Ingqwalaselo yabantwana abaselula
Ngaba ezo zimbini ziloyike ngokwenene? Umncinane wesigaba sinokuzama kubazali, kodwa kuyonwabile kwaye kunomvuzo-umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka nokuphuhlisa ngokomoya, ukuqonda, kunye noluntu, okwenza babe nolwazi kunye nokulangazelela ukuphonononga, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, banamathele kwimida yokuvavanya.
Umncinane wesiteji ubizwa ngokuba igama elithi "toddling," indlela abantwana abahamba ngayo xa beqala ukufunda ukuhamba. Kwakuthiwa ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa "ezimbini ezimbi." Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabazali kunye neengcali zithatha isigaba esincinci ukuba sibheke ngokukhawuleza ukususela kwixesha elide ukuya kwelinye-ububanzi obubanzi ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhlisweni kwabantwana.
Unokulindela inkqubela yomntwana wakho ukususela ebusaneni ngeminyaka emncinci ukuya kwiminyaka yokufundela ukubandakanya ubuninzi beenguqulelo. Kwaye, ngelixa iinqwelwe zingenakucacisa ukuhamba, umntwana wakho uya kutshintsha (kwaye ahambe) ngokukhawuleza.
Nazi ezinye izinto omele uzigcine engqondweni njengoko uzama ukuhambisana nomncinane wakho:
EziPhambili
Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba abantwana bahlakulela ukuhamba kwabo-akukho mfuneko yokuba babanjwe kwixesha elide kunye nezigaba.
Kwaye umntwanantwana wakho ungumthombo omkhulu xa unemibuzo ethile malunga nomntwana wakho.
Nangona kukho uluhlu lwezinto ezithathwa ngokuba "ziqhelekileyo" zophuhliso ngexesha leminyaka emancinci, kukho imoto engavamile, imoto efanelekileyo, ulwimi, izentlalo kunye nezakhono zengqondo abazali abanokuzilindela ukubona abantwana bekhula kule minyaka emncinci. Ukuqonda oko kwenzekayo ngokuphuhliswayo kunokukunceda ukuxhasa izakhono ezintsha zomntwana kwaye ulawule ukukhupha nokukhupha okungenakukuphepha.
Ngethuba leminyaka emibini, wakho omncinci uya kuhamba ngokuthatha amanyathelo ambalwa okuzama ukuqhuba, ukuxumla, kunye nokuhamba ngokulungelelanisa; ngokusebenzisa amagama ambalwa ukuba abe nesigama esibanzi (kwaye uthetha isiphepho); kunye nokukwazi ukugxila kwimigangatho emithathu okanye ngaphantsi ukufumana ingqwalasela eyongeziweyo evulela umnyango kuzo zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi emitsha encinane.
Imisebenzi
Kwabancinci, umdlalo usebenza. Isenzo esilula sokudlala sinceda abancinci ukuba baqhubeke nokuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi, bafunde imigaqo ebalulekileyo njengemibala kunye nenani, kwaye baxhobise izakhono ezifana nokuxazulula ingxaki, ukucinga okucwangcisekileyo, ubuchule kunye nokunye.
Amathoyizi Abantwana abathathu nangaphantsi
Umntwana osematasa uhlala ehamba kwaye ugcina unomdla kwaye ugxile kunokuba nzima. Njengoko inkwenkwe yengane yakho iya kwanda kwaye ukuziphatha kwabo kuya kuba nokuqikelela kwaye kulawulwa, uya kufumana amaninzi amathuba okuzama imisebenzi emitsha.
Imisebenzi eyahlukileyo, kokubili kunye neqela, nayo iyindlela enhle yokunceda umntwana wakho ukufunda amakhono amasha, ukongeza isakhiwo kumhla womntwana wakho, ukunyusa izakhono eziphambili kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo kunye nokuxhasa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo.
Abantwana abaqhelekileyo bafuna ukwazi, okwenza le nqanaba libe lixesha eligqibeleleyo kubafundi abathile nabafundi. Ukusuka kwibhola ukuya kwi-yoga, ulwimi lwangaphandle kwezobugcisa, kunye nomculo ukunyakaza, kukho into ebantwaneni bonke.
Iiklasi zokubhalisa umntwana wakho
Ukuba imisebenzi ehleliweyo ayiyona into yakho (okanye ayinikezwa kwingingqi yakho), kukho ubuninzi ongayenza nomntwana wakho ekhaya nakwimida yakho.
Kubalulekile ukubandakanya umdlalo omningi kunye nokuzivocavoca umzimba kumntwana wakho omncinci.
NgokweMbutho kaZwelonke wezeMidlalo kunye neMfundo yezeMzimba, abancinci kufuneka bafumane ubuncinci imizuzu engama-30 yomsebenzi wokwenza umsebenzi ngamnye ngosuku kunye neyure eyongezelelweyo okanye ngaphezulu komsebenzi ongasetyenziswanga. Le mi sebenzi ayifanele ibe nzima-ukuchitha ixesha epakini okanye ukuthabatha umntanakho ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kummandla onokukhetha.
Eminye kwimisebenzi yePhysical for Toddlers
Ukutya kunye nexesha lokutya
Ngoku ukuba umntwana wakho angadla ukutya okufanayo unako (kunye nezinye izinto), ixesha lokuba uqale ugxininiso ekuncediseni ukutya okunempilo, okunempilo. Isithuba esincinane sixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzisa umntwana wakho ukutya okutsha, ukudala imikhuba enempilo, kwaye uncede bafunde indlela yokuzondla ngokwabo.
Oko Kufuneka Ube Nondla Umntwana Wakho
Ngelishwa, ngelixa abantwana abaselula banomdla kwixesha lokudla, akuqhelekanga ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukukhetha ukutya okanye bahambe kwisigaba esikhethiweyo.
Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana izondlo ezaneleyo, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokwesaba. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ngelixa umntwana wakho encinci engala ukudla isidlo sakusihlwa, mhlawumbi sele efumana ubuninzi beekhalori. Enyanisweni, i-American Academy ye-Pediatricians ithi isikhokelo esihle samanqanaba omncinci omncinci kukuba kufuneka alingane malunga nekota yesilinganiso somntu omdala.
Ukujamelana Nezidlo eziziTywayo
Ukuvumela ukuba umntwana wakho onokuzimela ngokwengeziwe ngexesha lokutya kunokunceda ukunciphisa ixesha lokutya kunye nokulahlwa kokutya. Abafundi bafunda ngokulinganisa umama noyise-kwaye ukutya akufani.
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Ukulala
Nangona abantwana abaselula balala ubusuku, imiba yokulala ayinto engaqhelekanga kwaye abanye abantwana abaselula bavuka ebusuku. Ukungabikho kokulala kungakhokelela ekubeni umntwana onqabileyo aze aphephe ngokubanzi. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho usasafuna ukufikelela kwiiyure eziyi-15 zokulala ngosuku, ngoko kubalulekile ukuba unamathele kwisimiso esineenkomfa ezininzi kunye nexesha lokulala kwasekuqaleni.
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Ukuba Uyahlukana, Yilokho Okumele Uthi Kubantwana Bakho
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Indlela Yokuthetha Nabantwana NgamaGuns ngokusebenzisa iiAgesi
Indlela yokuLawula i-Nap Strike
Isiteji esincinane sichaza ngokuquka ukuguquka kokulala ebhedeni ukuze ulale ebhedini lebhokhwe enkulu, nakuba abazali bengazivumi ukunyanzeliswa ukuba benze utshintsho kwiminyaka ethile. Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhululekile kwisibhedlele, asikho isizathu sokubahambisa kude bade bekhulile.
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Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo
Amagama amabini abetha ukwesaba ezintliziyweni zabazali abancinci yonke indawo-ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi. Ukuqeqeshwa kwamathambo kuyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kubantwana abaselula kwaye, ngelixa kunzima kubazali, abaninzi abanomama nabagadi bajonge phambili kubomi be-diapers.
I-Trainty Train kwiintsuku ezintathu
Ukunyanzela umntwana kwisitimela samanzi ngokukhawuleza kunokubuya. Uninzi lweendlela zokuqeqesha ngamathambo ziphumo, kodwa ezi zinto azisebenzi ngaphandle kokuba umntwana wakho ekulungele. Kukho iinkalo ezibalulekileyo zokuphuhlisa umntwana wakho ukuba afike phambi kokuba uqalise ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi kwaye kufuneka uqwalasele nokuba ingaba umntanakho unenomdla kumbindi ukuqala.
Ingaba Umntwana Wakho Ulungele Ukuqeqeshwa Kwamathambo
Emva kokuba uzimisele ukuba umntwana wakho ulungele ukucima i-diapers, qiniseka ukuba uzixhobile ngegosa elifanelekileyo ukuze uyenze umsebenzi.
Ukulungiswa
Abantwaba baziwa kakhulu ngokuvavanya imida kunye nomama noyise. Ukuqeqesha abantwana basenokukhungathekisa kubazali kuba abantwana abaselula abakwazi ukuthetha ngokuthe rhoqo ukuba kutheni baphosisa okanye baqonde ngokucacileyo oko benzayo. Kwaye, kuba abantwana abaselula bafunda indlela yokusebenzisana nabanye, bafuna ukuqeqeshwa okunceda ekufundiseni ukuziphatha ngendlela efanele.
Amacandelo okuLawula abantwana
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba umntwana osenokuba ngumsindo okanye ukungahambi kakuhle ngenxa yezinto ezininzi, kuquka ukudinwa, ukulamba, ukukhungatheka, okanye utshintsho kwisimo okanye ishintsho enkulu. Abazali kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba kutheni umntwana omncinci enomsindo, kungekhona nje ukugxila kwingqeqesho.