Iimpawu eziza kuqinisa umzali wakho nomzali wabantwana

Njengabaphi ubudlelwane, uxhamlo phakathi komzali nomntwana lunokuqiniswa ngemikhwa ethile engabandakanywa kalula kwiindlela zakho zemihla ngemihla.

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Ukutya kunye

Umzimba ophandeleleyo wophando ubonise ukudibanisa phakathi kokutya rhoqo kunye nezingane kunye nokwanda okwenziweyo kwintlalo ephuculweyo njengenempilo engcono kunye nokutya; izakhono ezingqongqo, ezingqondweni, nezentlalo; ukuziphatha okuphuculweyo; kunye nokusebenza okungcono kwezemfundo.

Nangona awukwazi ukufumana ixesha lokutya kunye nobusuku, cwangcisa ukutya kwentsapho xa unako, njengokuba unakho. Ukuba iimpawu zakho zeveki zixutywe ngeeyure ezisekupheleni kweofisi okanye kwimisebenzi yecandelo elithile, usenokufumana izisombululo, ezifana nokutya kwasekuseni okanye ukutyhulwa kunye. Isitshixo kukuba ukondla intsapho, uthethe ngemini, kwaye uhlale uxhulumene nezingane zakho.

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Ukuthetha Ngomhla Wakho

Ngethuba lokuhlwa, ixesha lokulala lihle ithuba lokufumana abantwana bakho malunga nosuku. Unokubabuza imibuzo eya kubabangela ukuba baphendule ngokucacileyo, njengokuthi "Yintoni eyona nto ingcono kunayo yonke imini yakho?" okanye "Yintoni eyona nto eyona nto ibaluleke kunayo yonke eyenzeka namhlanje?"

Emva koko qiniseka ukuba uthethe ngemini yakho , kwaye wabelane ngeenkcukacha ezifana neyona nto uyiqhayiya ngayo ukufikelela ngaloo mini okanye yintoni ingxaki onokuyenza kunye nendlela uceba ukuyicombulula ngayo. Ngokwabelana ngento ethile ngawe, ubonisa umntwana wakho ukuba uyamxabisa njengomntu kwaye uzive usondele kuye ukuba uxolele kuye, kwaye uqinise uxanduva lwakho kwaye umbonise ukuba ubalulekile kuwe .

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Ukudlala Ndawonye

Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokubambisana nabantwana bakho kukuzonwabisa kunye. Phuma ngaphandle kwaye ugibele ibhayisikili kunye okanye ukukhaba ibhola yebhola. Okanye uthathe umdlalo webhodi yeentsapho ezonwabileyo (yenza kube yimfundo ukuba ufuna ukufumana into eya kubacebisana nabo ngokucacileyo) kwaye ubakhuthaze ukuba basebenze kwizakhono zentlalo kunye nokuziphatha okulungileyo , njengokufunda indlela yokuba ngumninimzi onomusa okanye olahlekileyo, ngelixa u nwabisa.

Lo msebenzi awunandaba nantoni na ukuba wenza into ejabulisayo kunye. Unokwenza izinto zokuzonwabisa okanye uzipheke okanye upheke ezinye izinto kunye, okanye ubukele kwaye "ubuyekeze" ifilimu enkulu yabantwana . Yenza into endiyolisayo kunye nokudibanisa ngenkathi uyenza, njengokuba uthanda kunye neqabane lakho okanye umhlobo omhle.

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Cuddling!

Ukuqhawula nokukhupha akuyona nje indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana nomntwana wakho kunye nokuqinisa umtshato wakho nomntwana, kodwa uphando lubonisa ukuba lunokunciphisa iimeko zakho zokugula. Ngoko ke makhe umazi wakho ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani ngeentlungu ezininzi kulo lonke usuku, kwaye uya kukukhula ngokukhawuleza!

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Ukuhlonipha - nokulindela okufanayo

Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana banokudumala, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo bangenza iimpazamo. Kodwa abazali bafanele bahlale bekhumbula ukuba ukuphatha abantwana ngokuhlonipha kubaluleke kakhulu njengento yokuqeqesha abantwana . Nangona umntwana wakho wenza into efuna ukuba umqeqeshe, ungathetha naye ngendlela ezolile kunye nothando. Ukumemezela okanye ukusebenzisa ijelo zomntu kuboniswe ukuba akusebenzi nje kuphela, kodwa kunokulimaza umgangatho wobudlelwane bakho nomntwana wakho.

Kananjalo ukhumbuze abantwana ukuba bathi "Ndiyabonga" kwaye "Nceda" kwaye wenze okufanayo kunye nezingane zakho. Imilinganiselo enhle ayifanele ibe yinto oyisebenzisayo ngaphandle kwekhaya - ukuphatha omnye ngenhlonipho kunye neentlonipho akayikukuzondeza kuphela, kodwa iya kwenza ikhaya lakho libe yindawo enomdla kakhulu.

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Ukuvumela abantwana ukuba bancede

Abantwana ngokwemvelo bathanda ukuba luncedo, kwaye xa ubapha imisebenzi kunye noxanduva, ukhulisa ukuzithemba kwabo kwaye bazive bazixabiseke. Batsho ukuba banomsebenzi omhle okwenzayo, kwaye uxabisa kangakanani uncedo lwabo. Kungekuphela nje kuya kukusondeza kunye, kodwa kuya kunceda abantwana bakho bakhule babe ngabantu abanentembelo nabanobubele abathanda ukunceda abanye .

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Ukubonisa Umntwana Wakho Uthando Lusuku

Ukwenza izinto ezincinci imihla ngemihla ukuba ubonise umntwana wakho ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani , njengokuba ubhala inqaku kwaye uyifake kwi-bhokisi yakhe yokudla kwasekuseni okanye uceba izinto ezenzelwe ukuzenza ngeveki okanye ubeke ingqalelo yakho ngokupheleleyo xa uthetha, unokukwenza umahluko kumgangatho wobudlelwane bakho nomntwana wakho. Bonisa umntwana wakho imihla yonke ukuba uthetha ntoni kuwe kwaye uya kwenza into ekuqiniseni ubophelelo phakathi kwakho nomntwana wakho kwaye uwenze ube ngonaphakade kwaye ungatshintshi.

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