Ukuba ngumzali ngokwakho akulula. Enoba uqale nje kulolu hambo okanye ube ngumzali wedwa kwithuba elithile ngoku, kuya kuba namaxesha anzima xa ufuna i-dose eyongezelelweyo yoncedo nenkxaso. Xa ezo zihlandlo zifika, kubalulekile ukwazi apho ukuphendulela uncedo lwezemali olusekelwe kwiimfuneko. Nantsi imithombo engama-7 yoncedo kumama abangatshatanga, kuquka ucediso lukaRhulumente.
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Inkxaso yoMntwanaMasijamelane nayo. Awukwazi ukukhawuleza ukucinga ngenkxaso yenkxaso njengomntwana njengomthombo woncedo kumama abangatshatanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iintlawulo azihambelani okanye azifiki. Kodwa ke kutheni oku kungumthombo obalulekileyo woncedo ekuqwalaseleni: kufuneka ufake ifowuni yokuxhaswa kwabantwana ngaphambi kokuba urhulumente aqwalasele ukuba ufanelekile yini enye imithombo yoncedo kumama abangatshatanga. Ilungile lo nto. Benza ukuba uhambe ngeemeko, nangona u-ex wakho akakwazi ukufumaneka okanye akasesikhundleni sokuncedisa ngemali. Oku kungenxa yokuba urhulumente ufuna i-ex yakho ibe negalelo kwizezimali phambi kwamanyathelo karhulumente kwaye uthabathe inkunkuma. Ngoko ukuba ucinga ukufaka uncedo loncedo loluntu, uya kufuneka ufake ifowuni yokuxhaswa kwabantwana okokuqala okanye ngexesha elifanayo.
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Abahlobo kunye NentsaphoXa unesidingo sonyango, ungawunaki abantu abakufutshane nawe. Kungenzeka ukuba, abahlobo kunye nosapho bakho bafuna ukukubona uphumelele kwaye baya kukulungele ukunceda ngandlela-thile. Oku kunokuba kukukunceda ukuba ufikelele kwisigxina semali esesikhashana njengokuba uhlawule imoto okanye ukulungiswa kwekhaya olungalindelekanga okanye ngokunceda ukunyamekela abantwana bakho xa usenza umsebenzi wesibini okanye unqande ukunyamekela abantwana. Yaye ukuba unomzali onokubambisana naye, khumbula ukuba banokungena kwaye banikele ngononophelo olongezelelweyo kubantwana xa usebenza iiyure ezimbalwa ezongezelelweyo.
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Imibutho yoluntuIicawa zendawo, imibutho yonqulo, kunye nemibutho yoluntu inokukwazi ukubonelela ngoncedo lwexeshana okanye ukunika iinkonzo ezongezelelweyo kwindawo yakho. Kwiimeko ezininzi, akudingeki ukuba ube ilungu lenhlangano ethile ukufumana uncedo lwabo.
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Izidlo zokutyaEnye imithombo yenkxaso yinkonzo yakho yokutya yokutya. Ezi zibizwa nangokuthi 'iibhanki zokutya.' Basebenza ngokubonelela iziqu ezifana ne-pasta, ilayisi, imifuno enamathanga, kunye nezinye izinto zangasese. Kwiimeko ezininzi, iibhanki zokutya zikhawulelwe kwimpahla engabonakaliyo, kodwa ezinye zinika ubisi namaqanda. Kwaye ngeenxa zonke zeeholide, banokunikela neengqungquthela ezinqabileyo okanye iifetri. Okugqwesileyo kubo bonke, banokukwazi ukukunceda nangona sele uxelelwe ukuba 'ufumana imali eninzi' ukuze ufanele ufumane uncedo lukarhulumente. Ukutya kweentlobo kudla ukuba nezixhobo ezinxulumene kakuhle, ngoko banako ukukukhomba kwezinye iindawo zokunceda unomama ongatshatanga kwindawo yakho.
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TANFI-TANF imele uNcedo lwexeshana kwiiMindeni ezihluphekileyo. Le yinkqubo eyayisetyenziselwa ukubizwa ngokuthi 'inhlalakahle.' Ngenye yeendlela eziqhelekileyo zenkxaso karhulumente kunomama ongatshatanga. Nangona kunjalo, urhulumente utshintshe imithetho yokufaneleka ukufuna ukuba abathathi-nxaxheba basebenze ixesha elide okanye babonise ukuba ufuna umsebenzi. Nangona uphelelwe i-TANF ngaphambili, ingaba yinto efanelekileyo yokufaka isicelo kwakhona.
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WICPhakathi kweenzuzo zoluntu zomama ongatshatanga, i-WIC-ejongene nabaseTyhini, iintsana kunye nabantwana-yenye yezona zikhulu kakhulu. Yisisondlo sokuncedisa ukutya kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo njengamanje, abanesihlengikazi, okanye abakhulisa abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emihlanu. Ukuba uhlangabezana neziqinisekiso eziphambili, kufuneka usebenzise i-WIC ukufumanisa ukuba uhlangabezana neemfuno zemfundo-siseko, .
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Ukudayela 2-1-1Ukongezelela kule nkqubo, kukho imithombo yendawo yokuncedisa ama-moms angatshatanga. Ukuze ufikelele kule ndawo, zama ukubiza i-hotline yesi-2-1-1 yendawo. Cacisa nje umsebenzisi ukuba unjani uncedo oluyidingayo kwaye kuthi, ukuba kukho, uncedo osufumene ngalo. Bangakwazi ukukukhomba kwinani leenkqubo kwindawo yakho, ukusuka kwiiklasi zokubeletha kunye neenkqubo zokufunda nokubhala ngemali kwiimeko zeMihla yoSuku kwi-state yakho.