Udliwano-ndlebe, ukhetho kunye nokuqeshisela umnakekeli wakho umntwana (ren) kungaba yinto edidekayo. Emva kokuba sele udlulileyo unyathelo lokuxoxisana nomntwana okanye umntwana kunye nokuziva unelisekile ngeempendulo, kubalulekile ukuba ungayigxina ibalulekileyo lokugqibela: ukujonga iingxelo. Nazi izinto ezibalulekileyo ezifunekayo ukuba uziqwalasele xa uqhuba isethenkethi ukuba ukhangele nabani na onokunyamekela umntwana wakho.
Ukunxibelelana nokubaluleka kweeKhenketho zoLwazi
Xa udliwano-ndlebe nomboneleli onakekelo lomntwana, nokuba ngaba ngumntwana osemtsha, utitshala womnxeba, okanye umfana, qiniseka ukuthetha ukuba unenjongo yokuqhuba isheke kunye neenzuzo ezixabisekileyo. Cela ulwazi loqhagamshelwano lwabaqashi okanye ezinye iindwendwe ezinabantwana ababengumntwana osebenza nabo ngaphambili. Oku kunceda "ukukhupha" nayiphi na inkxalabo phambi.
I-Impromptu Ingxoxo Neentsapho, Abahlobo, Abamelwane Bakulungile
Enye indlela iimeko zintsapho ngamanye amaxesha ezisebenzisa ukubuza malunga nomntu onokuncedisa umntwana okanye umntanki ukuba afune ukubuza malunga nokuba ngubani osebenzisa intsapho ethile, indlela ehamba ngayo, nokuba ingaba abantwana bayakuvuyela umniki wabo. Buza malunga naluphi na ukuthandwa kunye nokungathandeki, kwaye ulinganise ukuba ngaba iimpendulo zenza ukuba uphazamise okanye ume.
- Indlela yokukhetha i-Babysitter
- Ndingayifumana Njani Imigangatho Efanelekileyo KwiNkxaso Yomntwana Ekhaya?
Cela izinto
Sebenzisa izibhengezo zokuqinisekisa ubungqina bokuba umntwana wakho onokuthi ungumntwana. Qinisekisa iinkcukacha zengqesho, isihloko somsebenzi, unyaka esikolweni okanye xa uphumelele, kunye neminye imibuzo esekelwe kwimiba. Oku kunceda ukuqinisekisa inyaniso yesithenjwa, kwaye kuya kunceda uzive ungcono malunga ne-sitter yakho xa ukhetha ukuyisebenzisa.
Cela imizekelo ekhethekileyo yoNonophelo lwaBantwana
Buza nayiphi na ingcaciso inkcazo inokubonelela malunga nendlela umntwana ophethe ngayo ingxaki okanye imeko engacwangciswanga. Ukuba isalathisi ayinayo nayiphi na ingcaciso yokukhumbula, unokuzama ukubuza malunga nesimo sengqondo: "Ucinga ukuba uEmily wayenokusingatha njani imeko ukuba umntwana wam khathazeke edlala ngaphandle okanye ekhulisa ihudo?"
- Ubonakaliso Umntwana wakho weBabysitter nguLungile
- Ukukhetha Ukunyamekelwa koLuku lweMpilo oluQalisa nabazali Ukubuza imibuzo efanelekileyo
Jonga kwiimpawu zokuxwayisa
Ukuba isalathisi sinika kuphela iimpendulo ezimfutshane, sibonakala sikulungele ukuqeda ingxoxo, okanye ingacacile kwiimpendulo, siyalelwe. Mhlawumbi mhlawumbi, kukho ibali ngaphezu kwezinto ezinikezelwayo. Buza malunga nawaphi na amandla, ubuthathaka, iingxaki ezinokuba nazo okanye ukukhathazeka, kunye "nokulinganisa". Ukuba unemfuno ethile malunga nokuqeqesha, iindlela, ukhetho lokutya, njl., Unganqikazi ukubuza iingxelo malunga nale mimandla kunye nokubona ukuba ufumana uncedo olongezelelweyo.
Ungabi Nesaba Ukubuza malunga Neentlawulo
Kukulungele ukubuza ukuba umntu ohlawule umvuzo kangakanani, kodwa ungamangaliswa ukuba ibhenkce inqwenela ukuthetha. Ngethuba ngamanye amaxesha ulwazi luyaziwa okanye alukho umcimbi, abanye abantu bacinga ukuba umvuzo ube yinto yangasese phakathi kwamaqela.
Ukuba umntu uthe akuxelele, kunjalo, kukunceda ubeke isantya kunye nezingane zakho.
Ukuthembeka nokugwetywa
Ukunyaniseka ngokwexesha lokuhlala kwaye ukukhumbula rhoqo xa ukhethwe ngomsebenzi ziyimpawu zonke iintsapho zifuna kwaye zifuna kwi-sitter. Buza iingxelo ukuba ngaba umntu ubonisa ezi mpawu okanye ukuba kukho iindawo ezixhalabisa kule ndawo. Buza kwakhona ngesigwebo; Ngaba ubonisa isigwebo esilungileyo kwaye kukho nawuphi na umzekelo othize onokuthi ukhankanywe?
Yintoni Abantwana Abatshoyo?
Ukuba imeko ifanelekile, cela abantwana ukuba bacinge ntoni ngomntwana othile okanye utitshala oqala umntwana.
Emva koko, phu laphule ngokucokisekileyo iimpendulo zabo kunye nokuphendula kwabo okungabonakaliyo. Ngaba baxhamla ngegama lakhe? Nangona abantwana bebangafanelekanga ukuba baqeshwe i-sitter, imvume yabo okanye ukungavumelekanga komntu unokubonisa ukuba ngaba kukho konke okufanelekileyo nentsapho yakho.