Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zoqeqesho lwabantwana

Funda malunga neFafilosofi kunye nezobugcisa ezahlukeneyo

Nangona iincwadi ezintsha zomzali kunye nezicwangciso zokuqeqesha abantwana zihlala ziqhubeka, iingcinga 'ezininzi' zokuba ngumzali ngokwenene zincinci zeendlela ezinhlanu zokuqeqesha. Iingcali azivumelani rhoqo ukuba luhlobo luni loqeqesho olulungileyo, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba kukho iinzuzo ngamnye.

Ukuchonga uhlobo luni loqeqesho olufanelekileyo ukuba intsapho yakho ibe yinto ekhethekileyo ngokusekelwe kwisimo sakho sengqondo , isimo sengqondo somntanakho , kunye neengqondo zeentsapho zakho. Akukho luhlobo olulodwa loqeqesho oluya kusebenza kuzo zonke iintsapho okanye zonke iintsapho kunye nayo yonke imeko. Kungenzeka ukuba ungathatha indlela ye-eclectic, apho usebenzisa iindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo ukusuka kulunye uhlobo loqeqesho.

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Isiyalo Esihle

Uqeqesho oluhle lusekelwe ekudumiseni nasekukhuthazweni. Esikhundleni sokugxila kwisijeziso, abazali baqhubeka befundisa ngokufundisa.

Abazali bafundisa izakhono zokulungisa iingxaki kwaye basebenze nomntwana wabo ukuphuhlisa izisombululo. Ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo kusetyenziswa iintlanganiso zeentsapho kunye neendlela ezigunyazisiweyo zokulungisa iingxaki zokuziphatha.

Umzekelo: Umntu oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Umzali usebenzisa uqeqesho oluhle angase ahlale phantsi nomntwana athi, "Ndiyazi ukuba utitshala wakho ufuna ukuba ufunde iphepha lakho leemathimatika kwaye ufune ukukwenza. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuze lephepha liyenziwe ukuze ukwazi ukubonisa uNksz Smith ukuba unayo yonke imisebenzi yakho yasekhaya eyenziwa ngexesha? "

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Isiyalo esifanelekileyo

Ukuziphatha okunyamekileyo kugxininise ekukhuseleni iingxaki. Ukubuyiselwa ngokuqhelekileyo kusetyenziswa ukugxotha abantwana ekuziphatheni okubi.

Abantwana banikezwa imiphumo, kodwa ukuziphatha okunyanisekileyo akukona ukufaka ihlazo. Kunoko, abazali bavame ukusebenzisa amahlazo kunye nokuphazamiseka. Ukugxilwa koqeqesho olumnene malunga nabazali abaphethe iimvakalelo zabo xa bejongana nokuziphatha kakubi komntwana.

Umzekelo: Umntu oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Umzali usebenzisa uqeqesho olumnene angaphendula ngokuhlekisa ngokuthi, "Ngaba uthanda ukubhala iphepha lephepha elibini kumfundisi wakho uchaza isizathu sokuba ungafuni ukwenza izibalo zakho kulobu busuku?" Xa imeko ichithwa, ummeli othobekileyo uya unikele ukujonga iphepha leemathem pamoja nomntwana ukuxoxa ngokukwenza oko.

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Umyalelo osisigxina

Isiyalo esisekelwe kwisiGqeba sijolise kwimimiselo yokubeka kunye nokwenza imigaqo icace ngaphambili. Abantwana banikwe ukhetho kwaye kukho imiphumo ecacileyo yokuziphatha kakubi, njengemiphumo enengqiqo okanye nemiphumo yemvelo .

Umzekelo: Umntu oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Umzali usebenzisa isiyalo esisekelwe kumda uya kubeka umda kwaye enze ukuba umphumo ube kucace ngokuthi, "Awuyi kukwazi ukusebenzisa nayiphi na i-electronics yakho namhlanje ebusuku kude kube yinto eyenziwe ngumsebenzi wakho."

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Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha

Ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha kugxile kwimiphumo emihle kunye nemiphumo emibi. Ukuziphatha kakuhle kuqiniswa ngokudumisa okanye umvuzo . Ukuziphatha kakubi kutyhafiswa ngokusebenzisa ukungahoywa kunye nemiphumo emibi, njengokulahlekelwa kwamalungelo.

Umzekelo: Umntu oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Umzali usebenzisa ukuguqulwa kokuziphatha angakhumbuza umntwana nayiphi na imivuzo ehlelwe ngaphambili ngokuthi, "Khumbula, xa ufumana umsebenzi wakho wesikolo, usebenzise ikhompyutha imizuzu engama-30." Udumo luya kunikwa xa umntwana ekhetha ukuthobela . Umzali uya kuhoywa nayiphi na imibhikisho.

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Emotion Coaching

Uqeqesho lwengqondo luyinkqubo yesihlanu yokuziphatha ngokugxila ekufundiseni abantwana malunga neemvakalelo . Xa abantwana beqonda iimvakalelo zabo, banokuzibethelela ngetyala kunokuba benze njalo. Abantwana bafundiswa ukuba iimvakalelo zabo zilungile kwaye abazali banceda bafundise iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokujongana neemvakalelo zabo.

Umzekelo: Umntu oneminyaka engama-6 ubudala wenqaba ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe wesikolo.

Umzali usebenzisa i-coaching coaching mhlawumbi uzama ukumnceda umntwana azibonele iimvakalelo ngokuthi, "Ndiyazi ukuba kukukhathaza ukuba awukwazi ukudlala ubusuku bonke kuba kufuneka wenze umsebenzi wesikolo sakho sasekhaya. Izibalo ziyakunzima nakwezinye izihlandlo kwaye kukukwenza udideke xa ungayazi iimpendulo okanye xa kuthatha ixesha elide. Masisebenzise imizuzu embalwa udweba umfanekiso malunga nendlela ozivakalelwa ngayo ixesha lokuba wenze umsebenzi wakho wesikolo. "

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