Funda indlela yokusebenzisa olu hlobo loqeqesho ukulawula iingxaki zokuziphatha
Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqeqeshwa lingavakala ngathi i hokey encinane. Emva koko, unako ukuhlawulwa ngokwenene? Naye akufanele uqeqeshe ukuba ufundise umntwana wakho isifundo?
Ngaphambi kokuba ufikelele nasiphi na izigqibo, ke, cinga ukuba isiyalo esinokuthi sibe yindlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa abantwana bakho izifundo ezibalulekileyo zokuphila. Nangona kubandakanya ukunika abantwana imiphumo emibi yokuziphatha kakubi, kubandakanya ukuthatha amanyathelo okukhusela iingxaki zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba ziqale.
Ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle
Ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo kusetyenziswa indlela egunyazisiweyo , apho ingqalelo yomntwana ithathwa ingqalelo. Abantwana bayakhuthazwa ukuba babelane ngeemvakalelo zabo kunye nokuxoxa ngeempazamo zabo, iingcamango zabo kunye neengxaki ngokuvulekileyo. Abazali basebenze kunye nomntwana ekuxazululeni imiba xa bebonisa ukuthetha ngokuhloniphayo.
Sebenzisa ixesha lokubaluleka kunye nabantwana bakho ngalunye usuku ukuze wakhe ubuhlobo obuhle . Ixesha lomgangatho lingaquka ukudlala, ukuthetha, nokuthokoza nje inkampani yomnye.
Kwakhona, yenza ixesha lokuthetha nomntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo awayezifumana kulo lonke usuku. Umzekelo, mbuze xa ebudeni bemihla evelele kakhulu kwaye xa wayeziva evuya kakhulu.
Emva koko, yabelana ngokufanayo ngosuku lwakho. Oku kunikeza ithuba lokufunda ngomnye kunye nokwakha isiseko esomeleleyo sobudlelwane ngelixa befundisa ngemvakalelo .
Sebenzisa Ukukhuthazwa Ngokukhululekile
Uqeqesho oluhle lujolise ekukhuthazeni ukudumisa .
Esikhundleni sokudumisa abantwana ngenxa yomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle, gxininisa kwimigudu yomntwana wakho-nokuba umphumo awuphumelelanga.
Ukhuthazo lunokunceda abantwana baqaphele amandla abo. Kwakhona kuyabafundisa ukuba bazimelele ngakumbi njengoko baqala ukubona oko banako ukwenza ngokwabo. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba azive eyancomekayo kwaye aqondwe, njengengqeqesho efanelekileyo isekelwe kwinkolelo yokuba zonke iintsapho zifuna ukuziva unzulu.
Ukumodareyitha indlela yokusingatha iimpazamo yinto ebalulekileyo yokuziphatha okulungileyo. Ngoko xa udibanisa, qiniseka ukuxolisa kumntwana wakho. Oku kufundisa abantwana ukubaluleka kokuthatha uxanduva lokuziphatha kwabo kwaye kubonisa ukubaluleka kokufunda kwiimpazamo.
Ingxaki -Sombulula kunye
Abanakekeli bayakhuthazwa ukuba baqhube iintlanganiso kwiingxaki zokuxazulula iingxaki njengoko zivela. Oku kufundisa abantwana abanobuchule bokuxazulula iingxaki ngexesha bebanika amathuba okuba babelane ngeengcamango zabo. Inhlonipho yamalungu yinto ebalulekileyo yenkqubo.
Xa umntwana wakho ubonisa iingxaki zokuziphatha uhlala kunye kunye nokuthetha. Yithi into enjengaleyo, "Awuzange wenze imisebenzi yakho ebini ubusuku obu ngeveki. Sinokuyenza ntoni na?"
Unokufumana umntwana wakho utyalomali ekudaleni izicombululo. Yaye xa etyalomali kwinkqubo, uya kukhuthazwa ukuba enze ngcono.
Gxi ninisa kwi Teaching
Ukufundisa yinyathelo ebalulekileyo kule nkqubo. Nika umntwana wakho izicatshulwa ezicacileyo kwaye uchaze ukuba ulindele ntoni ngaphambili.
Nika imisebenzi kwaye uthathe ixesha lokufundisa umntwana wakho ukucoca ifakethe okanye indlela yokwenza umbhede wakhe kakuhle. Oku kuya kuphelisa ukungaqondi kakuhle ngomsebenzi.
Sebenzisa ukulungiswa endaweni yokugweba
Ukuqeqeshwa okulungileyo kwenza ulwahlulo olucacileyo phakathi kokuqeqeshwa nokujeziswa .
Iziphumo azithethi ukuba zijeziswe, kodwa kunoko, kufuneka zifundise izifundo zokuphila ezilungiselela abantwana ukuba babe ngabantu abadala.
Ukuqeqeshwa ngokufanelekileyo, ixesha lokuphuma alibheki njengesijeziso. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka ithunyelwe njengethuba elifanelekileyo kwaye kufuneka lenzeke kwindawo enhle, ekhululekile.
Ixesha elifanelekileyo liye lenzelwe ukufundisa abantwana ukuba baphuphe xa befuna ukupholisa ukuze bakwazi ukugqithisa ixesha ngaphandle kokuthunyelwa khona ngenxa yoko.
Sebenzisa iindlela eziqinisekisileyo zokukhuthaza ukuziphatha okuhle. Iiprogram zokufumana umvuzo, iitshathi zesikhombi, kunye neenkqubo zoqoqosho lweedokethi zihamba ngendlela ende yokukhubaza ukuziphatha okubi.
Ixesha lokusebenzisa isiluleko esifanelekileyo
Ukuqeqeshwa okulungileyo kunokusebenza kakuhle kunye nabantwana abasesikolweni abaselula. Izikolo ezininzi zikhuthaza abafundisi ukuba basebenzise uqeqesho oluhle eklasini ngokusebenzisa imigaqo efanayo.
Ukuqeqeshwa okunokuthi kuya kusebenza kwanoma yimuphi umkhathaleli kwaye unokukunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bafunda kwiimpazamo zabo.
Imithombo
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Winkler JL, Walsh ME, iBlois MD, uMaré J, uCarvajal SC. Uqeqesho oluthile: Ukuphuhlisa umzekelo wendlela yokufundisa isikolo esithembisayo. Uvavanyo kunye noCwangciso loCwangciso . 2017; 62: 15-24. A