Abantwana banamhlanje banomatasa, kwaye xa umntwana engena kwiishedyuli zesikolo esiphakathi unokufumana. Enyanisweni, ishedyuli yengane yakho, kunye neyakho, ngamanye amaxesha inokuxhatshazwa kwaye igxininise. Kodwa ixesha lokukhululeka libalulekile kubantwana, ingakumbi njengoko bangena ebusheni nasekukhuleni. Nangona ixesha elininzi lokukhululeka linokuba yingxaki, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqinisekise ukuba phakathi kwabo kunomlinganiselo phakathi kwemisebenzi ehleliweyo kunye nexesha lakhe.
Ukuba i-middle yakho ingabonakali ukuba igcine imithwalo-mbopheleleko, mhlawumbi kuba ininzi kakhulu. Ngezantsi zimbalwa iingcamango xa uhlola ixesha lomntwana wakho.
Isizathu sokuba abantwana badinga ixesha lokukhulula
- Ixesha Elikhululekileyo livame ukugqithiswa : Abazali bahlala benesisombululo esihle, kodwa abazali abaninzi banetyala lokucwangcisa ngakumbi abantwana babo , ukucwangcisa iishedyuli zabo ngemisebenzi yecandelo elithile, umsebenzi wokuzithandela kunye nezinye iimfuno. Izizathu ezibangelwa kwindlela yokucwangcisa abantwana zininzi. Abanye abazali bafuna ukunika amathuba omntwana awazange abe nawo. Abanye banethemba lokuba abantwana babo banokukhuphisana ngakumbi kwaye balungiselele kangcono amava aphezulu esikolweni esiphambili, nangaphezulu. Nangona kubalulekile ukuba umntwana enze izinto ezithandayo, izinto ezithandwayo okanye izinto ezithandayo, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde indlela yokuzonwabisa ixesha. Uphando lubonisa ukuba abantwana abaphelile ukucwangciswa baziva bexinekile kwaye baxineke, kwaye oko kunokukhokelela kwiinkalo ezininzi ezibandakanya imiba yokuziphatha kunye nemingeni yomzwelo. Ngamanye amazwi, abantwana abangaphantsi kwexesha banokugxininiswa. Melana nomnqweno wokusayina umntwana wakho yonke imisebenzi ekhoyo. Kunoko, ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba abeke phambili umdla wakhe. Ngokwenza njalo ufundisa phakathi kwekhono lokwenza izigqibo, kwaye ixesha elide kufuneka libe yinto ephambili ekuqwalaseleni.
- I-Tween ifuna ukuCinga: Isikolo esiphakathi sinokubandezeleka. Khawuqwalasele yonke imingeni kunye nemingcipheko umfundi wesikolo esiphakathi anokujamelana nayo: ukuxhatshazwa; ukwandiswa kwemisebenzi yomsebenzi wesikolo; uxinzelelo lokuba luphumelele kwaye lukhuphisane; imiba yobuhlobo; ukutshata; ubusuku; kunye nokuninzi. Yonke loo mingeni ifuna ixesha elincinane kwinqanaba lomntwana ukuba licinge kwaye lifumane iindlela zokuyilawula. Ukuvumela umntwana wakho ithuba lokuzikhethela ukwenza oko kuya kukunceda i-kati yakho ibe yinto ebonakalayo kwaye iqhubeke. Kwaye ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba acinge ukuba anikeze ithuba lokuthetha kunye kunye nokusebenza ngemiba kunye. Ukuba uyasuka kwixanduva elinye ukuya kwelinye, ingxoxo ingaba mfutshane kwaye ikhutshwe. Vumela umntwana wakho ithuba lokuvula kuwe, okanye elinye ilungu losapho.
- I-Tweens ifuna ukuhlaziya: Abantu abadala bayaqonda ukuba kufuneka baphumule emva kweveki yomsebenzi. Tweens ahluke. Ukuba unesonto elixakeke kakhulu, mhlawumbi ufuna ukubuyela ekhaya uze ubukele umboniso omncinane. Umntwana wakho unokuvakalelwa ngendlela efanayo. Ixesha elikhululekile livumela umntwana wakho ukuba angenzi nto, okanye kwinto ekhangele phambili kuyo yonke iveki.
- Ixesha Elikhululekileyo Lenza Abantu Banovuyo: Izifundo zibonisa ukuba abantu bahlala bevuya ngakumbi ngeveki. Ngoba? Ngeveki-ntsuku, abantu baya kukhetha imisebenzi yabo, bachithe ixesha kunye nabantu abayithandayo baze bahambe kude nemisebenzi yosuku lweveki. Uyenza ingqiqo, akunjalo?
- I-Tweens idinga ixesha loSuku lokuSuku: Ukudlulela kwinto ethile abantwana bahlala begxekwa, kodwa abantwana kufuneka bahlawule, kungekhona eklasini. Ukuhamba phambili kukuvumela abantwana ukuba bacinge ngexesha elizayo ngokwabo, kwaye baqwalasele onke amathuba anokuphambi kwabo. Kodwa awukwazi ukuhamba emva kokuba ungenalo ixesha lokuphumla ukwenza njalo. Nangona ukuzenza udlale kubalulekile kubantwana abancinci kunye nabantwana besikolo sokuqala, ukuhamba ngokubaluleka kubalulekile kubantwana nabaselula. Vumela umntwana wakho ithuba lokucinga ngekamva lakhe, kwaye unokumangaliswa kweziphumo.