Ukuphonononga ukuba ngaba umboneleli wakho weenkonzo zokunakekela abantwana uhlangabezana nezidingo zakho
Ukuba awuzange wenze njalo kungekudala, akukho xesha elingcono kunokuba ubuye ubuye umlungiseleli womntwana wakho kunye nendawo yokunakekela abantwana ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukhetho lwakho luhlala luhlala luhle kumntwana wakho kunye nosapho lwakho. Nazi izinto zonke iintsapho kufuneka zihlaziye zonke iinyanga ezimbalwa.
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Ngaba Umntwana Wakho Unoyolo?Ingingqi yomntwana wakho inokukhuseleka kwaye inikeze zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi yezemfundo zakuqala, kodwa umbuzo oyintloko ngamnye umzali angawubuza ukuba "Ngaba umntwana wam uyavuya ngokwenene ekunakekeleni abantwana?" Nangona zonke iintsana kufuneka zibe neengxaki zokuhlukana okanye iintsuku apho bengafuni ukuya kwondlo lwezinsuku, abazali bafanele bavavanye ukuba inani labo likhululekile ekunakekeleni abantwana (ubuncinane ubuninzi bexesha). Ingaba umfana wakho unabangane, ujonge phambili kwiimicimbi ezikhethekileyo okanye iintsuku, kwaye ubonakala enesibophelelwano nomniki-nkonzo? Ingaba uyabandakanyeka kuluntu kwaye ubonakala ephumelela ekunakekeleni kwakhe? Ukuba akunjalo, kusenokuba yisikhathi sokuphinda uhlolisise kwaye ufune indawo efanelekileyo yokunakekela abantwana .
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Ngaba Umnakekeli Womntwana Wakho Unomdla Ngabantwana?Utitshala womntwana / umboneleli wakho unokufumana iimpawu eziphawulekayo, kodwa abaninzi abazali bafuna unonophelo onothando lokwenene lwabantwana kunye nokuzincoma. Oku kuthobekileyo, kodwa abazali bafuna ukuziva ukuba umkhathaleli wabo umjonga umsebenzi wakhe njengentsikelelo, kwaye ukuba abantwana bayakuvuyela. Ukuba ufumana ingqiqo yokuba umnakekeli wakho unokuthanda ukwenza enye into, kusenokuba ixesha lokufumana indawo.
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Ingaba Ubume Bakho BanoKhathalelo Lwokhuseleko?Iibhombo zibonakala zithathwa kwizinto ezinobungozi kunye nokudlala okungabungozi. Qinisekisa ukuba uvavanye ngokucophelela ukuba ngaba umniki-mntanini wakho wasekhaya unabo bonke iziseko ezigqitywe ngokwemigaqo yokhuseleko lwasekhaya . Amaziko okunakekelwa kwezilwanyana kufuneka abe nolwahlulo kwaye akwazi ukunika iinkcazo ezicacileyo zokhuseleko kunye neenkqubo. Qiniseka ukuba ubuze malunga nokukhutshwa kunye nokuhamba kweendlela zokukhusela kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ukhululekile ngeempendulo ezinikeziwe.
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Ngaba Uyavuyiswa NgoKhula Kwenu Nokufunda Kwezingane?Iingcali kunye nabazali bahluke ngokubaluleka kokubaluleka kwezemfundo zakuqala ukulungiselela abantwana ngaphambi kokufunda esikolweni nakwi-kindergarten. Abanye bathi ukuya kwiimfuno ezisisiseko, ukubonelela umdlalo okhuselekileyo kunye nokuzonwabisa ngokukhululekile, nokukhuthaza ukusebenzisana kwentlalo kunele. Abanye, ke, bakholelwa ukuba ukugxila ekufundeni kokuqala kunye nezibalo kunye nokuzisa iingcamango zemfundo kunye nolwimi lwangaphandle lubalulekile ekuphumeleleni kamva. Qinisekisa ukuba zeziphi iinjongo kunye nokulindela kumntwana wakho kwisigaba sakhe samanje; ngoko, qiniseka ukuba badibeneyo ukuze baneliseke.
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Ngaba Unxibelelana Ngokufanelekileyo Nomboneleli Wononophelo Lomntwana?Unxibelelwano luyaqhubeka luba yinto ephambili "yokwenza okanye ukuphumula" kunye nokwaneliseka kwexesha elide lamalungiselelo okunakekela abantwana. Qinisekisa ukusebenzisa umqeqeshi / umnyamekeli wokunakekela osebenzayo kunye nesakhe. Ngaba ufuna ingxelo yansuku zonke yemisebenzi nokwazi umntwana wakho ukutya / ukulala ngemikhwa ngokubanzi? Abanye abazali benza; abanye bacinga ukuba akudingekile. Ngaba uthanda umboneleli obeka iingqungquthela zeeveki aze adala iintsuku ezikhethekileyo (njengokugqoka obomvu ngoLwesine), okanye ngaba le ntlobo yemisebenzi ikuqhubekile? Ingaba umboneleli wakho ufuna iinkomfa rhoqo? Oku kubambiswano; qi niseka ukuba isebenza kuwo wonke umntu.
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Ngaba Unayo Ukuba Lovin 'Uvakalelwa Ngomntwana Wakho?Uninzi lwexesha, abazali banengqondo enembile malunga nomntwana okanye umnakekeli kwaye uthembele kulawo mazandla ukwenza izigqibo zokunakekela abantwana. Ngonaxa loo mvakalelo akufanele ibe yisona sizathu sokuba ukhethe okanye ungakhethi umniki-nkonzo, kufuneka baqwalaselwe ngamandla. Unqwenela ukuzithembela kumakhono akho nobuntu bakho. Sichitha ixesha kunye nomntwana wakho ekuxoxiseni ngezinto ezithandayo, izicwangciso zokuzicwangcisa, njl njl, ukuqinisekisa ukuba "i-radar yakho yomzali" ihamba kakuhle.
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Ngaba Ukulungiswa Kweziluleko Neendlela Zokunyamekela Izitayela?Akukho namnye indlela efanelekileyo okanye engalunganga yokukhusela umntwana. Kodwa ufuna umntwana wakho akhulise indlela yakho . Qinisekisa ukuba wena nomboneleli womntwana wakho uyavumelana malunga nezindlela zokuqeqesha, ukuphuhliswa komlingiswa, imikhosi yenkolo, kunye neminye imibandela yentlalo kunye nemizwelo. Oku kunokukunceda ukuphepha ingxabano okanye ukungaqondi.
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Ngaba Umncedi Wakho Uyazi I-Advice Medical Advice?Iseluleko malunga nendlela yokukhathalela ngokukhuselekileyo iintsana kunye nabantwana abaselula batshintsha njengoko ulwazi olutsha lufumanisa. Qinisekisa ukuba umniki-nkonzo wakho ugcina iingcebiso zangoku kwaye zilandela isiluleko semibutho yabantwana kunye namanye amagosa ezempilo ahloniphekileyo. Imizekelo ibandakanya indawo yokulala kunye nokhuseleko lwe-crib ukukhusela isifo se-infantry syndrome kunye nokugonywa komkhuhlane kubanikezeli benonophelo abasebenza neintsana.
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Ngaba i-Credentials / Ilayisenisi ye-Up-To-Date?Imfuno neemvume malunga nokubonelela ngempilo yabantwana zingahluka ngokwasemthethweni okanye kwintlangano, kodwa abazali bafanele bahlale bekwazi iimfuno nokuba ngaba umniki-mboleko wabo uphelile. Amaziko okunakekelwa kweso sihlandlo anokufumana iinketho zokongeza iziqinisekiso. Buza malunga naluphina uhlolo kunye neenkcukacha, kwaye yiyiphi imigaqo esetyenziswayo. Olu lwazi lufumaneka kwi-Intanethi ukuze luhlolwe lula ukuze abazali bakwazi ukuqonda imigangatho kunye nokulindela. Ukuba ukhetha ukusebenzisa umntu ongenalo ilayisenisi (njengengumntwana wexesha eliyingcali), ubuncinane bafuna ukuba umnakekeli unesiseko soqeqesho lokuqala / uqeqesho lweCPR.
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Yintoni Isicwangciso Sokubuyisela Sondlo Sakho Sokugula?Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali baqesha abantu abanonophelo ukwenzela ukuba bakwazi ukusebenza ngokwabo, ukudala ingxaki xa umboneleli wengane engakwazi ukusebenza. Kodwa, ngokucwangcisa kwangaphambili, iSicwangciso B singasoloko senziwa ngokufanelekileyo. Nangona omnye utitshala angeniswa lula kwi-carecare, ababoneleli ngabasekhaya bangahle balungiselele umnonophelo wokulondoloza amaxesha xa begula okanye bengakwazi ukusebenza. Abazali bafanele benze izicwangciso xa i-tot tot yabo igula kwaye abanako ukuya kweso londlo.