Abazali banokuphanda, ukutyelela nokuthetha nabanye ukuba benze ukhetho olufanelekileyo
Ukunakekelwa kwezingane zangaphakathi-ekhaya (kwaziwa nangokulondolozwa kwentsapho) yimeko apho iindwendwe zihlawula ukuzisa umntwana wazo kwikhaya lomntu omdala, ojongana nabantwana ngokuqhubekayo nangokuqhubekayo. Abazali bakhetha ukunakekelwa kweentsapho ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Olu khetho lokunakekela abantwana luhluke kunomntwana kuba abantwana ziswe kwikhaya lomnakekeli ukuze unakekele.
Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana kuphelelwa ngaphandle kwikhaya lomboneleli, kaninzi njengoko enakekela abantwana bakhe ngexesha elifanayo. Nangona abanye ababoneleli ngeenkonzo zasemakhaya baye bafumana uqeqesho kwaye banemvume-karhulumente, abaninzi banjalo. Ukunakekelwa kwintsapho kwintsuku kudla ngokuba yindlela encinci yokunyamekela abantwana. Inika indawo efana nekhaya, kunokuba iziko elilodwa. Iinkqubo zentsapho zentsapho zihlala zinika iqela elidala elixubileyo, kunye neqoqo leintsana, abantwana abaselula kunye nabantwana besikolo, ngoko kunjalo njengentsapho kunokweseklasini.
Qinisekisa uhlobo oluthile lwenkonzo yokuNakekela abantwana
Xa ucinga malunga nokunakekelwa kwezingane ekhaya, umbuzo wokuqala ukuzibuza - unomdla kumntwana , umboneleli wekhaya okanye isikhungo sokunakekela abantwana. inkqubo iyafana neyakho. Ziyinkokhelo ebiza, nangona kunjalo. Abanikezeli beekhaya ngokuqhelekileyo banamaqela amancinci, adibeneyo kwaye abantwana bahlala benomncedisi omnye.
Ukuba ukhetha ukunyamekela ekhaya, nantsi ezinye izinto oza kuziqwalasela:
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- Iindleko: Ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kwintsapho ngokuqhelekileyo kuyabiza kunexabiso elingaphantsi kwenkqubo yokunakekelwa kwamasango okanye ukuqesha umntana.
- Ingqalelo : Kunabantwana abancinci kuneziko lemveli lokunakekelwa kwamasango elithetha ukunakekelwa ngakumbi kunye nokunyanzeliswa kokugula.
- Unonophelo oluqhubekayo: Amaninzi amanqanaba okunakekela abantwana athatha abantwana abaselula kakhulu kwiminyaka yobudala.
- Ubumbano: Umntwana wakho uya kufumana ixesha elide kunye noluntu kunye nabanye abantwana.
- Ukunyaniseka : Amanqaku amaninzi ahlala evulekileyo malunga neeyure ezingama-12 ukuxhasa iindidi zeedyuli zabazali.
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- Ukungabi neelayisenisi kunye noqeqesho : Abanye ababoneleli abancediswanga kwaye akudingeki ukuba babe noqeqesho lokunakekelwa kwabantwana oko kuthetha ukuba abahloliswanga rhoqo kumgangatho kwaye akunakufuneka balandele ukulinganisela okufanelekileyo ngokwemilinganiselo yabantwana-ukunakekelwa, ubungakanani beqela, imisebenzi kunye nezixhobo.
- Ayikho imbuyiselo : Ukunakekelwa kwendlu kwangaphakathi kunokuba neyodwa okanye ababini banakekeli ukuba ngaba (okanye omnye wabantwana bakhe) uyagula, ngokuqhelekileyo akukho nonyamekeli wokuncedisa. Kule meko, uzakufuna ukunakekelwa kwenkxaso-mboleko okanye ukuba ususe usuku.
Ukukhetha I-Daycare yakho yasekhaya
Xa ukhetha ukunakekelwa kwamasango, kufuneka ucele imibuzo efana nalabo oya kubuza xa ukhangela inkathalo yosuku lwemveli kwizihloko, ezifana neendleko, ukhuseleko, iiyure kunye nemigulo yokugula.
Ukunyamekelwa kwendlu, ubuze kwakhona:
- Ngubani na oya kuba endlwini xa umntwana wam ekhona? Buza malunga nabo bonke abadala, abaselula nabadala ekhaya. Fumana ukuba yiyiphi indima, ukuba ikhona, iya kudlala ekunyamekeleni komntwana wakho kwaye ukuba unamava kunye nezingane.
- Kuthiwani ngemigaqo yokuphuthuma komntu kunye nexesha? Buza umkhathaleli ngexesha lakhe lekhefu kunye noko akwenzayo kwiimeko eziphuthumayo ezifuna ukuba ahambe.
- Ngaba i-inshurensi yakho igubungela umntwana wam? Fumana ukuba i-inshorensi yomnini-mboleko yomnini-mboleko inobungozi kunoma yimuphi umntwana ekunyamekeleni kwakhe-nangona unethemba lokuba awusoze ufune ukuyisebenzisa.
Yintoni Yokujonga Xa Uvakatye
Xa unciphise uphando lwakho, cwangcisa ukutyelela. Gcina amehlo akho evulekele izinto ezilandelayo:
Abantwana abonwabileyo
Abanomdla abanobubele
Indawo ekhuthaza
Ukuhlukana kwamaqela eminyaka
Iingcango ezivalelwe
Isimo esicocekileyo nesempilweni
Indawo efanelekileyo
Amanyathelo okukhusela
Ilayisenisi
Vula uqhagamshelwano
Idumela elihle
Iingcebiso kubazali
Qhubeka ngokubeka abantwana bakho ekunakekelwa kwabantwana. Musa nje ukutyelela isikhungo sokunakekela abantwana kanye. Yi tyelele kabini okanye kathathu ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo emini. Fumana abanye abazali abafuna ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kwaye bathethe nabo ngezicwangciso zabo. Fumana iingxelo ezivela kubo nakuphi na ukunakekelwa kwezingane ezikhokelela kuzo.