Iintsana ezininzi zinamava aphukile, i-sprain, okanye olunye uhlobo lokulimala ngelixa likhula. Kodwa ukunyamekela umntwana ngokulimala kakhulu kunokufuna ukuqwalaselwa okhethekileyo ngumnikezeli, kwaye kulabo ababukele abantwana abaninzi, amanye amalungiselelo anokufuneka enze ngexesha lokuphucula.
Nangona amathambo aphukileyo kunye neentonga zilungiswa kunye nexesha, abazali abasebenzayo banokujamelana nomthwalo owongezelelweyo wokuba benze amanye amalungiselelo okanye bafune indawo yokuhlala kubanikezeli bezonakekelo zabantwana ngelixa i-totali yabo yalimala.
Nangona ukulimala okungenakudinga ukutshintshwa kwezinto ezininzi (inkunzi ephethe ingalo ephukileyo iyakwazi ukuza kubakho abantwana kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwimizila ethile yokuhamba, umzekelo), ukulimala okungakumbi kunokuba nakho ukulawulwa ngokufanelekileyo kwindawo yokunyamekela rhoqo .
Umnikezeli wekhaya ophethe ishedyuli equka ukuhamba ngeveki, ukuphuma kwipaki, kunye nemisebenzi ekhethekileyo njengokubhukuda okanye ukuchitha iintsuku, angenakho ukunyamekela ngokusemgangathweni incinci eboshiweyo ngevili.
Oko Kufuneka Uyiqwalasele Xa Ukhetha Ngokunyamekela
Nazi izinto abazali kufuneka baqikelele xa besenza isigqibo malunga nokunyamekela umntwana owonzakeleyo.
- Uluhlu luni lokulimala kwam umntwana kwaye luya kuba lukhuni kangakanani ngexesha lokuphulukana?
- Yiyiphi imisebenzi eyenziwa ngumnikeli wam unakekelo lwezingane ngexesha lokubuyisela kwaye umntanami uza kuthatha njani ukudumala kunye nezinye iimvakalelo ukuba akakwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba?
- Ngaba ilungiselelo lokunyamekela abantwana lenzeke ngexesha lokuphucula umntwana wam? Ngaba iimeko zendalo ziya kunika ithuba lokubuyisela elikhuselekileyo kunye nempilo?
- Ingaba umboneleli wokunakekela abantwana uzimisele ukusebenza kunye nokulimala kwaye uyaziva ekhululekile ukuba uya kukwazi ukuhlangabezana ngokwaneleyo ukhuseleko kunye neemfuno zezempilo zabo bonke abantwana abakhathaleleyo ngeli xesha?
- Ngaba ndikhululekile ukuba umboneleli wezononophelo lwezingane uya kuthanda kum umntwana wam njengoko ugqirha ugqirha wakhe? Nangona abazali bengayithanda umniki wabo kwaye bazive benethemba kwizakhono zabo zokunyamekela ngokubanzi, kufuneka bahlole ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ngaba umniki-mboleko unokubonelela ngokukhawuleza komlenze kunye nokukhwabanisa umlenze ophukile, umzekelo, ukuhambisa amayeza ngamaxesha afanelekileyo, kwaye uncede kunye nendawo yokuhlamba kunye nezinye iimfuno zokucoceka.
- Ingaba unonophelo losuku uya kuvumela umntwana owonzakeleyo ukuba athathe inxaxheba? Ezinye izakhiwo aziyi kuvumela umntwana ukuba ahambe ade ade ugqirha atyathele "ukulungele ukubuyela" kwinqununu.
- Ingaba kukho umniki-ekhaya onokunyamekela umntwana wam? Abanye ababoneleli bayazi ngababoneleli abanonophelo abafanelekileyo abaza ekhaya lakho ngexesha lokubuyisela. Nangona izinga liphezulu, lisavumela uxolo lwengqondo kubazali abasebenzayo.
Ukulungiselela iiNgxaki ezinokwenzeka
Ukunyamekela umntwana owonzakeleyo yinto eninzi iindwendwe ezingayilungiseleli, kodwa yinto efanelekileyo kubazali ukuba bacele abanikezeli bamanyango abangabantwana okanye amaziko okuqala emfundo ukuba imigaqo yabo yintoni nje xa kungalindelekanga.