Iminyaka emibini iyiminyaka yokutshintshwa, imingeni, kunye neentlobo ezininzi. Bobabini kunye nekontsi yakho baya kuba neengxaki zokutshintsha komntwana wakho kwiminyaka yeshumi elivisayo nangaphezulu.
Kodwa utshintsho aluthethi ukuba le minyaka ayikwazi nokuba yiminyaka yempumelelo enkulu, isakhiwo sakhiwo kunye nokuzonwabisa. Nantsi indlela yokuncedisa phakathi kwakho ukufumana ugqozi kwimihla ngemihla, ukuze umntwana wakho enze okungakumbi kwiminyaka emibini kunye neminyaka elandelayo.
Fundisa i-kati yakho ukuze ugweme imiphumo yengqondo apho imingeni yexesha eliphakathi rhoqo izisa.
Yonwabela izinto ezincinci
Amaninzi amaninzi athambekele ekugxileni kwizinto ezingalunganga, okanye yonke into engalunganga kubo. Usuku olubi, inqaku elithethayo, umzuzu onamahlazo ungonakalisa usuku lomntwana wakho. Kodwa unokukunceda phakathi kwakho ngokumfundisa ukuba athabathe izinto ezincinci ebomini. Ukuzonwabisa ngezinto ezinjengomdlalo we-TV omhle, umzuzu wokudlala kunye nesilwanyana, okanye iqela elincinci le-ayisikrimu linokukunceda ujikelezi lwakho luphendulele i-negative into efanelekileyo. Unokukunceda phakathi kwakho ukufunda indlela yokuzonwabisa ixesha elincinane lokuphila ngokuzizonwabisa. Ukuxabisa ikomityi yekhofi efanelekileyo, isidlo esikhulu okanye umzuzu omnandi unokunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuxabisa.
Jabulela Izinto Ezinkulu
Kukho ixesha ebomini elinokuba luncedo ngokwenene, kwaye lufanelekile ukucamngca komntwana kunye nokuxabisa. Njengokuba ufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba amkele izinto ezincinci ebomini, umele ukumnceda enze iimeko ezikhethekileyo, ezifana neziqu, izithethe zentsapho, imitshato, okanye ukumkela umntwana omtsha okanye ilungu kwintsapho.
Xa kwenzeka isiganeko esikhulu, qiniseka wena kunye nentetho yakho phakathi kwayo kwaye nixoxe ngendlela le mizuzu ingayilula ngayo intsapho kunye nekamva elimthandayo. Ukuchonga amaxesha amakhulu ebomini bentsapho kwaye uncedise phakathi kwakho ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwabo kunye nendlela yokuphucula okanye ukuphucula ubomi bakho kunye.
Yamkela kwaye Uyamkele ukusilela
Ukuphefumlela phakathi kwakho ukufikelela kunye nokuphupha kuthetha ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba athathe amathuba kwaye amkele ukungaphumeleli njengenxalenye yenkqubo.
Ukuba i-middle yakho iphefumlelwe ukuba izame ukudlala umdlalo okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiqela lempikiswano, kufuneka ukuba uyazi ukuba impumelelo ayinakufika ngokukhawuleza. Kunoko, ngokuphumelela ngamanye amaxesha kuthatha iminyaka yokusebenza kanzima nokuzinikezela, kunye nokufunda kwimpazamo yinxalenye yohambo. Ukuchonga iziganeko zobomi bakho obunceda umntwana wakho aqonde ukuba ukuhluleka kudla ngokuphindaphindiweyo yinto ekhokelela ekuphumeleleni. Unokuphinda wabelane ngemibono yabasemagunyeni okanye abanye abantu abantwana bakho abanokukuchonga.
Phuma ngaphandle
Uhlobo luneendlela yokukhuthaza abantu abayidingayo, kodwa ubomi bakho obuxakekileyo phakathi kwendawo obunzima bungabaniki ixesha elaneleyo lokudlala ngaphandle okanye ukuhlola. Phakathi komsebenzi wesikolo , imisebenzi, imisebenzi kunye nezinye izibophelelo, ukudlala kwangaphandle kuthatha isitulo sangasemva kwimpilo yabantwana banamhlanje. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umxakeka kangakanani umntwana wakho (nokuba unokuba xakeke kangakanani) kubalulekile ukwenza ixesha lokuzivakalisa kwangaphandle, njengokuhamba kwendalo, ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke, okanye ukuhlola iipaki zakho zendawo. Ngomhla kwimithi okanye elunxwemeni kunokunika ithuba lakho lokuphumla, kwaye ucacise ingqondo yakhe. Zama ukwenza ixesha lakho langaphandle ithuba lokubambisana, kwaye uza kuphinda uhlawule umvuzo wamava.
Uphando lweendaba
Imbali igcwele abantu abaye banqoba, bafezekile baze baphefumlele abanye. Abantwana abaninzi banokufunda kumanani amanqaku anembali, okanye abadumileyo, kwaye baphefumlelwe ubomi babo. Yenza umntwana wakho uphando olusuka kwimbali okanye ukususela kumhla wamhlambisayo, uze ucele phakathi kwakho ukuba ahlawule ukuba kutheni ubomi babo kunye nokufezekiswa kwabo kuphefumlelwe. Usenokufuna ukwabelana ngamabali abantu ngabanye abakufumanayo obumandlayo phakathi kwakho.
Yibumba
Sonke sinako ukubonisa ubuchule bethu. Xa umntwana wakho esemncinci mhlawumbi wayenombala, edlala ne-Play-Doh okanye ekwakheni izinto ezibonakalayo kunye namanzi okuvumba.
Nangona i-kati yakho ingasayi kuthatha naziphi na izifundo zobugcisa esikolweni esiphakathi, kubalulekile ukuba aphinde athabathe kwicala lokudala. Nika umntwana wakho ngezinto zobugcisa ezifana ne-watercolors, ipensela enemibala, iifetch zeencwadi, ipende okanye udongwe. Okanye, ukuba umntwana wakho uthatha iifoto okanye ifilimu, fumana imithombo kunye nezixhobo ezinokumnceda ukuba akhulise olo cala lobugcisa. I-Tweens ethanda ukupheka okanye yokupheka nayo iphinde ifake ubuchule bayo kwaye kufuneka ikhuthazwe.
Sebenzisa ixesha kunye nezilwanyana
Ukuba i-kati yakho idinga umhlobo okhethekileyo ongayi kugweba kwaye ungumphulaphuli omhle, isilwanyana sasekhaya siya kuhlangabezana neemfuno. Izilwanyana zineendlela zokusilalisa, kwaye ngenxa yokuba zihlala ngexesha lokunceda zize zibeke phambili kwaye zifumane intsingiselo nenjabulo kwizinto ezilula. Izilwanyana zingaphinde zishukumise ukuba sikhathalele kwaye sincede, kwaye oko kukuphefumlela okuya kunceda nabani na. Khuthaza phakathi kwakho ukuba uthathe indima ebalulekileyo ekunyamekeleni kunye nempilo yezilwanyana. Buza umntwana wakho ukuba athabathe ukutya kwansuku zonke, okanye ukhuthaze phakathi kwakho ukufumana ixesha lomhla wokudlala kunye neefama zentsapho imizuzu eyi-15 okanye engama-20. Ukuba ubeka i-kati yakho ephethe ezinye zeembopheleleko zobunikazi bezilwanyana, unokufumanisa ukuba akaphefumlelwanga kuphela yinkomo yezilwanyana, kodwa kwakhona ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokuzithemba nokuzimela.
Thatha ingxaki
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufumana ugqozi ebomini bethu kukuthatha umngeni. Ukuthatha iprojekthi okanye umngeni kunokukunceda ujikeleze uthabatha kwizakhono engazange azi ukuba zikhoyo. Umntwana wakho unokufumana italente efihliweyo okanye ukuthanda into ethile kwinkqubo. Imingeni ingaquka ukujongana nomsebenzi wokuphucula ikhaya, ukwenza ukutya kwintsapho okanye ngabahlobo, okanye ukuthatha iklasi ngolwimi lwangaphandle. Iingxaki zinikele zona nsuku zonke, kodwa ukuba ukhuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuba uzikhange, kwaye ungabesabi, uya kuhlakulela inzululwazi nezinye izakhono eziya kubazuzisa ubomi babo bonke ubomi.
Uhambo
Kubonakala kulula kodwa uhambo luyindlela enhle yokuba yonke intsapho ifumane ukuphefumlelwa nokukhuthaza. Ukuhamba kuvula amehlo ethu kwizinto ezinokwenzeka, ezifana nemisebenzi, imisebenzi kunye nokufunda ngamanye amasiko kusenza siqaphele ngakumbi indawo esikuyo kwaye siyixabise yonke into esinayo. Awunayo ukuhamba phesheya kwelanga okanye kwiindawo ezinomdla ongathandabuzekiyo ukuzongena kwizibonelelo zokuhlola. Uhambo oluya kwiimyuziyam zasekuhlaleni, iifriji zezobugcisa, iipaki, okanye ezinye iindawo ezinomdla zinokukunceda ukuba phakathi kwakho kwandise indawo yakhe kunye nokufunda malunga neendawo zabo kwihlabathi.
Cinga okanye Ufunde Ukuhlaziya
Ukuphila kwakho okuxakekileyo phakathi kwendawo kunokuphazamisa ukuphuhlisa nokuthula kwengqondo. Ukufunda ukuphumla kuyisakhono abaninzi banamhlanje banalo nje, kodwa ukufunda indlela yokuphumla kunokunceda umntwana wakho ngokomzwelo, ngokwenyama nangengqondo. Ukucamngca, i-yoga, ukuqhuba okanye ukuhlala nje egumbini elincinci ngokwabo kunokuncedisa phakathi kokufunda ukuvumela iingxaki zabo zihambe kwaye zivumelane nomzuzu. Unokucinga ngokuthatha iiklasi kwi-yoga okanye ucamngce kunye ne-Y yakho okanye indawo yokuzivocavoca. Okanye, vele ukhuthaze phakathi kwakho ukuphulaphula umculo ococekileyo imihla ngemihla njengendlela yokuhlanganisa kunye nokuvuselela.
Khonze abanye
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufumana ukukhuthazwa nokukhuthazwa kukunceda abanye abanesidingo. Ukuzithandela kwicawa lakho langasese, ngokusebenzisa intlangano yoluntu okanye ngokungenzi nzuzo kwendawo kungancedisa umntwana wakho ukuba afunde indlela yokunceda abanye, kwaye abone ubomi ngokumehlo komntu ongenalucalulo. Khangela kwiivolontiya amathuba ophakathi kwakho angaba nomdla ekuthatheni, kwaye ujonge ukubenza ndawonye njengentsapho. Okanye, khuthaza uhlangothi lwakho ukuqhuba i-drive yokunikezela kwendawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana, okanye uphando olwandle lwamazwe angaphandle olunokuba lunomdla wokuxhasa.
Gcina i-Journal of Inspiration
Abaninzi abaninzi banandipha i-journaling okanye bagcina idayari yeengcamango. Ukugcina iphephancwadi yokuphefumlelwa kunokuncedisa iingcamango zakho zokurekhoda, iingcaphuno, imifanekiso, iimbasa, okanye amaphupha angaya kuwo xa kuphefumlelweyo. Iphepha liyakwazi ukuncedisa icebo lakho phakathi okanye ulungelelanise amaphupha akhe ngelixa elizayo, elinokuthi likhuthaze kunye nerekhodi. Buza phakathi kwakho ukuba ubhale phantsi izinto ezi-20 afuna ukuzenza ebomini babo, okanye ucele phakathi kwakho ubhale phansi iindlela ezili-10 ngalinye lentsapho liye laphefumlela kwaye kutheni. Usenokumangaliswa kwaye uphefumlelwe okuncane!
Buza Ngeziganeko Zemihla ngemihla
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana phakathi kwakho ukucinga ngeziganeko ezikhuthazayo okanye ukukhuthaza, mcele ukuba akuxelele into enye ebakhuthaza imihla ngemihla. Iimpendulo zakho zentlaba zinokuba zihlekisayo, zibuqili, zinzulu okanye ziyingqumbo, kodwa uya kucinga ukuba umntwana wakho ucinga malunga nendlela iimicimbi zemihla ngemihla ebomini bethu zingaba ngumthombo wokuphefumlela nokulungileyo. Qiniseka ukuba wabelane ngezihlandlo zakho ezikhuthazayo, kwaye ngubani owaziyo, usenokudala isithethe sentsapho entsha - njani loo nto yokuphefumlelwa?