Kwiinyanga zokuqala ezintathu zokukhula komntwana wakho , umbono wakhe uya kukhula ngokukhawuleza. Uya kufumana uthanda ukukhangela ebusweni kwaye unokulandela izinto kunye namehlo akhe. Ukukunceda ekukhuthazeni ukuveliswa kombono wakhe womntwana, kukho imidlalo emininzi elula ongayidlala kunye.
Ukulandelelana kobuGqala kwiintsana
Ukulandelela okubonakalayo kukukwazi ukulandela into ehambayo kunye namehlo.
Ngona usana lwakho kwiiveki ezimbalwa zeminyaka unokubonisa ubungqina balo buchule - okokuba into leyo ikude ekude. Njengoko usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa, umgama oqhelekileyo ngowama-intshi ayi-8 ukuya kwi-12, kodwa njengoko efika kwiinyanga ezintathu ukuhamba kuya kwanda ukuya kuma-intshi ama-15. Usana lwakho olusandul 'ukuzalwa luyakwazi ukulandelela izinto ezibonakalayo zombala okanye ukuyila, kodwa amehlo akhe asondela nanoma yimuphi umdlalo okanye umdlalo othakazelisayo uya kwenza.
Umsebenzi womntwana
Ukuvuselela okubonakalayo kuyindlela enhle yokuvavanya indlela umntwana wakho abona ngayo kakuhle. Khetha ixesha apho umntwana wakho enesimo esihle-esingalambile, okhululekile, kwaye uqaphele, ukudlala lo mdlalo olula. Gcinani engqondweni, ukuba umntwana wakho ube nexesha elide lokudlala, unokuba ngumntu ogqithiseleyo kwaye uqale ukuxubusha. Jonga iincwadana zakho zomntwana xa ekulungele "ukudlala".
- Qala ngokubamba ithoyizi elula (njengebhola okanye isethi yezitshixo zentsana) malunga neesentimitha ezili-9 ukusuka kwamehlo omntwana wakho.
- Ngomonde ulinde amehlo akhe ukuba athole into embonweni wakhe. Ukubamba ingqalelo, ungadinga ukugubungela into.
- Emva koko shenxisa into eshiyayo ukuya ekunene kwaye umvumele ukuba alandele into. Musa ukuhambisa into ngokukhawuleza, okanye uya kulahlekelwa ingqalelo yakhe. Ngethuba nje ungahambisani nento kakhulu kude nombono wakhe wokujonga, amehlo akhe aya kufaka kwi-toy.
Njengoko wenza lo msebenzi imihla ngemihla, uya kuqaphela ukuba uya kukwandisa ubude bexesha elilandelela izinto.
Njengoko esondela kwiinyanga ezi-3, unokuqala ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwento kunye nokushiya ukuya ngasekunene, ukuphucula izakhono zokulandelela ezizenzekelayo kunye nokulandelelana.
Khangela ezinye imidlalo zemidlalo kunye nemibono yomsebenzi .