Ukufumana umntu onokunyamekela abantwana bakho xa uhlala ekhaya okanye kude kungabanye wemisebenzi enzima kakhulu kwaye emangalisayo umzali anokujamelana nayo. Ukwandisa, uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho ukunxibelelana ngokuthe ngqo phakathi kokunakekelwa kwezingane ezisemgangathweni kunye nengqondo yomntwana, ingqondo kunye nengokwenyama.
Abanononophelo abalungileyo banokuyenza yonke into ekuncedeni bakhulise iingxenye zengqondo yomntwana ukubanceda bahlalisane kwaye baqulunqe izibophelelo nabanye abantu.
Ngokudabukisayo, abantu abanonophelo abanonophelo bangabangela ingozi ngokungakhuthazi ukukhula kwengqondo nokubangela ukuba abantwana babe neentloni kunye nokuxhalabisa.
Emva kokuthatha ixesha lokujonga iintsuku, iiyure kunye neendleko zokunakekelwa kwabantwana ngoko ke abazali kufuneka baqonde iintlobo ezahlukeneyo ezikhoyo kubo kwaye yiyiphi inxaxheba eya kuba ngumdlalo obalaseleyo kubo nabantwana babo.
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Ukuba ngaba abazali bakhetha isikhungo sokunakekelwa kwamasango , ngokuqhelekileyo bawela phantsi kwiindidi ezimbini: ukunakekelwa kwendawo yokuhlala okanye ukunakekelwa kwamasango. Ukunakekelwa kwamasango ehlala kwindawo yokuhlala kuhlala kuvameliswe kwikhaya lomntu apho, mhlawumbi omnye umntu, banakekela abantwana ngexesha lomhla. Ukunakekelwa kwentsuku yokuhlala kuhlala kubazali befuna indawo encinci, esondelene kakhulu kunye neyona nto "ye-home-like". Ukunyamekela indawo yokuhlala kunokubonelela ngononophelo olungaphantsi komntwana kumlinganiselo wokunyamekela kunye nokuguquka okulula kubantwana abanentshisekelo ngamaqela amakhulu. Kwiphepha le-flip, nangona kunjalo, iinkqubo zokunakekelwa kwentsuku zokuhlala zingabikho nto, iincwadi, imidlalo, kunye nezibonelelo ezikhoyo kumaziko oshishino.
Kwakhona abanakho ukuba babe neenkqubo zemfundo kunye nesakhiwo esinjengenqila.
Amaziko okunakekelwa kwamanqanaba okuthengisa ngokuqhelekileyo anamacandelo amakhulu kunye namagumbi aqokelelwe ngumdala. Ngethemba, zihlambulukile kwaye zizele imidlalo efanelekileyo kunye nemidlalo. Uninzi lwa maziko anamaqela ekhamera apho abazali bangakujonga kwaye babone indlela izinto ezihamba ngayo.
Iimpembelelo zentlalo kunye nemilinganiselo yokuvuselelwa kwabantwana. Iingxaki zingaba ngabasebenzi abakhulu kumlinganiselo womntwana.
Xa ukhetha ukunakekelwa kwendawo yokuhlala okanye yorhwebo , abazali kufuneka ba:
Hlola iimfuno zephondo, qinisekisa ukuba onke amaphepha abo kunye namaxwebhu asesikweni kwaye akukho miba evela kummandla, jonga iingxelo kubasebenzi, bathethe nabazali bangoku kunye nabangaphambili ababeye, kwaye bayeke ukuvavanywa ngamanani amaninzi wakho umntwana ukuba abone ukuba wena kunye naye uziva ukhululekile.
I-Home Nannies yasekhaya
Kwilizwe le-nanny, kubonakala ngathi kukho iintlobo ezintathu ezixanduva olufanelekileyo:
Iyunithi yabazali Nanny: Umntwana onokusebenza njengomzali. Omnye ozimelayo, osebenzayo kwaye umntu okwazi ukuqhuba indlu ngelixa umama ephuma.
Nanner Partner: Umntwana ohlula indlu kunye nomama ngokulinganayo. Uya kuba "ophetheyo" xa umama uphuma kwaye "uncedise" xa umama ekhaya.
Ummangali uNanny: Umntwana ongcono kakhulu kumama abafuna ukulawula ngokupheleleyo ekhaya. Lawa maxesha asebenzayo kwaye alandela imisebenzi eyabelwe imihla ngemihla.
Ukongeza kokucinga malunga naluphi uhlobo kunye nohlobo lwabo xanduva, abazali basekhaya nabo kufuneka baqwalasele ezinye izinto zokusebenza nomntwana onjenge: "Ngaba baya kuhlala okanye baphile?" "Ngaba ndiya kubafuna ukuba baqhube okanye unemfuno ekhethekileyo njengokubhukuda "okanye" ngaba lo mntu unamava afanelekileyo ukuba axhotyiswe ukuphatha abantwana bam? "
Iintlobo zokuba nomntwana zikwazi ukuba nomntu omnye umntu onakekele umntwana wakho ekhayeni aze ahambe kwiimfuno zabo eziguqukayo. Iingxaki zindleko eziphezulu zokunyamekela kunye nentlalo engaphantsi koko iyafumaneka ekunakekelwa kwamasango.
Xa ukhetha abazali abangama- nanny kufuneka :
Qinisekisa ukuba basebenze kunye nabantwana abaneminyaka efanayo neyakho, jonga iingxelo ezidlulileyo ze-nanny, imvelaphi khangela ubungakanani bomntu kunye nephepha, uchithe ixesha ukwenza iimvavanyo eziliqela ekhaya, kungekhona nje udliwano-ndlebe omnye, kunye nomgqatswa we-nanny ukuze ungamgcina kwaye ubone ukuba ungumdlalo njengomnakekeli nomqeshwa.
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