Abantwana abafana nezidalwa ezintle zokutshintsha. Okuthandayo nokungazithandiyo ziya kutshintsha rhoqo. Kuyafana nokuziphatha komncinci . Iintsana zihamba ngokuphuhlisa okunzulu, ukuguquka ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama kwesoxesha elifutshane. Ukongeza, bahlakulela ulwimi kwaye baqinisekisa ukuzimela kwabo ngokutsha. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba iintsana ziphoxise kwaye zibonise ukuziphatha okungathandekiyo njengoko zifunda ngokwazo kunye nehlabathi elibangqongileyo.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokulawula iimpawu ezimbi.
1. Gcina Ugxininiso kwi-Youngster's Positive Toddler behavior
Iintsana zidinga imfumba yothando kunye nokunyamekela ukukhuthaza ukuziphatha okulungileyo kunye nokulungiswa kwezenzo ezintle. Xa abancinci benza into engafanelekanga, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bavume ukuziphatha okuncinci kancinci. Yiba yinto ecacileyo ekudumiseni kwakho. Ngokomzekelo, zithi: "Kuhle ukuba wena noJason ujika ngokutshatyalaliswa kwintsuku yakho yeBatman" kunokuba "Wena noJason badlala kahle." Izimvo zabazali kunye nokuqiniswa yintoni inceda ekufundiseni inkunzi encinane indlela yokuziphatha encinci.
2. Ungayinaki indlela yokuziphatha engalungileyo
Oku, akunjalo ukuba akunakwenzeka njalo kwaye ukhuseleko kufuneka luhlale lixhalabisa kakhulu. Ingqwalasela yomzali yindlela enamandla kakhulu yokuphazamisa ukuziphatha komntwana. Ukuqwalaselwa okungathandekiyo ngumzali ngamanye amaxesha kuthandwa ngumncinci kunokuba kungabikho nkathalo. Gcina oku engqondweni xa uvuza iziphathamandla ezimbi ngokuqwalasela.
Endaweni yoko, nikeza amaninzi kunye neendumiso kuzo zonke iindlela zokuziphatha ezincinci.
3. Iipatheni zesaziso zokuziphatha ezincinane
Musa ukumisela umfana wakho ukuba angaphumeleli. Ukuhlala njalo kunye nokugcina isenzo kubalulekile kubantwana abancinci, ngokukodwa ngokulala, ukutya kunye nokuziphatha. Gwema iimpazamo xa umntwana wakho elambile okanye ediniwe, ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Ixesha lokulala liwumzabalazo wabantwana abaninzi ngenxa yokuba abanakho ukuzithiba ngokwenyama nangokomzwelo ukulinganisela iimfuno zabo kunye nezifunayo. Abazali kufuneka bahlele imihla ngemihla nobusuku bexesha eliqhelanisa iingxoxo kunye nokuxoxisana.
4. Sebenzisa i-'Time Out 'Technique
Le ntanki yokuziphatha yomshurensi osebenzayo ongeyena osebenzayo. Iingcaphephe zincoma ukubeka umncinci ngokukhawuleza ukude uhlale ethule malunga nemizuzu emithathu. Gwema ukuqeqeshwa kwintsapho yakho ngaphambi okanye emva kwexesha. Izimvo zabazali mazibekelwe kumagama angaphantsi kwama-10. "Madison, akukho ukukhala. Hlala esihlalweni ngoku!"
Omnye ubomi bokugqibela. Ukuziphatha kwentsha (okulungileyo, okubi okanye okunye) isigaba. Ngokuqinisekiswa okuqhubekayo kunye nexesha, abancinci baya kubakho kwizinto ezimbi kunye neyesithathu kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ezincinci kwaye abazali baya kujongana nemingeni emitsha.