ngokubanzi. Ngendlela efanayo, kufuneka baxwayiswe malunga namaxesha okuhamba, ixesha lokulala kunye nezinye iziganeko ezizayo.
Jonga ngemicimbi. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abakhulileyo baneengxaki ezichaphazela zabo iimvakalelo . Le nto ingabangela imiba kunye namalungu entsapho kodwa inokwenzeka ukuba inxulumene noontanga. Oomkhulu nootata banokuzama ukunyamekela ukuba ngubani ophazamisayo umzukulwana. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthetha nje ngento kunokukunceda. Ewe, ukuba ufunda into ephazamisayo, kufuneka uxelele abazali.
Yiba nesicwangciso soombane. Xa abazukulu beqala ukubonakalisa kwindlu yakho kunye nezixhobo zedijithali, unesigqibo sokwenza. Ukusetyenziswa okungenamkhawulo kwezixhobo zecomputer kungathetha ixesha elincinci lokubambisa ootatomkhulu kunye nabazukulu, kodwa ukugxininisa ukuba bayasuswa kungabangela abazukulwana abathile abavukelayo. Kungcono ukuba nesicwangciso . Ukuba unomsebenzi osebenzayo okanye ongaphandle ocwangcisiweyo, uninzi lwabantwana luya kubakholisa ngokukhululekileyo i-electronics, ngakumbi ukuba bayazi ukuba baya kuvunyelwa ukuba basebenzise kamva. Kakade, abanye ootatomkhulu kunye nabazukulu banandipha ukuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa. Kulungile, kodwa ininzi ixesha kufuneka usebenze kwezinye izinto, nazo.
Kuthiwani Ngoogogo nogogo?
Abazukulu abayena kuphela abaza kuphuma ngaphandle. Ukuba uya kubakholisa abazukulwana, zama ukuphumla ngaphambi. Musa ukunqumla ukutya, kwaye qi niseka ukuba uhlale u-hydrated, ingakumbi ukuba ungaphandle. Uya kuba nomonde ngakumbi nabazukulwana. Umzukulu weqela eliqhelekileyo unokuhlala eqhutyelwa ekushiyeleni imvakalelo embi emva kwayo, kodwa umntakwabo omkhulu akayi kuze akwazi ukwenza inkohliso!