Njengokuba ngaba isikolo esiphakathi sasingenzima ngokwaneleyo, le minyaka ibona ukuphakama kokuziphatha kakubi. Bobabini amantombazana kunye namakhwenkwe banokujamelana nokunyelisa, eqinisweni, amantombazana angase abe nako ukufumana ubunzima obunzima kunye noontanga. Indlela efanelekileyo yokufundisa umntwana malunga nokuxhaphaza kunye nabanye abahlushwa kukuqonda inkcubeko yokuxhatshazwa.
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Ileta ethi "Intombazana" yintetho esetyenziswa phakathi ukuchaza amantombazana abonakalisa ukuziphatha okuchasene nentlalo eyaziwa ngokuba yintlondlo . Eli gama lapapashwa yi-Movie Mean Girls , ejongene noLindsay Lohan. Ukuziphatha kwentombazana kubandakanya ukuhleka , ukubethekisa abanye, ukuxhaphaza, ukubuyisela, nokusebenzisa abanye ukufikelela phambili. Amantombazana abanobubele ngomzuzu omnye, kwaye uthetha olandelayo ungabhekiswa njengezitha.
Kuthetha ukuba amantombazana atholakala esikolweni, ngebhasi, nakwimisebenzi engaphezulu kwekharityhulam. Bayikulungele ukuphendulela umhlobo kumhlobo, kwaye bajolise kumantombazana ababenomona, okanye abambelela kwisihlwele. Kuthetha ukuba amantombazana athabathele kwiidrama kwaye ahlala esetyenziselwa ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyber ukuze ahluthe amaxhoba abo. Kungaba nzima ukubona intombazana enentsingiselo, njengoko iingcali zokuxhatshazwa phantsi kwe-radar yootitshala, abanye abafundi kunye nabanye abadala. Kuthetha ukuba amantombazana athatyathwa njengabadumileyo ngabaontanga babo, kodwa oko akunakwenzeka njalo.
Indlela Yokunceda Intombi Yakho Ngentombazana Ethethayo
Indlela efanelekileyo yokunceda intombi yakho ilawula umxhaphazi okanye intombazana enentliziyo kukuthetha ngeendlela zokuziphatha kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho azi ukuba usoloko ukhona ukuthetha nokuphulaphula. Ukuba u-kati wakho uyazi ukuba unokubuyela kuwe ukuze acebise, akayi kuva yedwa. Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokujongana nokuhleka okanye ukuhlukanisa.
Ukudlala indima kuyindlela enhle yokunceda ukusebenzisana kwakho kunye neengxaki ezinokuthi ziontanga zakhe.
Unokuqiniseka kwakhona ukuba phakathi kwakho kukhula ubungqina obunempilo kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze abe nenkxaso yontanga xa athe wadibana neentlanzi okanye intombazana. Ubuhlobo buyakwenziwa esikolweni, kunye nemisebenzi yangaphandle kweso sikolo. Xoxa kunye phakathi kwakho malunga nento eyenza umhlobo wokwenene, kunye neempawu afuna ukuba nabangane bakhe babe nazo. Phakamisa iindlela zakho eziphakathi ziyakwazi ukuxhasa abahlobo bakhe, ukuba kufuneka bahlangabezane neklasi bathetha intombazana. Kwakhona, thetha malunga nendlela yokujonga ubungqina okanye intombazana, kunye neendlela zokuthintela ukuhlangana okanye ukuguqulwa.
Yintoni ongayenzayo: Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhononda ngokuxhatshazwa, lixesha lokuhlawula. Ukuziphatha kakubi kunokuba yingozi, kwaye phakathi kwakho akunakwazi ukwazi ukujongana neengxaki zonke. Ukuba ukushiywa kungagqalwa, ukuxhatshazwa kungonakalisa ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokwenza ubomi bakhe bube buhlungu. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, cinga ukuqhagamshelana nesikolo ukuxhasa. Utitshala womntwana wakho okanye umcebisi wesikolo unokukwazi ukunceda phakathi kwakho.
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