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Ingqwalaselo yezemidlalo yabantwana

Xa kuziwa kwimisebenzi yangexesha elithile, akunakukwazi ukubetha imidlalo yezingane.Ukuzibandakanya iqela lezemidlalo, okanye ukhuphisana ngabanye, kunceda umntwana wakho ahlale esebenzayo, asebenze kwaye afunde ukuzonwabisa kwezemidlalo , ukuphucula izakhono zentlalo kunye nokugxininisa, kunye nokuphucula umdlalo onokuzonwabisa yobomi bonke.

Kodwa akusiyo yonke imidlalo eyenziwe ilinganayo. Ukumelana nomntwana wakho ngokufanelekileyo, cinga ubungakanani babo, ubudala, izakhono, ubuchule, kwaye ngaphezu kwakho konke, umdla.

Ukuba banentliziyo yabo kwi-hockey ye-ice, abayi kuvuyela kunye nomqeqeshi onomdla kunye neentente ze-volleyball.

Ezi ngxelo zezemidlalo ziyakunceda ufunde kabanzi ngezemidlalo ethile, kubandakanywa xa abantwana beqala, yiziphi izakhono abaya kuzifuna, bangakanani abazakufumana ukuzisebenzisa, ziziphi iintlobo zengozi yokulimala abaza kujamelana nayo, ziphi uhlobo lwezixhobo abaza kuzifuna, kwaye (kubalulekile ukuba abazali balungiselele oko) ukuba balindele ngokwemiqathango kunye nokuzibophelela kwexesha.

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• Ukuhlaselwa
• Badminton
• Ibhola kunye ne-softball
• Ngebhayisekile
• Yezemidlalo
• Ibhola
• Ihokhi yomkence
• Ukuqaqa
• Powerlifting
• Ukukhwela ilitye
• Ukukhwela
• Lebhola
• Ukuzonwabisa kwemidlalo
• Ukubhukuda nokudilika
• Ukusanda
• Ukubhukuda okuhambelanayo

Ewe, kukho imidlalo emininzi yezemidlalo ngaphandle kwezingane ukuba akukho nto ingentla ifanelekileyo kumntwana wakho. Khawuqwalasele i-bowling, i-cheerleading, i-gymnastics, umdaniso, uhambo oluphambene nomhlaba, umkhondo kunye nentsimi, ucingo, ubugcisa bokulwa, i-hockey, umbhoxo wombhoxo, i-lacrosse, ukukhwela okanye ukuhamba ngomkhumbi, ukukhwela i-lacrosse okanye i-snowboarding, igalofu, i-tennis (nakwietafile ye-tennis! , i-volleyball, i-polo yamanzi, okanye ukulwa.

Izinzuzo

Ukubeka nje, imidlalo ifundisa ezinye izifundo zokuphila ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye, njenge & indlela yokuphumelela ngomusa, indlela yokulahlekelwa ngomusa, nokuba njani ukuba ngumdlali weqela.

Abadlali bezemidlalo bafunda ukuhlonipha nokubonisa. Bafunda ukuba babekho iinkokeli kunye nabalandeli. Kwaye babeka iinjongo, bazisombulule iingxaki, bafake umsebenzi omningi kunye nokusebenzisa ixesha, ngokuqhelekileyo bengaboni iziphumo ngokukhawuleza.

Nangona kunjalo kukho ezinye iindawo ezikhawulezayo, kwakhona. Izemidlalo zinceda abantwana bafumane umthamo wemihla ngemihla kwaye bawaphephe ukuba bachithe ixesha xa befuna izinto ezingaphezulu. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimidlalo kunokunceda abantwana bathandane kwaye banokuthintela uxinzelelo . Kwakhona kumnandi ... kumdlali wakho kunye nentsapho yakho , naye.

Ukuhlaselwa

Njengoko nayiphi na imisebenzi yabantwana, kukho imingeni ngemidlalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kubiza kakhulu. Uza kujongana neenkqubo zengxabano kwaye ngamanye amaxesha izibophelelo ezinkulu zesikhathi. Umntwana wakho unokufumana uxhalaba kwaye awuthandi abanye abazali ojongene nabo. Kwaye ke, kukho inobungozi yangempela yokulimala .

Imibuzo

Enoba ungayidlala imidlalo, okanye izinto zitshintshile kakhulu ukusuka iintsuku ze-sandlot ze-baseball kunye ne-basketball ye-basketball imidlalo. Usenokuzibuza:

• Nini ukuqala imidlalo yokukhuphisana
• Yintoni enokuyenza xa usolisa ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa ngumlingani
• Kutheni i-kid yakho ilahlekile ngexesha lokudlala
• Uninzi kangakanani umkhwa omkhulu
• Ingaba umntwana wakho ufuna umqeqeshi wabucala
• Ukuba imidlalo yeenkolelo kunye nemikhuba iyingozi
• Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho enzima nemidlalo
• Ingaba sele iphulile kakhulu kwintsapho yakho okanye intsha yakho ukuqala umdlalo omtsha
• Xa ukuyeka ukuyiyo ingcinga efanelekileyo

Ukusebenza nabaqeqeshi

Umqeqeshi womntwana wakho unokuba ngumlingani wakho omkhulu kwimidlalo yolutsha okanye umqobo wakho omkhulu. Abalungileyo banamandla okuguqula amava omntwana wakho. Into embi ingenza umntwana wakho ashise okanye alahlekelwe ngumdla. Mhlawumbi uye wenyuka waya kumqeqeshi wakho umntwana!

Uninzi lwabaqeqeshi benza okusemandleni abo ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana banamava amahle. Ngoko ukusebenza nabo , kungekhona kubo, kukubheja phambili kwakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, banomthombo omkhulu xa unemibuzo, udinga iingcomo, okanye ufuna isiluleko.

Ukugcina Imali

Amahemuhemu ayinyaniso. Imidlalo yabantwana inokuba yindleko kakhulu-enoba ayifuni izixhobo ezininzi.

Iindleko zokuqeqesha, izambatho kunye nokuhamba zingongeza ngokukhawuleza. Ukuze ulondoloze, yenza okusemandleni akho ukubamba iindleko zezixhobo . Bhalisa ekuqaleni kweeague, iikhomishane, ukhuphiswano, kunye neeklasi. Unako ukufumana isaphulelo sokuqala-ntaka ngale ndlela (okanye ubuncinane ugweme nayiphi na imali ehambileyo). Yenza nayiphi na into efunekayo yokuvolontiya ukuze ungahlawuliswa ngokuyinqumla. I-Carpool (emva koko, ixesha liyimali kunye negesi libiza!) Kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kumathuba okuxhaswa kweqela .

Ukuthenga umdlali "osemthethweni" kunye neefoto zeekomiti zinokukubuyisela kalula i-$ 30 okanye ngaphezulu-kwintsana, ngemidlalo, ngexesha ngalinye. Thatha yakho imifanekiso endaweni okanye ubuze umhlobo onetalente ukwenza njalo. Ukuba uthanda amaqhosha omntu, ii-keychains, kunye neebhotile zamanzi ozifumanayo kwizithombe zezakhono, khangela i-Zazzle okanye i-CafePress kwaye wenze ngokwakho. Uya kulawula indlela ababukeka ngayo kwaye uchitha ixesha elingakanani.

Cinga ukukhonza ebhodini okanye kwiqela leenkokheli zeqela lakho lomntwana okanye iqela. Okona kuncinci, uya kufumana ingqiqo malunga nokuba uninzi kangakanani iinzame zeqela. Kulungile noko, mhlawumbi unokwazi ukubona iindlela zokunciphisa iindleko kunye nokunciphisa iintlawulo zomntu wonke.

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Ngokomzekelo, unokuguqula iimeyili kunye nokubhalisa kwi-imeyile ye-konnail ukuya kwi-Intanethi? Fumana iprojekthi yokuxhaswa kwemali engaphezulu? Fumana amashishini asekuhlaleni axhase iqela lakho? Faka isicelo segranti okanye i-scholarship? Yenza umtya (kunye nosapho, abahlobo, okanye osebenza nabo) ukuzisa izaphulelo okanye iminikelo?

Okubaluleke kakhulu, ncokola ngokunyanisekileyo nomntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba azame okanye ajoyine iqela elincinane. Lawa ngamaqela aphezulu kakhulu kwimidlalo yolutsha njengoko abazali kufuneka bahlawule iindleko zokuhamba, iifizi zentambo, imivuzo yabaqeqeshi, njalonjalo. Ngaba umntwana wakho ufuna ukudlala kweli nqanaba?

Zama ukuba ungabanjwa ngcinezelo kubaqeqeshi okanye nabanye abazali malunga nekhono lakho lomdlali. Basenokuthi banolwazi oluhle kwisikolo okanye kwiqela leqela kwiqhekeza leendleko. (Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abakhulileyo kumazinga aphambili okudlala badala ngokwaneleyo ukuncedisa iindleko ngeengxenye zesibonelelo sabo okanye imali abayifumana njengezipho. Basenokukwazi ukufumana imali ngemidlalo yabo ngokuqeqesha okanye ukufundisa abantwana abaselula, abakhonza njengompempe, okanye usebenza kwikampu yezemidlalo.)

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Njengomzali kumdlali omncinci, udlala ezininzi izikhundla. Uxhasa umntwana wakho (ngokomzwelo nangokwenene) kwaye uboleke isandla kubaqeqeshi nakwabalingane nabo. Ukhona khona ukukhusela nokukhuthaza umntwana wakho kunye kunye nokucima kwintsimi. Kwaye uyimodeli xa ufika kwimidlalo , ukuqina kunye nokutya. Akunzima (akukho nanye yale nto yokwenza abazali, kunjalo?), Kodwa ukuba ukhokelwa yintando yenkwenkwe yakho, uya kuphumelela lo mdlalo rhoqo.