Ukusebenza koMama kunokuphatha njani abantwana babo

Emva komhla opheleleyo eofisini, oomama baya ekhaya ukuya kwiiyure ezisibhozo (okanye ngaphezulu) emsebenzini wokukhulisa abantwana nokulawula ikhaya. Kwanamama omsebenzi abalingani ababandakanya imisebenzi yabo ngokulinganayo banokuvakalelwa. Apha asebenza amathiphu-ahlolwe ngumama wokukhanyisa umthwalo nokulawula intsapho yakho ngokufanelekileyo.

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Iindlela zokuPhucula izakhono zobuzali bakho

Abantwana bakho abazange bafike ngencwadi yokufundisa eyakuxelela ngokulula kwaye kulula ukuba lo msebenzi wonke uza kwenziwa njani. Uwumsebenzi owufunda ngenkathi ukwenza. Kodwa ngaba nabazali ababalaseleyo banendawo yokuphucula. Ukuba ufuna ukuba ngumzali ongcono kakhulu, zama ukuphucula izakhono zobuzali usebenzisa ezo zixhobo kunye namacebo.

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Izindlela zokwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya ixhamle abantwana

ImiSebenzi yincinci yobomi bentsapho, kwaye akufanele ibe ngumthwalo wemfanelo kubazali. Ukuba unokwenza imisebenzi eyonwabile ngakumbi kubantwana bakho, wonke umntu uya kuba nomthwalo ogqithiseleyo ukuyenza. Ezi ngcebiso ziza kunceda ukunciphisa ukungafuni ukwenza imisebenzi eqhelekileyo. Emva koko uya kuba nexesha elide lokuchitha kunye kunye nokudlala, ukuthetha kunye nokuzonwabisa ngokutya ngaphandle kokuhlambuluka. Uza kuba nexesha elithile ukwenza ezinye izinto ofuna ukuzenza njengokufunda incwadi enhle okanye ukulala ekuqaleni.

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Indlela yokuphuhlisa ingqondo efanelekileyo malunga nomsebenzi wesikolo

Umsebenzi wesikolo unomsebenzi omkhulu emva kokufunda esikolweni kwaye ungagqiba ukwesaba njengoko wakho umntwana. Nantsi indlela yokumisela indawo yokufunda kunye nemikhwa ukuze umntwana wakho abe nemveliso emsebenzini wakhe wesikolo.

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Ncedisa Umfundi wakho weSikolo soPhakathi

Xa umntwana wakho efika esikolweni esiphakathi, ukufumana nokuhlala uhleli kubaluleke kakhulu. Esikolweni esiphakathi, umntwana wakho akasayi kuba nedeski enye kunye nomfundisi omnye. Baya kulufuna inqanaba elitsha lombutho ukuguqula amakilasi emini, ukugcina umkhondo wesikolo, kwaye usebenzisa i-locker.

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Ncedisa Umfundi wakho weSikolo esiphakamileyo

Abafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo banembopheleleko kunanini ngaphambili ekuphuhliseni imikhuba emihle yokufunda kunye nezakhono zobuthabathi abaya kuthatha nabo kwiikholeji nakwihlabathi elisebenzayo. Nantsi indlela yokubanceda ukuba bakhe ezo zakhono.

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Iinkonzo kunye neNgxaki yoNyango ngamnye wokuNakekela abantwana

Unokukhethwa kweendlela ezininzi zokunakekelwa kwabantwana, ngasinye sinamathuba kunye neengxaki. Nantsi indlela yokuziqhathanisa ukuze uhlolisise enye enye ukuze uqinisekise ukuba yintoni eyilungeleyo intsapho yakho.

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Imibuzo ebalulekileyo yokubuza isikhungo seNtloko seNtloko

Uyakucinga ukujonga umgama ukusuka ekhaya kunye nomsebenzi, iiyure zokusebenza, iindleko, iinkqubo, kunye neenketho zemfundo ezayo xa ukhetha isikhungo sezononophelo lweentsana. Nazi ezinye iimbuzo ekufuneka uzibuze xa uxoxa nabaqeshwa kunye nomlawuli.

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Izindlela Zokuyeka Ukulahlekelwa Ngumntwana Wakho Ngoxa Usebenza

Ewe, uya kuphinda ulahle umntwana wakho xa ubuyela emsebenzini. Leyo yinxalenye kunye nenxalenye yokuba ngumama. Kodwa ungasebenzisa ezi ziphakamiso ukuba usebenze nomboneleli wakho wokunyamekela ukugcina unxibelelwano luvulekile yonke imini kwaye unciphise abanye uxhalaba lwakho.

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Izindlela Zokunceda Ukuhlukana Ukuxhalabisa

Ukuxhalabisa ukuxhatshazwa kunokuhlaselwa nayiphi na inqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwabantwana. Iintsana kunye nabantwana abaselula banokukhathazeka gqitha xa uwayeka ekuhlaleni. Nangona abantwana abadala banokumelana nokunyamekela emva kokufunda esikolweni okanye isidingo sokuba nomntwana wobusuku bakho beveki. Nazi iindlela zokuphucula izithethe eziduduzayo zokunciphisa iingxaki zabo.

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Iindlela zokunciphisa iindleko zokuNakekela abantwana bakho

Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana yindleko enkulu kwiintsapho ezininzi kwaye ingaba yinto enkulu kwibhajethi yakho. Nazi iindlela zokunciphisa iindleko zokunakekela abantwana.

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