Ngokuncediswa ngabazali, abantwana abancinci bangafunda ukuba bangabikho
Iintsana kunye nabantwana abancinci baye bafumana idumela lokuba banomdla , kodwa abazali banokufundisa abantwana ukuba bayeke ukuxhalaba nokudlala ngokucokisekileyo. Ngomsebenzi omncinci, unokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abhekane nabantakwabo abancinci, abalingane bezemidlalo kunye nezilwanyana ezifuywayo kunye nomnxeba onobumba.
Ukubaluleka koMnene noRough Play kuBantwana Abancinci
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba ufuna ukuthatha umntwana wakho omncinane okanye umntwana omncinci ufunde ukudlala ngobumnene.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomdlalo wokudlala, unokuba ukhathazekile ngokuxhalabisa. Isilwanyana sakho sentsapho sinokukulangazelela ukutyhala ixesha kwiinkqubo zokukhuthaza ukuthintela. Kwaye kubazali balindele olunye umntwana, ukuxhalabisa malunga nokugqithisa komdlalo wengane yakho kunokubekwa phambili kwengqondo yakho. Emva koko, abaselula abakwaziyo ukuba baziphathe kakuhle malunga neentsana, iintsapho okanye ngabaontanga. Abadala, nangona kunjalo, banokubonisa nokufundisa ukuzinza nokuziphatha kakuhle. Nantsi indlela yokwenza ngayo.
Ukudlala Umdlalo onobubele Abantwana
Ukudlala indima yindlela enhle yokufundisa abantwana ngendlela yokuzisebenzisa, kunye nabantwana abancinci ngokuqhelekileyo banempumelelo kakhulu kunamazwi. Ukuba ulindele umntwana omtsha, yenza umntwana wakho asebenzise indlela yokunyameka usebenzisa idoli okanye isilwanyana esithandayo. Ukongeza kokumisela indlela yokuziphatha, kubalulekile ukucacisela umntwana wakho ukuba kutheni kufuneka abe mnene. Unokufuna ukuqala ngokuxoxa (kunye nokubonisa idoli okanye isilwanyana esinyeneyo) kutheni intsana nentamo yomntwana kufuneka ixhaswe .
Abantwana banomdla kwaye baya kuthatha impendulo engcono xa beqonda ukuba umntwana akanako ukubeka intloko yakhe. Unokuqala ukudumisa umntwana wakho ngendima yakhe entsha njengodade omkhulu (okanye umntakwabo omkhulu) njengoko ekubonisa indlela anokusingatha idonki yakhe okanye isilwanyana esinyene.
Ubumnene bubandakanya I-Voice Voice and Movement
Abancinci abaninzi banokufunda ngokunyanisekileyo kodwa batshabalalise abantwana babo abatsha okanye izilwane ezifuywayo ngokwenza iminyango evulekileyo okanye ukusebenzisa amazwi amnandi.
Fundisa abancinci ukuba babonise ukuzola kunye nobumnene ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, okulawulwayo, amazwi athambileyo, kunye nomnxeba omnene. Bonisa indlela abancinci abanokuchaphazela ngayo iintsana (zibandakanya nini kwaye kuphi kunye) nendlela iilwanyana ezifanele zenziwe ngayo. Bafundise ukuba baxoxe nabadlali abadlala nabo ngendlela efanayo. Abazali bafanele bafundise abantwana abancinci ukuba abaontanga babo okanye abantwana abadala okanye abantu abadala abakuthandayo ukuhlaziywa, ukuxhaswa, ukukhwaza, okanye ukukhwaza, nangona ngexesha lokudlala.
Abazali mababe neempembelelo ezifanelekileyo
Abantwana bafunda kakuhle ngomzekelo. Ngenxa yoko, abantu abadala kufuneka basebenzise izitenxo zokuzola kunye nezenzo xa befuna ukuba abantwana babo benze okufanayo. Ukuba ngaba abazali baziphatha ngendlela elula, abancinci baya kuqonda indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ukuba bakhankanywe ngokubhekiselele kwindlela abavakalelwa ngayo ukuba bathethe ngenyameko. Ukuba ngaba abazali bahlala bexela okanye baqhube , abancinane abayi kufunda ukuziphatha ngokuthe ngenye indlela. Njengomzali, kunokusongela ukuba uyazibonakalisa indlela oziphatha ngayo abantwana bakho abaza kuwamkela umzuzu ngamnye wemihla. Nangona ukhangele ngale ndlela enye, kuthetha ukuba ulawula ubuninzi bento umntanakho azakuzenza ngayo, kwaye ufundisa umntwana wakho ngokuziphatha ngobumnandi ngamanye amaxesha kulula ukuzenza umzekelo.
Dumisani Abantwana Ngokukhululekileyo Ukuba Ube Nomnene
Ngelixa abazali befanele bazukise abantwana babo ngenxa yokuziphatha ngobumnene , kufuneka bakuphephe isilingo sokugxeka abatsha ngokuziphatha ngokugqithiseleyo.
Ukuqiniswa ngokufanelekileyo kusebenza ngakumbi kunokomelezwa kakubi ekwenzeni utshintsho kubantwana bethu. Zama ukuxelela umntwana omncinci ukuba wenza okungahambiyo; Kunoko, nikela iindlela ezingcono zokuziqhuba ubambe idonki okanye ukubetha ubomvu bebhola. Musa ukubeka uxinzelelo olungaphezulu komntwana ngokuziphatha kakuhle. Nika abantwana bakho isifundo malunga nobubele ngokukhawuleza ixesha elide, kwaye uqaphele ukuba nokuba wena njengomzali unokuthatha ixesha lokuqonda indlela entsha yokuziphatha.
Unokwenza ngokulula kabini imizamo yakho yokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abe mnene nekhamera yakho. Ngokufothula umncinane wakho ngokudlala ngokukhawuleza kunye nenkukhu entsha okanye umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, unako ukuqinisa ukuziphatha kakuhle.
Xa umntwana wakho efunda indlela yokuba ngumnene ngayo iimfuyo ezincinane kunye neentsana, bonisa umfanekiso kubo ootitshala, iintsapho kunye nabahlobo ukuze baqhelise inqabileyo encinane.
Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Uqhubeka Edlala Ngokukhawuleza
Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba adlale ngenyameko yinkqubo eya kuqhubeka kuyo yonke yobuntwaneni kwaye ayenzeki ngobusuku. Oko kwathiwa, abanye abantwana banokuba nzima ukufunda ukudlala ngobumnene. Kukho inani lezonyango elingaba nefuthe ekuziphatheni komntwana wakho ukuba akabonakali ukuba ufunda ixesha. Xoxa nodokotela wakho wezilwanyana ukuba unokhathazeka.
Ukuvala
Ubumnene buyindlela yokufunda. Unokukunceda ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba abe nomnene ngokumisela indlela oziphethe ngayo, ngokudlala umdlalo wakho ngomntwana kunye nedlwana okanye isilwanyana esinyene, kunye nokunceda umntwana wakho aqaphele ukuba ukunyakaza kwakhe kunye neetoni zezwi kubaluleke kakhulu nje . Ngokukhokelo olufanelekileyo lomzali, abantwana baya kuthi baqaphele ukuzinza okufunekayo ukuba babe ngumtsalane, umhlobo, okanye umnini wezilwanyana.
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