Ukhuseleko lwekhompyutha luxhalaba ngabazali abaninzi, kodwa kunokuba nzima ngabazali ukuba baqhubeke nokukhusela ukhuseleko lwe-intanethi kunye nekhuseleko kwi-intanethi. Kodwa xa kuziwa kubazali bekhuseleko lwekhompyutha kufuneka baqaphele ngokukodwa. Abantwana bafika kwindawo yokunxibelelana nentlalo yonke imihla, ngamanye amaxesha bengenalo ulwazi lwabazali okanye imvume yabo. Nangona iindawo zokunxibelelana kwezentlalo zifuna ukuba abantwana babe ngaba-13 okanye 14 ukuze bazise iphepha, abaninzi abantwana bafumana indlela yabo kwiisayithi nanini.
Enyanisweni, abanye abazali baye baziwa ukuba bavule iphepha labantwana babo abancinci, ukuze bafumane umgaqo-nkqubo wendawo.
Kukho neendawo zokunxibelelana zokunxibelelana ezixhomekeke ngqo kwiimarike eziphakathi, njengeClub Penguin kunye neWebkinz. Umgca wezantsi ufuna ukuba yinxalenye yesimo somnatha woluntu kwaye ulindele ukuvunyelwa ukuba uthathe inxaxheba. Kodwa u-Stacy Dittrich, owayengumagosa wokuthotyelwa komthetho, umbhali, kunye neengcali ekukhuselweni kwekhompyutheni uthi abazali be-tween kufuneka baqaphele ngokukhethekileyo xa beza kubomi be-intanethi kunye ne-tweens yabo.
Ukunyanzeliswa koKhuseleko lwekhompyutha
Nantsi into eyenziwe nguDittrich ngokubhekiselele kwisigxina se-intanethi kunye nesekuhlaleni, kunye nokunyanzelisa intanethi ye-intanethi kunye nekhuseleko lwekhomputha.
- Abazali abangenakucatshulwa ngokubanzi ngokubhekiselele kwiinkonzo zokuxhumela intanethi. Nangona ama-5 ekhulwini abasebenzisi abenza njengama-13 kunye nabanye abantwana ngokwenene ngabantu abadala, imbambano enkulu kunxibelelwano loluntu kunye nezingane kubandakanya nokusebenzisa i- cyberbullying . "Iingxaki ezininzi ezenzeka esikolweni ziqala kwikhasi lam MySpace okanye kwenye indawo," kutsho uDittrich. "Omnye umfundi uya kuthetha inkunkuma malunga nelinye i-intanethi, kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo kunenkathazo."
- Abazali abanako ukuthembela ekunyanzelweni komthetho xa umntwana ejongene nesilwanyana okanye omnye umntwana onobudlova. "Ukusetyenziswa kwezinto zokusetyenziswa komthetho kunqongophe, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi, akukho ndlela yokulandelela umntwana wakho odibana naye, njengemidlalo yemidlalo ye-intanethi," kusho uDittrich. Inkqubo efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuthintela iingxaki ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke ngokuchazela umntwana wakho ukuba ulwazi oluyimfihlo alufanele lube nolwabelwana okanye lupapashwe kwi-intanethi.
- Abantu abathandana ngesondo bajika kwimidlalo yevidiyo ye-intanethi kuba kunzima ukuyilandelela.
- Akukho isizathu sokuba i-kati ifune okanye i-MySpace okanye iphepha le-Facebook, utsho uDittrich. Enyanisweni, uDittrich ulwa nabo kunoma yimuphi umntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-18. "Akukho nto ivelisayo okanye imiphumo emihle kumntu oneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-18 ukubandakanya kwi-intanethi," kusho uDittrich. Nangona kunjalo, ukungaphumeleli kubandakanya ukuxhatshazwa, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini kunye nokugxeka okukhulu.
- Abazali abazi okwaneleyo malunga nokunxibelelana kwezentlalo kunye nokukhuseleka kwekhompyutheni ukubeka iliso ngokupheleleyo abantwana babo okanye ukukhokela ngokufanelekileyo. Isisombululo, utsho uDittrich, kukuzifundisa. Abazali mabaqinisekise ukuba bayazi amaphepha abo abantwana ababukele kwi-intanethi, kwaye ulandelele ukuba kuyimfuneko. "Thatha iklasi, funda incwadi, okanye ucele umntwana wakho ukuba ahlale phantsi nawe kwaye akubonise apho abantwana bahamba khona kwi-intanethi kwaye bathetha ntoni ngomnye nomnye."
- Abazali bafanele bafake ikhomputha kwindawo ephakathi, njengekicikethi, ukuze baqhubeke neendlela zabo zabantwana kunye nokunyanzelisa ukhuseleko lwekhompyutha. "Akukho nzuzo yokuba umntwana wakho avaliwe kwigumbi lakhe ngeeyure ezimbini ekhompyutheni yakhe."
- Abazali bafanele bathathe inzuzo kwiibhloko zezali ezilandelela umlando wekhompyutheni yengane, ibonisa apho ikhona kwi-intanethi.
- Izingosi zokunxibelelana kwezentlalo ezifana neClub Penguin zikhangeleka kakhulu ngenxa yeemidlalo kunye neentengiso ezincinci abantwana abasebenzisayo ukuba bazimelele kwilizwe le-penguin. Khumbula, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ezinye zee-apatini ezinobungakanani be-penguin zingaba ngabantu abadala, ngoko ke abantwana akufanele baveze iinkcukacha zabo malunga nabo, apho bahlala khona, iinombolo zabo zeefowuni, okanye nokuba besini.