Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuba Abe Nobuntu kwaye Ahloniphe, Ngaphandle Nangabe Abanye Abangabo.
Olunye lwezakhono ezibaluleke kakhulu abantwana kufuneka bafunde indlela yokungavumelani nabanye ngokuhlonipha. Abantwana abakhulileyo esikolweni basungula ukuzimela kwabo ngabanye kunye nokuzimela , baziyile izimvo zabo ngezinto, baze baqikelele into abayithandayo kwaye abayiyithandi. Kungokwemvelo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha bangaboni ngamehlo kwinto ethile nomhlobo , ilungu lentsapho, okanye nokuba ngumfundisi okanye umqeqeshi.
Ukuthetha ngokuphambili, kuhle ukuba abantwana bafunde ukwenza iimbono zabo kwaye bakwazi ukuveza iingcamango zabo neengcamango zabo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba kufuneka baveze ngendlela ehloniphekileyo, nokuba baxoxa ngezinto ezithile nabantu abadala okanye nabanye abantwana. Enyanisweni, ukukwazi ukwabelana ngokuzicotha ngeengcinga zakho nangona ziphikisana neminye imibono yabantu kukubonakalisa ukukhula. Xa ubona abantu abadala abakwazi ukwenza oku, babonakala bekhulile.
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- Gcina iliso kwinto ebonwa ngumntwana wakho xa ubukela iindaba, kwaye ujonge oko umntwana wakho akubona kwi-intanethi. Abezopolitiko kunye neepundits banokugxekwa ngabanye kwiTV. Abantu bangenza amazwana angcolileyo kwi-intanethi. Kubaluleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili ukuba abantwana namhlanje bafunde indlela yokugatya ukunyaniseka nokuxhatshazwa kwaye bakhethe intlonipho kunye noluntu.
- Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abe ngumphulaphuli omhle, kwaye qinisekisa ukuba ulolonga lo mkhuba ngokumnaka xa uthetha nawe. Ukuphulaphula kukubonakalisa intlonipho kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu esikolweni, nangona kamva ebomini. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba aphulaphule ngokwenene into athetha ngayo omnye umntu aze azame ukuqonda imbono yabo yokujonga, kwaye angacingi ngento engatshoyo xa bethetha.
- Thetha ngeziganeko ezikhoyo ngokuhlwa. Izidlo zeentsapho eziqhelekileyo zibalulekile kwimpilo yabantwana kunye nophuhliso kwaye zidibaniswe neziphumo ezintle ezifana nobungozi obuncinane bokunyanya ukuthoba, ukusebenza komfundi okungcono, kunye nokuzithoba. Kwakhona yithuba elihle labantwana ukuba bafunde ukuvakalisa izimvo zabo malunga noko kwenzekayo kwihlabathi nakubomi babo. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba akhulume ngeziganeko ezikhoyo (abantwana abakwiziko lesikolo bangaqala ukufunda iphepha okanye iphephancwadi leendaba zezingane njengexesha le-Kids ); incwadi ayifunayo; okanye into ayifunayo esikolweni. Ukutshintsha imibono, kwaye uhloniphe imibono yomnye nomnye.
- Makhe afunde ukujonga izinto kwiimbono zabanye. Le ngenye yezinto eziphambili zenceba , eboniswe ukuba ibalulekile ekuphumeleleni kwanezingane kamva ebomini. Xa abantwana beba nomkhwa wokuboni izinto ezivela kwabanye abantu, bafunda ukubona izinto ngendlela ecacileyo echanekileyo ("Ndichanile; niphumelele") kwaye unike ixabiso ezintweni, nangona bengavumelani nabo.
- Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale ethembekile kwienkolelo zakhe nangengcamango yakhe. Kungaba nzima ukuhamba ngendlela yakho xa abanye benza into eyahlukileyo. Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba abe nethemba, kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba ukuqinisekiswa kweengcamango zakho kunye neengcamango akuthethi ukuba uhlambele ezinye iimbono zabantu ukwenzela ukuba ube namandla-oko kukubonakalisa ukuzithemba kwimbono yakho.
- Qinisekisa ukuba uyaqonda ukuba izibhalo okanye ii-imeyile zisadingeka ukuba zihloniphe. Abantwana kunye nabantu abadala bahlala behlala kwizixhobo eziphathekayo namhlanje, kwaye unxibelelwano oluninzi luyenzeka nge-imeyile, imiyalezo kunye nemiyalezo esheshayo. Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba badinga ukuzithetha ngokuzithobayo kwezo ndawo. Fundisa abantwana ukuba bangaze bahlasele abanye iingcamango zabo kwaye bahlale bezama ukubona imbono yabo, njengokuba babeya kuthetha xa bekhuluma nabo.
- Akunakuze, nanini uhlambalaza umntu ngombono wabo. Xa ungavumelani kwiingcamango okanye iinkolelo okanye iingcamango, akufanele ufumane uqobo. Ukugxeka okanye ukubiza igama akufanele kube yinxalenye yoluphi na ingxoxo.