Kukho iinketho ezininzi xa kuziwa ekukhetheni ababoneleli ngabantwana kubantwana bakho. Imihla ngemihla yamasiko, ama-nannies kunye neentsuku zokuhlala ekhaya zithandwa kakhulu. Ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kwintsapho apho umntu omnye unakekela inani elincinci lezingane ekuthuthukisweni kwekhaya labo.
Izingane Ziyakhathalela Ukusekwa Kwekhaya
Ukunyamekela kwintsapho kwintsapho kuyindlela ekhangayo kwiintsapho ezininzi, ngokuyinxalenye kuba ukunyamekela ngokukodwa kubakho ikhaya kude nekhaya. Abanikezeli benkonzo yokunakekelwa kwekhwalithi banokunceda iintsapho zithuthuzele ukunakekelwa kwimeko efana neyayiphi na abantwana abasetyenziselwa ukuhlala ekhaya, bazalise igumbi lokuhlala, indawo yokudlala, ikhitshi, ididi yangasemva kunye namagumbi okuhlambela. Abanikezeli bekhaya basebenza ngokunyanga iindleko zabo njengamalungu enwetsapho yabo, kunye nenani elincinci (kwaye lilawulwa) labantwana ekunyamekeleni lithetha ukuba umntakwabo unako ukuthabatha "ukuphuma" kwipaki okanye ibali leyure, okanye nokuba yindalo ukunyuka okanye ukuhamba. Ukutya kudla ngokusetyenziswa kwintsapho yendawo kwindawo yokutya, kunye nokuthuthuzela, ukuqhelanisa, kunye nemisebenzi yeqela elincinci.
Iingxelo zeNgcaciso zabantwana zincinci
Abanikezeli bezindlu abavumelekileyo basebenzayo kwimimiselo echazwe ngumbuso abahlala kuwo, kwaye enye yezo mfuno yindlela abantwana abaninzi abanokugcinwa ngayo nawuphi na umboneleli wentsapho. Ngelixa inani linokuhluka, abaninzi abasemakhaya banakekele abantwana abathandathu okanye abangaphantsi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ababoneleli banokukhetha ukugcina ngaphantsi. Thelekisa loo ndawo kwindawo yokunakekelwa kwamanqanaba apho ubukhulu bungaba bunkulu, kwaye kulula ukuqonda ukuba kutheni le nto inokukhetha ukhetho lweentsapho ezininzi. Xa ucinga ngokunyamekela ekhaya, umbuzo obalulekileyo ofuna ukuwubuza ukuba bangaphi abantwana abaya kunakwa ngethuba lemihla enikeziweyo, kwaye nokuba ngaba utshintsho lwenani lusekelwe kwiimeko.
Abanikezeli Bentsapho Zivame Ukuvulwa Neziqhelo
Abanikezeli benkonzo yabanonophelo banentsapho banokufumaneka kwiindawo ezifanayo, okanye ubuncinci abasondeleyo, apho uhlala khona, ngokukhawuleza kudlala indima ephambili. Ngokuxhomekeke kumniki-nkonzo, abanye banokubonelela ngoncedo lwezothutho kwimisebenzi yokucebisa okanye kwezinye iinkqubo abazali abakwaziyo ukubonelela.Unonophelo lweintsana luya kuLowo lwaseKhaya
Nangona abanye abazali bekhetha ukuhambisa abantwana babo okanye ukufundela esikolweni ngaphambi kokungena esikolweni ukuze basebenziselwe abantwana kunye nemisebenzi, iintsapho ezininzi zinjengekhaya elincinci nelinenokuthula kunye nezingane ezincinci. Izibhedlele kwiindawo zokunakekelwa kwamasango ngamanye amaxesha zibonakala ngathi zibukeka njengeziko, ezinokuthi zikhutshwe kubazali abanomntwana. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba nomntu ongekhaya-nkonzo onokunyamekela umntwana kwi-nurseries-setting kunye nomntwana omnye okanye ezimbini kunokubangela ukuba baninzi. Abanikezeli abaninzi banciphisa inani labantwana ababukele kuyo nayiphi na iqela elidala ukuba banikeze imali engcono yokunyamekela.
Uqeqesho olufanelekileyo kunye namava
Bonke abanikezeli bentsapho baya kuba namazinga ahlukeneyo emfundo kunye nezifundo, ngoko zibuze. Kodwa ukuze sibhenele kubazali kwaye sikulungele nayiphi na imeko enobungozi, abaninzi banikezeli baqeshwe uqeqesho lokhuseleko, baye bahlola ikhaya labo ngabalawuli belizwe ukwenzela iimfuno zokuhambelana nokuphepha, kwaye baye bahamba ngakumbi xa befumana uxolo lwengqondo ( lakho neyabo). Hlola kunye nesimo sakho malunga nento ofuna ukuyijonga ngayo nomnikezeli ononophelo okhutshelwe ilayisenisi, kwaye ukuba ukhetha ukungasebenzisi enye, qiniseka ukuba uyaqonda ukuba zeziphi iimpembelelo ezikuloo nto. Nangona abaninzi abasebenzi bezonakekelo babantwana befumana uqeqesho, ngokuqhelekileyo abazali banamathotholo kunye nabanikezeli abanamava abafumene uqeqesho olunzulu, oluqhubekayo.
Ukubuya kwabantwana kuphantsi
Nangona abantwana beza behamba ngokusekelwe koxanduva lwabazali kunye neemfuno zomsebenzi kwiinkqubo zokunyamekela iintsuku zentengiso, abanikezeli benkonzo yabantwana bentsapho banamathele ukugcina abantwana abafanayo ukusuka ekuzalweni baze balungele ukufundela inkulisa. Oku kudala ubudlelwane obunothando phakathi komboneleli nomntwana, njengoko bathatha inxaxheba kuzo zonke izigaba zeminyaka yokuqala yomntwana kunye kunye nabalingane nabazali ukuncedisa umntwana.Abazali kunye nababoneleli bangasebenza njengeqela
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayazi ukuba ngabanikezeli babo abantwana ngabanye. Emva koko, bahlala kwikhaya baze baqhelane neentsapho zabo. Ngenxa yoko, abazali kunye nababoneleli bangahlakulela ubudlelwane obuqilileyo ekudibaniseni kunye nokukhulisa umntwana ngempumelelo. Imiba efana nokukhetha ukutya, ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo, ukuziphatha (okuhle nokubi), intlalo yoluntu kunye nemfundo yokuqala kusenokusombulula ngoxanduva lokunxibelelana. Abazali bafanele bafunde ifilosofi yomboneleli kunye nexesha eliqhelekileyo , kwaye ababoneleli kufuneka babone indlela nayiphi na imfuno ethile yomzali ingabandakanywa ngexesha lokuqinisekisa ukuba zonke iimfuno zabo bonke abantwana zidibene. Ekubeni kungekhona yonke indlela umzali kunye neendlela zokubonelela ezihambelanayo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho umdlalo omhle ngaphambi kokubeka / ukuthatha umntwana!
Abanikezeli Bentsapho Ngokuqhelekileyo babe neNethiwekhi enamandla
Uninzi lwababanikeli beentsapho bahlakulela umnxibelelwano oqinileyo wabanye ootitshala basekhaya. Imibutho kaRhulumente kunye nelizwe inikezela uqeqesho kunye nenkxaso, kwaye ababoneleli bendawo bahlanganisene ukucinga kunye nokutshintshana ngcamango ngemisebenzi, imingeni, kunye neendlela zokwandisa iinkonzo zokunakekela abantwana. Ezi ziindaba ezilungileyo kubazali, abasemagqabeleni okufumana isiluleko sokufikelela kunye nokunxibelelana kwababoneleli. Enye idibeneyo kukuba ababoneleli bentsapho bavame ukuseka isicwangciso sokubuyisela kwisiganeko esingenakwenzeka ukuba bagula omnye umboneleli ufumaneka ukubonelela ngononophelo. Abanye ababoneleli badibana nabo kwipaki ngamanye amaxesha kwaye bavumele abantwana abakhathalele ukuba bazane, ngoko icebo lokunakekelwa kwangasemva lingaba kuthetha ukuba abantwana baya kudibana nomntu okokuqala.
Iindleko ziphakathi kwePar kunye nezinye iindlela zokunyamekela
Iindleko kukuqwalaselwa ngokuqondakalayo kwiintsapho ezikhetha ukunakekelwa kwabantwana. Nangona iirhafu ziyahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwindawo ohlala kuyo kwaye nokuba uneminyaka yobudala bentwana, abaninzi ababonelela ngezindlu bahlawula ngokukhathalayo kwenkathalo yosuku. Ininzi ininzi engaphantsi, ngakumbi xa kuthengiswa iifizi zokubonelela iinkonzo zokunakekelwa kwamashishini zihlala zihlawula. Abazali banokukwazi ukuguqulwa okukhulu ngokuncedisa ukutya okanye ukubonelela ngesidlo, okanye ukuzisa i-diapers okanye ezinye izinto, njengendlela yokunceda ukugcina kwiindleko. Abanikezeli bekhaya bangaba nezimo ezinzulu kunye nabazali abafuna kuphela ukunakekelwa kwexesha okanye banganikezela izaphulelo zabo. Abazali kufuneka bahlale bekhumbula ingqalelo ukuba ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana yoshishini, kwaye umniki-mboleko uza kulindela iintlawulo zexesha kunye nexesha lokuhlahlela / ukukhutshwa ngexesha elifanelekileyo lezingane.