Kubazali abaninzi abatsha, isigqibo sokuba ngubani omele abukele umntwana wakhe uxinzelelekile, ephazamisekile kwaye edidekile. Amama amaninzi awakulungelekile ngokomzwelo ukuba abuyele emsebenzini , kodwa unomgaqo-nkqubo wokushiya umva okanye ungabikho mva. Ngaphandle kwekhefu lokubeletha lokuhlawula, abaninzi abazali bashiywa bengenazo iinketho ezininzi. Ngaphandle kokuba ngumzali wokuhlala ekhaya okanye nokuba neentsapho zibukele umntwana wakho, izigqibo ezimbini zokunakekelwa kwezingane ezidumeleyo zibhalisa umntwana wakho kwisiko lokunakekela abantwana okanye uqeshe umfana ukuba abukele umntwana wakho ekhaya.
Zomibini izigqibo zinemiba emihle neyiyo, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufumane imeko yokunakekelwa kwabantwana apho ukhululekile kwaye apho umntwana wakho uya kukhula khona. Ukuphonononga ubungqina kunye nokuxhamla kokukhethwa kokubini kunokukunceda wenze isigqibo esilungele intsapho yakho.
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Unonophelo lwemihla luza kunceda ukwakha izakhono zentlalo kunye nexabiso elifanelekileyo. Nantsi kutheni kufanele uxhomekeke ekunakekeleni kwelanga.
- Unceda ukwakha izakhono zentlalo: Ukunakekelwa kwezilwanyana kunika inzuzo yoluntu apho abantwana banokufunda nokukhula nabanye abantwana. Abantwana bayakhuthazwa ngabanye abantwana kwaye bathuthukise izakhono zentlalo ngamava abo kwimihla ngemihla.
- Amathoyizi, iincwadi kunye nezibonelelo : Amanqaku amaninzi enkonzo anikezela ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zamathoyizi, iincwadi, imidlalo kunye neempahla zokudlala. Ukunyamekela kwamasango kunika amathuba okudlala ngokubonelela ngezinto zobugcisa, imidlalo yezemfundo, izambatho zokugqoka kunye neebhloko zokwakha. Amanye amaziko olondolozo lwangoku azisa abantu ngemisebenzi eyongezelelweyo, njengomculo okanye i-yoga. Ezi zinto zivame ukubandakanywa kwiindleko zakho zenyanga okanye zonyaka ukwenzela ukuba ungekho ukuhlawula okunye ukubonelela.
- Imimiselo kaRhulumente kunye nemvume: Amaziko okunakekelwa kwelanga kufuneka alandele imimiselo yomgaqo-nkqubo ngokuphathelele ukhuseleko, abasebenzi, ucoceko kunye nemicimbi yendawo. Buza malunga nelayisenisi yelizwe yakutshanje kunye nokuba ngaba bavunyelwe nguMbutho kaZwelonke weMfundo yabantwana abaselula (NAEYC).
- Ootitshala abaninzi : Amanyango amaninzi okunakekelwa kwamasango anomfundisi obalaseleyo abaye basebenzisana nabantwana kwiminyaka emininzi. Abanye banokuqeqeshwa ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana. Abantwana baya kulawulwa liqela leetitshala kwaye bazalise ubudlelwane nabantu abangaphezu komntu omnye.
- Iindleko: Intlawulo yokunyamekelwa kwamasango ihlala ifikeleleke ngakumbi kunokuba unesabelo kuba unokwabelana ngeendleko kunye nezinye iintsapho. Ixabiso lihluka ngokusekelwe kwindawo kunye nohlobo lwesibonelelo. Isiko lokunakekelwa kwendlu yasekhaya , eyaziwa nangokunyamekelwa kwentsapho, ngokuqhelekileyo libiza kakhulu kunexabiso lomsebenzi wendabuko.
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Nangona zininzi iinkqubo zokunyamekela kwimihla, zonke iinkqubo ziza kunye nento ethile. Nantsi kutheni akufanele ukhethe ukunakekelwa kwelanga.
- Ezinye iintsholongwane kunye nokugula : Iigrama zixhaphake ekunakekeleni kwintsuku kunye nabantwana ababelana ngamathoyizi amaninzi, besula iiswini zabo baze baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphathe. Ukunxibelelana ngokusondeleyo kunye nabantwana abaninzi, ekunakekelwa kweso, umntwana angagula ngamanye amawaka ngaphezu komnye ongekho kwenyango.
- Imigaqo yokugula : Iziko lokunakekelwa kwamasango zinemigaqo-mgulane yokugula ukwenzela ukuba inkwenkwe yakho iwela "kwisifo" sayo, kufuneka uphume emsebenzini okanye ufumane amanye amalungiselelo okunakekela abantwana xa umntwana wakho egula. Ukongezelela, ukuba umntwana wakho ugula ekunakekeleni kwenyango, uya kufuneka ufike uwathathe kwaye uwagcine ekhaya aze akhululeke kwisifo.
- Iingozi : Ukubetha okanye ukuwa kuqhelekileyo ekunakekelwa kweso. Ngabantwana abaninzi, kunzima ukugcina iliso kuzo zonke iintsapho ngexesha elinye ukuze kubekho iimvumba kunye nemivimbo.
- Ukunyaniseka: Amaziko okunakekelwa kwezilwanyana aqhutywe kwiiyure ezithile ukwenzela ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza uthabathe umntwana wakho, kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuhlawulwa. Ukuba unomsebenzi apho ungeke ushiye ixesha elithile ngosuku, ungadinga ukulungelelanisa okungakumbi kunokuba unyango lunikezele.
- Ubuntwa bakho buntwana : Ukunakekelwa kwezilwanyana kunokutshintshwa kwezinto ezininzi kunye nemigqaliselo, ngoko kubalulekile ukwazi ubuntu bomntwana bakho kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba baya kugxininiswa okanye baxhaswe ngolu hlobo. Kananjalo, ukuziphatha kwamanye abantwana kunye nophuhliso kunokuchaphazela usuku lomntwana wakho. Ingaba umntwana wakho uya kutshintshwa ngumntwana ofuna uncedo olongezelelweyo? Uvakalelwa njani ngootitshala abanakekela abantwana abangaphezu kwesinye ngexesha?
Nanny Pros
Ukusuka ekulawuleni okungaphezulu komzali ukuguquguquka, ukuba nomntwana ojikelezayo kwindlu ingaba lukhetho olukhulu. Nasi isizathu.
- Ulawulo olungakumbi lwabazali: Ngomntwana ekhaya, abazali banokulawula ngakumbi oko abantwana babo bavelele khona, apho ahamba khona, oko akudlayo, kunye neshedyuli yakhe ibonakala ngathi. Uninzi lwama-nannies lunikezela iingxelo ezinzulu zolu suku kwaye uthumele abazali imifanekiso. Ukuba oku kubalulekile kuwe, i-nanny yinto efanelekileyo.
- Ukuqwalaselwa ngabanye: I-nanny yakho igxile kwiimfuno zomntwana ngamnye. Akukho phiswano lokunakwa kunye nenanki inokugxininisa ekuphuhlisweni komntwana wakho.
- Isiqhotyoshelweyo: Umnxeba unikeza inzuzo yesalathiso sokuqala. Ngomntwana, umntwana wakho unokuhlakulela ulwalamano olukhethekileyo nomntu oyedwa kwaye uthembele kubo ukuba abe ngumntu okhuselekile nothuthuzelayo ebomini babo.
- Ukusetyenziswa: Ukuba ne-nanny ekhaya lakho kwenza ukuba ngumzali osebenzayo lula. Ukuba ukhohlwa ukwenza into ekhaya, ungabiza umnxeba wakho. Ukuba unomntu oza kulungela ukuza ekhaya, umntanakho unokuba khona ukuba amvumele angene kuyo. Ngaphezu koko, amaninzi amancedo anomsebenzi wendlu okhanyayo, upheke ukutya komntwana wakho kwaye wenze iimpahla zokuhlamba. Le mi sebenzi inciphisa umthwalo womzali kuwe.
- Ukunyaniseka: Ubeka iiyure xa ufuna i-nanny. Ukuba uqala ukusebenza kamva ngosuku kwaye usebenze ebusuku, ungayifumana umfana oza kusebenza kunye neshedyuli yakho. Ukuba unamathele kwinqwelo, i-nanny yakho iya kuba ekhaya elinde.
- Unonophelo olumanyeneyo : Amannies amaninzi ahlala kunye neentsapho zabo kusukela ekuzalweni ngokusebenzisa isikolo esikolweni. Ukunyuka kwamaziko okunakekelwa kwamasango kunomlinganiselo wokuba ubuncinane unomncedi omnye oshiya unyaka ngamnye okanye ngokukhawuleza okuya kuba nemvakalelo kumntwana wakho.
- Ukuzonwabisa: Nge-nanny, akudingeki ulungiselele okanye ulandelele usuku. Akukho ubisi ogqumbile ubisi okanye ukutya okusemini kwidolophu kunye nawe.
Nanny Cons
Ngama-nannies kuvela iingxabano zesitayela somzali kunye nemiba kunye nomgaqo. Nasi isizathu sokuba mhlawumbi ungenayo i-nanny.
- Ingxabano Yabazali: Xa wena kunye nomntwana wakho ungavumelani nezihloko ezifana nokuziphatha, ukulala, okanye ezinye izinto ezibazali, kungabangela ukungquzulana kunye nokwenza ubudlelwane obunzima. Kukulungele ukufumana umntanini ophepheni elifanayo njengawe ngokwempawu zomzali. Ukubambisana phakathi kwabancinci kubalulekile ekuphuculeni abantwana.
- Iindleko: iiNannies ngokuqhelekileyo zibiza ngexabiso elininzi ngaphezu kwamaziko okunakekela. Iindleko zeNanny ziyahlukahluka ngokuxhomekeka kwindawo, inani lezingane kunye nezinye izinto. Ukuba ufuna i-nanny, kodwa ayikwazi ukufumana umntanami ngamnye, cinga ngesabelo senani apho abantwana ababini babelana khona nomntwana omnye.
- Ubunzima: Ukuba umntanakho uhlala ebonisa ngokukhawuleza, oko kukukwenza ukuba ube ngumsebenzi emva kwexesha. Ekubeni i-nanny ifika ekhayeni lakho awukwazi ukulawula ukukhawuleza.
- Akukho Umlinganiselo Wexesha Eligulayo: Ukuba umntanakho uyagula, uthatha usuku lwakhe okanye kufuneka ahambe kwidolophu, uya kufuneka uhlale ekhaya okanye ufumane iplani yokulondoloza.
- Akukho Mimiselo: Ama-Nannies afuneki ukuba nemfundo eyongezelelweyo ekuphuhliseni abantwana okanye iziqinisekiso ezithile. Amannies amaninzi aqinisekisiwe yiCPR, kodwa akusiyo yonke into. Ukuphonononga abaviwa abanomdla kunye nokuhlolwa kwendawo yangaphambili kubazali.
- Wena ungumqeshi: Ukuba nomntwana kuthetha ukuba ungumqeshi. Ufanele ugcine i-nanny yakho "kwiincwadi" uze uhlawule irhafu kwimali yomnxeba wakho. Unokuphinda usebenzise ikhefu zentela ngeNkcazo yokuThuthwa kweNtlawulo yabantwana kunye / okanye ukunakekelwa kwenkxaso-mali yokuxhaswa kwemali. Xa uqeshisa i-nanny, kufuneka uxoxe ngexesha lokugula kunye neentsuku zeeholide uze wenze isivumelwano okanye isivumelwano somntwana. Kwakhona, njengomqeshi, kufuneka unike ingxelo yakho yomntu kwaye uxoxe ngokucacileyo ngomsebenzi wakhe.
Iingcamango Zokugqibela
Xa ukhetha imeko yokunakekela abantwana kwintsapho yakho, hlala phantsi uze wenze uluhlu lwezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kwintsapho yakho. Ukunyaniseka ngokwakho malunga neemfuno zakho kunye nezinto ozifunayo uze ucinge ngezinto ezinokukhuphaza okanye ezikukhathazayo. Khumbula ukuba akukho sigqibo sisigxina kwaye unako ukutshintsha imeko yakho ngokusekelwe kwiimfuno zakho okanye iimfuno zomntwana wakho.