Kutheni ukunceda ngemisebenzi yasendlini kulungile kumfundi wakho wesikolo
Kukho inzuzo eninzi yokunika imisebenzi yabantwana ukuba bayenze kwindlu. Nangona kunokuba lula ukukwenza imisebenzi yendlu yakho-ingakumbi xa kuthatha amahlanu amaxesha ukude uchaze ukuba uneminyaka engama-5 ubudala kufuneka wenze ntoni, kwaye uyayijonga xa eyenzayo-inyaniso kukuba Ukunceda ngemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla kubalulekile ekuphuhlisweni komntwana wakho.
Fumana imisebenzi eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho kwisigaba esithile sokuphuhliswa (ezinye ziza kuba zilungele abantwana abancinci ngelixa abanye beza kuba bafezekileyo kubantwana abadala ukuba balwe nabo ngokwabo) kwaye benze ishedyuli kunye nenkqubo eya kusebenza yakho umntwana.
Kutheni Ukunikezela Kwezingane Zingabakulungela
Imisebenzi emincinci eneminyaka emi-5 ubudala enokuyenza kuyo yonke indlu ingabonakali ngathi ininzi, kodwa iyakwazi ukufundisa umntwana wakho izifundo ezibalulekileyo eziza kuqhubeka kwiminyaka elishumi elineshumi nangaphezulu. Ngethuba umfundi wakho wesikolo uneminyaka engama-9 okanye eyi-10 ubudala ubudala, unako ukwenza igalelo elikhulu kwimisebenzi yasendlini. Eminye imizekelo yeendlela iindlela zokusebenza ezinokunceda ngayo abantwana:
- Ukunikezela ngemisebenzi yabantwana kungakha ukuzithemba . Ukufumana umsebenzi kunye nokwenza kakuhle kunokunika umntwana wakho ingqiqo enkulu yokufezekisa. Iimfucu zamaneminyaka engama-7 kwaye zihlambulule umgangatho nganye ngeveki ngee-microfiber cloth. Ngamanye amaxesha uyayikrokra xa engekho kwimoya yokwenza umsebenzi, kodwa udla ngokungena kuwo xa eqala. Kwakhuthaza nokuzimela ngenxa yokuba wenza umsebenzi omhle ngokwakhe. Kwaye ukhangeleka ukwaneliseka kwakhe xa ebhekene neengxube zobuncwane:
- Ukunika imisebenzi yabantwana inokufundisa ukubaluleka kokugqiba umsebenzi obelwe wona. Oku kuya kuba luncedo xa umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye enemisebenzi ethile esikolweni nakwikhaya.
- Ukunika imisebenzi yabantwana kunokugxininisa ukubaluleka kokugcina izinto zicocekile kwaye zihleliwe. Kulula ukufumana izinto-kwaye ucinge ngokucacileyo-xa imeko yakho ingenanto encinci. Ukufumana umntwana wakho kumkhwa wokuba uqoke rhoqo emva kokuba uyindlela enhle yokuba ungakhethi kuphela umgaqo oqhelekileyo oya kumnceda ubomi bakhe bonke, kodwa uya kukunceda uhlale unqamle indlu yakho kwaye wenze ehleliweyo kunye noxolo.
- Ukunika imisebenzi yabantwana inokubeka umzekelo wokuncedisa indlu. Emva kokuba ufumana umntwana wakho kumkhwa wokuhlala ekhaya, uya kuba yinxalenye yobomi bakhe obuya kuqhubeka kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo nangaphezulu.
- Ukunika imisebenzi yezingane kungamnika ingqiqo yokuba yinxalenye yeqela "leqela". Xa unyana wam ebuza ukuba kutheni enze umsebenzi, ndichaza ukuba inxalenye yentsapho, kwaye wonke umntu osentsapho kufuneka enze isabelo sakhe. Ngokumnika "sonke silapha kule ndlela" yokujonga izinto, unokubona umsebenzi wakhe njengenxalenye yento enkulu. Kananjalo akakwazi ukubona imisebenzi yasekhaya njengento ekhethiweyo kwaye unyanzelekile ukuba enze okokuba wonke umntu usebenza kunye.