Iingcebiso zokuhamba ngezingane ngaphandle kokuxinezeleka

Masijamelane nayo. Ukuhamba kunye nezingane kungabanye "bawenza okanye baphule" ixesha ebomini bethu njengabazali xa sivavanya i-mettle yethu kwaye siyifumana into esenziwe ngayo.

Umntwana osikratshiweyo omhlophe okanye owe-squirmy. Iintsantrum zigqibile ngokukhala okanye ukukhala. Abagibeli kunye nabanye abadlulayo. Unamathuba apho, kwaye awulindele ukubuyela apho kwakhona.

Ngaba kukho nto ongayenza ukukhusela (okanye ukunciphisa ubuncinane) uxinzelelo lokubhabha nezingane? Ngaba unokwenza ube mnandi?

Impendulo ithi, "Ewe." Kwenene. Isibalulekileyo kukucwangcisa phambili. Phakamisa izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto zokunwa kwiindawo zokuhamba kwakho, kwaye ulungiselele abantwana bakho oko unokulindela. Nalu uluhlu olukhulu lwezinto zokuzenza ngaphambi kokuba wenze uhambo lwakho olulandelayo lwendiza luphumle, kwaye ludidekile, kwintsapho yonke.

1 -

Iincwadi zeMigangatho ndawonye

Xa wenza ukugcinwa kweenqwelo zeenqwelo zomoya, iincwadi zihlala ndawonye ukuze yonke intsapho yakho ihlale kwindawo enye kwaye ikhefu lakho lokungcebeleka rhoqo lezingane liphazamise abanye abagibeli. Abantwana bathanda ukujonga iifestile, ngoko kuzama ukubhala isihlalo sefestile xa kunokwenzeka.

2 -

Yakha Ngexesha Elide Lokufika kwi-Airport

Hayi, zihambe iintsuku zobungaphambi komzali xa unokuphosa iibhegi zakho kwieteksi kunye ne-zip kwisikhumulo sezindiza ngaphambi kokuba ubalekele. Esikhundleni sokuxinzezeleka ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwisikhumulo sezindiza kunye nentsapho yakho (enokuthi ichithe xa uhamba ngayo), zinike ixesha elininzi lokufika, ufumane ukhuseleko, uze ufike esangweni lakho. Khumbula, wenza izinto ngexesha lebhokhwe ngoku, ngoko ungakhohlwa ukuvumela ukuhamba kwabo okungalindelekanga, ukuthanda ukudlala imidlalo yevidiyo yasesikhumbuzo, kwaye ... kodwa siya kuthi apha, okanye awuyi kuze phantsi komhlaba.

3 -

Lungiselela Abantwana Bakho Ukukhuselwa Ngokhuseleko

Ukuba uhamba ngeentsimbi zokufumana izityebhe, uthabathe iibhatyi (kunye nabantwana abangaphezu kwe-12, izihlangu), ubeke izinto ezixabisekileyo kwibhanti kwaye uzibukele zinyamalale kwindawo eyimnyama, engaqondakali-konke kunokudideka kwaye kubenesabisayo kubantwana. Ngethamsanqa, ungayigcina ingenzeki. Kulungile ngaphambi kokuya esikhuphini, xelela abantwana bakho ukuba ulindele ntoni kwaye kutheni kuyimfuneko.

Gxi ninisa ukuba isheke sokhuseleko sisinyathelo esibalulekileyo ekubhenkeleni, kwaye uchaze ukuba ngabaphathi bezokuThuthwa koThutho (TSA) balapho ukuze bancede ukugcina wonke umntu ephephile emoyeni. Asikho isidingo sokubabethusa ngentetho yabantu abangabangela ingozi; Makuqiniseke kwaye ubonise ukuba ukhululekile ngokupheleleyo kwinkqubo yokukhusela.

4 -

Letha amanye amaFilimu

Ungacingi ukuba unendawo yekhompyutheni, i-iPad, okanye ezinye iifayili zokudlala i-movie ekuqhubeni kwakho? Cinga kwakhona. Uya kuvuyisa unayo. Ibhayisikobho efanelekileyo yezingane iyakwazi ukunyamekela ingqalelo yengane kwiyure nesiqingatha okanye ngaphezulu, oku kuthetha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba uve "Ndiyothuka!" ubuncinane loo nto. (Ngeenqwelo ezininzi, qiniseka ukuba ulayishe iifilimu ezininzi kwikhompyutheni yakho okanye kwi-iPad. Cinga umdlalo wevidiyo omninzi, kwakhona.) Qinisekisa ukupakisha i-earphone ukuze abanye abagibeli bangaphazamiseki.

5 -

UkuPakisha iincwadi zeMpahla kunye nezinye izinto eziQoqayo

Iincwadi zokubala, iikrayoni, iphepha lokudweba kunye namanqaku ziya kunceda ukugcina abantwana behlala xa bexhalabile ngokubukela iifilimu. Xa uphuma, khuthaza abantwana bakho ukuba bafake imifanekiso yezinto abafuna ukuzenza xa ufika kwindawo oya kuyo. Endleleni yokubuyela emuva, banokukrazula imifanekiso yezinkumbulo zabo ozithandayo zohambo okanye izinto abazilahlekanga kakhulu ngekhaya.

6 -

Musa ukulibala iincwadi

Yenza iincwadi ezincinane zezingane kunye, kokubhaliweyo nakwi-CD okanye kwi-iPod yakho, ebook okanye kwi-MP3 player. Umntwana omdala unokunandipha ukufunda incwadi ngokuthula; umntwana omncinci angakhetha ukuphulaphula i-audiobook. Ngandlela-thile, cinga ukukhetha into evuyisayo okanye eyenziwa ngokunyanzela ukuze umntwana wakho akwazi ukuhlala egxile kuyo ixesha elide.

7 -

Ukuzisa iNtsapho yohambo

Abahloli beehambo, i-chess, i-Scrabble, okanye nayiphi na umdlalo webhodi odibeneyo kwaye unamagqabi amaninzi (kuba iziqwenga ezincinane zemidlalo zingalahleka) ziphelele ukuhamba kwendiza. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba uMthetho kaMurphy usebenza kwiyiphi na indlela yokuhamba kunye nezingane, ukuzisa imidlalo ethile yokuzonwabisa yentsapho iya kukulungiselela ukuhlangabezana nokulibaziseka okungalindelekanga.

8 -

Iipaki zokutya

Umfundi wakho wesikolo angeke abe ngumntwana omdala omele adle zonke iiyure ezimbalwa, kodwa afune ukuba ulambile, untshontsho kwizandla zakho ukuba kukho na ukulibaziseka. Ukongezelela, ukuzisa ukutya okunokutya okuninzi okunjengamafutha e-fat-fat, iziqhumane kunye neziqhamo kunokukunceda ukuba ugweme i-fat-high-sugar-snacks ephakamileyo ukuba uya kufumana kufuphi namasango e-moya okanye unikezwe ngelo moya. (Khumbula ukuthenga ijusi kunye namanzi emva kokuba udlulise i-TSA ukukhangela ukususela ekubeni awukwazi ukuzisa utywala ngekhuseleko.)

9 -

Zile iLollipops okanye i-Gum

Ukuvakalelwa kweemvakalelo zakho "ezindlebeni ezivela" ngenxa yengcinezelo yomoya ngethuba lokukhutshwa kunye nokuhla kwezinto kunokuphazamiseka ngokwaneleyo kubantu abadala-cinga nje ukuba ungaziva njani ngomntwana. Ku no kubuhlungu. Ukunciphisa ukungonakali, qiniseka ukuba ufake i-lollipops okanye enye i-candy elukhuni ukuze abantwana bakho bancede kunye / okanye i-gum ukuba bahlakulele ngexesha lokukhutshwa kunye nokufika.

10 -

Lungiselela Umntwana Wakho Ngexesha Elizimeleyo

Ngaphandle kokwethusa, lungiselela umntwana ukuba wenze ntoni xa uthe wahlukana: Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi igama lakhe elipheleleyo, idilesi, kunye nenombolo yocingo yekhaya, kwaye xelela umntwana ukuba abuze umfazi onomntwana ukuba ancede xa ku funeka.

Indlela efanelekileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho ukhuselekile kwiindawo eziphakamileyo eziphakamileyo ezifana neesikhumulo sezindiza akuyi kumvumela ukuba akhuphe. Gxininisa kumntwana wakho ukuba angalulazi ngaphandle koMama okanye uTata. (Oko kuya kusebenzisa iindawo zokuhlambela zikarhulumente kwiindawo zee-airports.) Ukuba uhamba wedwa nomntwana wesini esahlukileyo, sebenzisa indlu yokugcina indlu.