Hlola uLuhlu Oluya Kukwenza Ukwenza Ukhetho Olumandla NgezoKhathalelo
Omnye wakho "wokwenza" ngelixa ukhulelwe ukutyelela isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwintsana. Ufuna ukufumanisa ukuba lolu hlobo lokunyamekela umntwana luya kuba lufanelekile kwintsapho yakho.
Nantsi indlela yokwenza isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi iziko lokunakekelwa kweso losana lokutyelela. Gqiba phambili kwexesha ukuba ufuna ukuba isiko sondele kufuphi nekhaya okanye kufuphi nomsebenzi wakho. Kwakhona, cinga ukuba kuya kuba kude kangakanani nomsebenzi womlingane wakho, naye.
Emva kokuba ukhetha amaziko ambalwa unganciphisa uphando lwakho ngokujonga ukuba zivuliwe ngeeyure ozidinga ukunakekelwa kwabantwana.
Ngoku lixesha lokumisela ityelelo kunye nodliwano-ndlebe kunye nomlawuli kunye mhlawumbi ootitshala abambalwa (ukuba kukho). Uyakwazi ukubona ukuba amagumbi abukeka ngathi, ziphi uhlobo zamathoyizi abanawo, kwaye yintoni efana neziko lawo.
Ngoku lixesha lokulungiselela udliwano-ndlebe. Ukuphanda ubungqina bobugcisa kwiziko leziko leziko lokunakekelwa kwintsana lokufumana abantwana ukuba bazive ukuba yintoni abanye abantu abayicinga ngendawo. Yenza amanqaku malunga nantoni na ofuna ukufunda ngokubanzi kwaye qi niseka ukuba ufake le mibuzo emithandathu.
Yiyiphi iSifundo kunye neentlawulo zenziwe njani?
Yona mbuzo omkhulu owufuna ukuwubuza ngalinye iziko. Ukuba uqeqesho luphelelwe ngaphandle kohlahlo lwabiwo-mali luni na unokukhetha ukukunceda? Kwakhona, ukuba uhlawula ngokukhawuleza, unokuhlawulwa yintoni umrhumo wexesha? Ukongeza kweso sifundo, fu manisa ukuba uhlawuliswa ukuba usuphelile ukuthabatha umntwana wakho.
Nangona uhlala kwisifundo semali, buza ukuba kukho naziphi iindleko ezongezelelweyo omele uziqaphele ngazo.
Yintoni Insana kuMncedisi Wokunakekela Abantwana?
Ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuthola ingqalelo. Intsana ifuna ukunakekelwa rhoqo, ukuze ulinganiselo lube luphantsi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Inani elihle liza kuba ngumboneleli omnye wabantwana kwiintsana ezintathu okanye ezimbalwa. Iphondo ngalinye linomlinganiselo walo kodwa incinci ixabiso elingcono.
Ukhangeleka Njani Umhla ngemihla?
Ufuna ukuphuhliswa kwintsana yakho kubandakanye amathuba okukhuthaza nokufunda. Eminye imisebenzi emikhulu ingaba yinto efana neeklasi zomculo, ukuthetha ngamabali, ixesha lokudlala elilodwa, kunye nokusetyenziswa kolwimi lwezandla lolutsha. Kwakhona, yeyiphi i-shedyuli eya kubeka umntwana wakho ukuze uzame ukuphinda uyiphindiselele ekhaya? Ngaba ishedyuli izakusebenzela? Enye into yokugqibela, yiziphi izinto oza kudingeka ukuba unikezele ukuze izinto zihambe ngokweedyuli ezifana ne-diapers, iifuta, iimpahla ezingaphezulu okanye iibhedi zokulala.
Iimpawu Zibaluleke Kangakanani?
Ukususela ekwenzeni utshintsho kwibhotile kwikombe ye-sippy yokukhwela okokuqala, iintsana ziyaqhubeka zikhula. Baya kufumana amaninzi amaninzi kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi babo. Buza ukuba yiyiphi inkqubo ekhoyo kwiziko lokunakekelwa kwintsana lokugcina abantwana kwaye likhuthaze ukuba iintsana zifikelele ezi zinto zibalulekileyo. Emva koko uphando ngekharityhulam ukuze ubone ukuba ucinga ukuba kufanelekile kumntwana wakho.
Umntwana Wakho Uyakhula Kanjani Kwiziko?
Abantwana abakwiziko lokunakekela abantwana banelungelo lokuhlala kwimeko yentlalo kusenokwenzeka ebomini.
Bafumana ithuba lokuqala kwimfundo. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka ucele ngamathuba emfundo ezayo. Ngaba isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwintsana esilandelayo silandela isikolo samabanga asekhaya kunye nekharityhulam ye-pre-k? Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuphinda umhla wokunqunyulwa kwe-Kindergarten ngaba isikhungo sokunakekelwa kweso losana sinikeza inkqubo ye-Kindergarten? Oku kuya kunceda umntwana wakho uguquke kakuhle kwiCentergart xa ixesha lifika.
Ukulawulwa Kwamathambo Aphethwe Njani?
Ukuba ukutya kokutya kuqhutyelwa kwintsapho yakho uya kufuna ukwazi ukuba umboneleli wezintana usenokujonga iimpawu zokuqala. Bazilandelela njani ukutya ukutya umntwana wakho adlayo?
Ukuba umntwana wakho uvelisa imifuno, kuyimfuneko ukuba umboneleli womntwana osesikweni angabalisela konke ukutya umntwana adle ngaloo mini. Ngaba kukho umongikazi osebenzayo onokunyanga umntwana xa kwenzeka ukuphazamiseka? Ukuba akunjalo, ngubani ofanelekile ukwenza njalo?
Emva kokutyelela kunye nodliwano-ndlebe, uya kuba sesikhundleni esingcono sokwenza ukhetho. Ingaba kukho nawaphi amaziko okunakekelwa kwintsana asemntwaneni ngokufanelekileyo kwintsana yakho? Kukho uninzi lwezixhobo zokutshala imali kwiziko lokunakekelwa kwintsana. Mhlawumbi uza kugqiba ekubeni elinye lamaziko akho asekuhlaleni liphelele kumntwana wakho.
Ehlelwe nguElizabeth McGrory